September 1, 2025

Today's Reading: Proverbs 25:2-10

Daily Lectionary: 1 Kings 18:1-19; Ephesians 1:1-23

“Do not reveal another's secret, lest he who hears you bring shame upon you, and your ill repute have no end.” (Proverbs 25:9b-10)

In the Name + of Jesus. Amen.

Some words were never meant to be said. Proverbs teaches that the secrets of your neighbor are not to be shared. A secret is anything kept from general awareness that would bring shame if it were revealed. Whether it’s a secret crush, a regrettable past incident, or a fear few others know, no one likes to have their secrets made public.

Sometimes you have to speak, though. If the secret is dangerous to that person or to others, or to someone’s property, this should not stay secret. Because this is no longer about covering shame. This is about protecting a person. If a friend tells you he is suicidal, you need to tell people in authority who can help. The friend might not want you to. They might say they won’t trust you again if you do tell. But you need to help that person, and there are good ways to work through this situation. One good way is to encourage the other person that they should tell their harmful secret to people who love them. Parents, teachers, pastors, police officers, God gave us these authorities for such reasons. But promise to be with your friend the whole way and support them as they reveal their secret. It may be hard for them, but it is easier if you or another friend is with them.

Where someone could be harmed, a secret must be told, and in the best situation, by the person who has that secret himself. But where it’s a matter of covering someone’s shameful and regretted words, actions, or thoughts, then secrets should be kept hidden. In Eden, God covered Adam and Eve’s shame by clothing them with animal skins. God did not speak about how shameful they were. Instead, God shed blood - the first blood shed in Scripture - as a way to cover the shame of our first parents. Jesus likewise covers shame by His blood. Romans 10:11 says, “Everyone who believes in him will not be put to shame.” So Jesus takes our shame away as the pure Gospel that faith clings to is preached. The Lord’s Supper likewise applies Jesus’ blood on you. And shame is covered and removed.

Proverbs directs us to speak like God. Since God does not uncover shame, let us not uncover our neighbor’s shame. Let us speak the truth in love, having love so that our neighbor’s personal shame is not revealed. In this way, we treat our neighbor the way that God has treated us.

In the Name + of Jesus. Amen.

Help us that we Thy saving Word In faithful hearts may treasure; Let e’er that Bread of Life afford New grace in richest measure. O make us die to every sin, Each day create new life within, That fruits of faith may flourish. (LSB 693:2)

Rev. Robert Mayes, pastor at Immanuel Lutheran Church and Zion St. John Lutheran Church, Beemer and Wisner, NE.

Audio Reflections Speaker: Pastor Jonathan Lackey is the pastor at Grace Lutheran Church, Vine Grove, KY.

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