Freedom and sobriety are lifetime pursuits. This is not a sprint, gentlemen, this is a marathon that ends the day you walk through the pearly gates. In this episode Eli continues his conversation with Michael and Lisa Kunz and they discuss what it can look like to stay connected and be vulnerable in marriage after acting out for the first time in years and the importance of paying attention to your heart and needs no matter how long it has been since you last acted out.

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Michael Kunz has been a Monday Nights leader for 9+ years. In this episode Eli hears his story of joining the room after years of managing a porn and masturbation addiction using his head and never getting in touch with his heart. This is part 1 of a 2 part interview with Michael and Lisa.

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In this episode Shay and Eli continue their conversation with Ken Williams and discuss the book that Ken recently published, The Journey Out, in which he shares more about his story of how Jesus led him away from identifying as gay. Ken also shares about the movement of people rallying around the world to see change happen in the LGBTQ+ community.
To connect with Ken and his team visit:
changedmovement.com
kenwilliamsministries.com

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In this episode Shay and Eli interview pastor, author, speaker, and long time Monday Nights small group leader, Ken Williams. Ken discusses his struggle, from a young age, with same-sex attraction, sexual confusion, and the freedom he found in Jesus. Ken leads an international ministry to the LGBTQ+ community, offering hope for restoration of their God-given identities as men and women.

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In this episode Shay and Eli welcome you to a new season and update everyone on what's new. They also discuss some of the challenges that keep men from committing fully to the process of getting better in the room.

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When the temperature rises the clothes come off. As men we seem to be suddenly surprised every year when we see the increase in exposed skin walking on the side of the road or we go to the pool or beach. We know it's coming, so make a plan for it. On this episode Shay and Eli discuss how to be successful during summer.
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On this episode Eli takes the hot seat and drops a 5min share about his week. He and Shay discuss handling disappointment, grieving lost desires, and having current relationships.
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It is critical that we build a foundation before creating chaos and stress with massive transition in our lives. On this episode Shay discusses the contrast between the chaos he once created in his marriage and life and the stability and momentum he now has.
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On this episode Shay and Eli address some common questions they get from new guys. They address what a good share in group looks like, what it looks like to make a good call, and they share their thoughts on masturbation and whether or not it is okay.
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The way we see ourselves, our value, our condition, and our impact on others affects how we show up and our ability to serve others and live fully alive. On this episode Aaron and Eli discuss some major belief shifts that Eli experienced after years of working on getting better.
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