When Shay arrived in the room he thought he had married the wrong woman and was doomed to live a miserable life. He dug in, got vulnerable, and began going after the hard things to get better. The fruit of the work he did is evident in his marriage, his relationship with his kids, and the friendships he has developed. On this episode Aaron Zint joins Eli as they talk with Shay about his story.
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Taylor came into the room regularly acting out and wanting to get married. His journey got him sober and free and ready. Shay and Eli talk to him about how getting sober and free set him up for a solid marriage and able to lead a men's group when he moved away.
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When tragedy hits and you are not in touch with your feelings and are unable to grieve it can be extremely defeating and send you into a tailspin. On this episode Shay discusses with our good friend, Jeff Veal, how he navigated tragedy in his life and has built a life of adventure and freedom.
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There are bits of Jesus you can only get through prolonged embrace with other people. This is the second part of Shay and Eli's conversation about Eli's story. They unpack the concept of hugging and discuss the important role it plays in our growth and freedom journeys.
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On this episode Shay interviews Eli and we get to hear his origin story and the path that led him to the room. This is Part 1 of their conversation, so stay tuned for Part 2.
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On this episode Shay and Eli interview their good friend, De'Andrew, who tells the story of going from being disconnected from his pain and tears to being fully current and present with grief and sadness. He also discusses the import role of friendship on his journey.
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We focus a lot on the work that needs to be done to "get better." There's homework, reading, facing fears, discipline, and the list goes on. BUT, without Jesus being at the center, ultimately you will work and work and still fail. On this part 2 of the conversation with Brad, Shay and Eli discuss with him the importance of continually inviting Holy Spirit into our process and submitting our hearts and minds to Christ.
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On this episode Shay and Eli interview their good friend and fellow Monday Night leader, Brad.
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In this episode Shay and Eli discuss more about the application of the sobriety mountain and what it looks like for guys who are just getting started on this journey of wholeness and purity. Sobriety is where it all begins and it's not easy... but it's totally worth it.
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When we talk about sobriety with guys, we use an illustration of a mountain they are climbing, the Sobriety Mountain. In this episode Shay discusses the purpose for the illustration and some tips and tools on navigating it, especially for the guy who is new to the concept of getting sober and ready to do whatever it takes.
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