Money Sex Business & Awakening with Alex Harvey

Simone went from crickets at the launch of her first three product lines… booked out with a waitlist for custom pieces, sought out to be on the cover of a magazine, and stocked in stores across the US, including Hollywood and New York.

"How?" You might ask...

It had nothing to do with working harder.

And it had nothing to do with a magical marketing strategy or hiring PR.

It had everything to do with where she gave herself permission to go both within herself, and then out into the world.

It’s rarely the outer world holding us back from the incredible things we desire to create and share (even if it feels like it)… it’s much more often the voices in our head that tell us what we can and can’t do that cause the downfall of our dreams.

In this raw, honest interview, Simone Pansino generously shares what it was really like to launch her first product lines, what was really going on in her head when things didn’t go as she expected, and how she turned it all around to find not only her flow, but and abundance of opportunities she never could of dreamed would actually appear once she owned the very thing she most wanted to do but didn’t think would work.

Get your tissue box.

Pull out a pen to take notes when “ah-ha’s” hit.

And get ready to feel like anything is possible again.

The world doesn’t need another brilliant woman holding herself back. It needs you to stop hiding what only YOU are here to offer.

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LINKS TO FIND ALEX

Send a DM on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexh.co/

Apply for a free coaching discovery call: https://forms.gle/SDouCvrJJPXscaG56

Get Alex’ book, Be Unacceptable: https://beunacceptablebook.com/

Visit Alex’ YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@alexhco

Enquiries: [email protected]

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LINKS TO FIND SIMONE & WE THE STARS

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Custom Jewellery Booking: https://www.wethestarsco.com/pages/custom-jewellery-enquiries

Feel blocked from embodying confidence in the way you market and sell yourself in your business? It has nothing to do with your “ability” to deliver and everything to do with what I’m about to share in this episode.

In this episode:

• The somatic session that exposed the shame I thought I'd already worked through – and the unconscious guilt list I found underneath it
• Why guilt makes you retreat or perform, and why your audience can FEEL the difference between performance and embodiment
• Why owning your "failure" makes you a more effective and more magnetic leader – not less
• The higher-perspective shift that brings back your certainty, conviction and unfuckablewith confidence in your work.

If you're a woman building a business who keeps feeling like you’re failing at truly representing and honouring the full value and magic you have to share in your business – this episode is for you, baby.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Stop Shoulding Yourself

02:25 Performance vs Connection

03:44 Why Shame Shows Up

06:48 The Guilt Inventory

09:10 Perfectionism Spiral

12:12 Higher Perspective Reset

18:26 Owning Your Process

21:01 Leader Not Perfect

23:19 Reflection and Wrap Up

Feeling behind in life or business? Like everyone else is ahead and you should have done more by now?

In this episode I share what actually happened to the people I used to compare myself to — the ones who "catapulted" past me, hit seven figures, built huge followings while I was still finding my feet. Spoiler: I went looking for them recently. They're gone. Vanished. Accounts closed, businesses dropped, nowhere to be found.

This isn't another "comparison is the thief of joy" pep talk. This is 12 years of watching people rise and disappear in the online business space, and what it taught me about why comparing your journey to anyone else's is built on completely false data — and why, if you truly saw your own path, you wouldn't trade it anyway.

In this episode:

• The client conversation that sparked this — "I met a guy who built seven businesses by 20... what have I done?"
• The woman who claimed herself with zero validation, skyrocketed to seven figures... then vanished for two years
• The "premium positioning" trap: why selling off hot air always comes crashing down
• Why 95% of you would NOT actually want Tony Robbins' life (and what that reveals about your dharma)
• The hero's journey: why your "flaws" are the treasure you're here to bring back
• What an astrologer told me about my own timeline — and why a slower path isn't a wrong one

If you're the woman who feels like she should be further along by now — this episode is going to set you free from that loop.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Why Comparison Hurts

02:07 Client Behind Feeling

04:17 Entrepreneur Journey Lessons

05:59 Chloe Success Then Vanish

14:44 Sarah Premium Mirage

22:27 Why Paths Differ

23:39 Dharma Not Tony

26:59 Timing Astrology Note

30:13 Hero’s Journey Framework

34:24 My Life Couldn't Fit

38:55 Childhood Trapped Roots

42:37 Final Takeaways

You look around, and it feels like everyone is selling the thing you sell. So why should you even bother? How can YOU be noticed? You don’t want to add the noise anyway.

Here's the trap: trying to fit in is the exact thing that drops you into the sea of competition.

This isn't another "find your niche" episode, or your USP, making you even more anxious about “all that competition” - in this episode I’m going to show you how to eliminate any sense of “competition” entirely.

In this episode:

• Why making your offer more "acceptable" guarantees you stay in competition
• The client who took herself out of the race entirely with one shift — not in strategy, in ownership
• The edgy money framework I scrapped overnight out of fear, and what it cost me
• How creating from your turn-on doesn't just differentiate you — it unlocks your genius and makes visibility effortless
• Why the work that feels unviable is usually your most magnetic

If you've been quietly suppressing the most alive part of your work so you’re not “rejected”, this is the episode that gives it back to you.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Standing Out Today

01:26 Jewellery Story Lesson

02:52 Category Of One

07:15 My Unique Method

12:52 Signature Programs

16:41 Purpose Behind Products

22:11 Survival Brain Fear

25:44 Create From Turn On

27:57 Edgy Idea Regret

31:04 Owning Your Message

34:08 Book And Wrap Up

Real self-love isn't affirmations or forcing yourself to feel beautiful — it's learning to embrace the parts of you that you reject.

You catch a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and feel disgust. You judge what you create. You quietly reject the parts of you that aren't perfect, in control, or attractive — and then wonder why you can't access your creativity or your flow.

This isn't a "look in the mirror and tell yourself you're beautiful" episode. It's a completely different way of understanding self-love — through wholeness, and through learning to love even the part of you that does the rejecting.

If you've done all the self-love "work" and still catch yourself in self-judgment, this is the episode that will completely change your relationship with yourself.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 What Self Love Really Is

01:54 A Body Image Trigger

02:56 Embracing The Rejected Parts

05:02 Self Love Fuels Creation

08:29 Ego Concepts And Judgment

09:50 Judging Others Mirrors You

10:44 Loving The Inner Critic

11:51 Morning Self Love Practice

15:19 Divine Mother Visualization

18:01 Apply It To Your Creations

18:55 Closing And Share This

The story you tell yourself to feel safe is the same story cutting you off from your business, your creativity, and your turn-on.

You put something vulnerable out into the world — a launch, a post, your real heart — and it doesn't land the way you hoped. And quietly, without even noticing, you shut down. You tell yourself you don't care, you withdraw, you hold your full expression back. You justify it to yourself with a convenient “story” you construct.

This isn't another episode on mindset or confidence hacks. It's a raw, real-time breakdown of how a protective story forms, how it disconnects you, and how to actually drop it — told through what happened at a singing workshop that cracked Alex wide open.

In this episode;

• Get this full learning experience through the lens of the singing workshop Alex attended, how her “protective story” came in and what she had to do to drop it.
• Why your protective story always disconnects you from your business and the people you're here to serve
• The offhand comment about her singing at six years old that shaped decades of shutting down
• What "let it bleed" actually means — and why feeling the raw wound brings your energy back
• The link between dropping the story and your creative life force returning

If you're building a business that's truly yours and you keep catching yourself shrinking, withdrawing, or going numb right when it matters most — this is the episode.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Tears and Breakthrough

02:42 Ego Stories in Business

06:05 Singing Shame Origin

10:58 Choosing the Workshop

13:46 Solo Singing Trigger

18:07 Final Circle Shutdown

28:38 Crying It Out at Home

34:15 Let It Bleed Practice

41:28 Past Wound Example

48:02 Open Heart Integration

55:17 Closing Thoughts and Next Episode

Most women think going "feminine" in business means going passive. It doesn't — and trying to run your business from constant masculine energy is exactly what's burning you out.

If you're a woman whose work depends on your creativity, your wisdom, or your artistry — pushing harder is not getting you further. In this episode, I'm sharing 5 simple, practical ways to run your business from feminine energy without losing your drive, ambition, or momentum. These aren't conceptual. There are things you can do today.

This isn't a soft "just slow down" episode. This is about understanding why feminine energy is actually a more effective business strategy for women than the masculine hustle model — and the 5 specific shifts that change how you source your energy, your ideas, and your results.

In this episode:

• Why your creativity (not your hours worked) is what actually generates your results
• The story of how I left my engineering job — and the moment of realisation that changed everything
• How to downregulate your nervous system so you can actually access your genius
• Why needing to know how it's going to happen is keeping you in masculine and out of magnetism
• The single shift you can make to every task today that brings you into feminine energy
• The mind-bender of "don't do as much as you possibly can" (and why this works better)

If you're tired of grinding, terrified of going passive, and ready for a third option — this is the episode.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Feminine vs Hustle

01:15 Creativity Creates Results

04:38 Receptivity Not Passivity

05:41 Lead With Desire

06:10 Engineering Exit Story

13:02 Logic and AI Trap

17:47 Downregulate Nervous System

21:02 Create Spaciousness

24:30 Release Need To Know

26:30 Do It Pleasurably

31:28 Do Less Better

34:21 Wrap Up and Next Steps

You’ve tried saying “no” more. You've tried rest days on the weekend. You've tried "just getting past this one busy period." And yet here you are again, sick of hearing yourself say “I'm burnt out, I'm overwhelmed, I can't stop”. In this episode, I'm naming the actual root cause of entrepreneur burnout — the one nobody in the productivity or work-life balance space is talking about — and walking you through the exact 4-step process I use with my Feminine Mystery School clients to break the pattern.

This isn't another burnout recovery episode about time management or boundaries. This is about what's happening in your nervous system and your ego that's keeping you stuck in the cycle of feeling permanently behind, no matter how much you take off your plate.

In this episode:

• Why every "lighten the load" strategy you've tried has failed (and the belief in not-enoughness driving it)
• The mirage your brain keeps dangling — why hitting the next income level or follower count won't fix the burnout
• How operating from threat physically cuts you off from your creative genius and intuition
• The difference between a lot going on and being in stress — most high-achieving women can't tell them apart anymore
• The 3-step process to break the cycle in real time and get back into your turned-on, magnetic creative state

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Burnout Loop Explained

00:44 Why Load Shifting Fails

03:31 Not Enough Belief

05:56 The Dangling Carrot Trap

07:21 Everything Becomes Urgent

09:39 Stress Kills Genius

18:08 Collapse Is Not Rest

20:52 Step One Name The Threats

23:26 Step Two Make Peace

32:44 Step Three Follow Turn On

40:31 Take The Next Desire Step

41:00 Wrap Up Next Resources

In this episode, I share a pattern I keep catching — in myself, in my clients, in a recent conversation with a friend — where you start from genuine inspiration and devotion, and then somewhere in the action-taking, you lose the thread completely. You go from connected and alive to rigid, stressed and purely calculated. And you don't even notice it's happened until everything feels hard.

• The moment I realised my YouTube excitement had turned into a stressed, controlling spiral
• Why "how do I get more people into this" is the most turned-off energy you can bring to your business
• What it actually feels like when you've disconnected from your creation — and the signs most women miss
• The shift that brings you back every time (and it's not more strategy)

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Calculated vs Devoted

01:00 Create From The Heart

04:15 Devotion As A Practice

07:01 Masculine Feminine Flow

09:51 When Logic Takes Over

13:37 YouTube Analytics Spiral

19:28 Structures Without Rigidity

23:39 Reconnect To The Source

26:10 Friend Case Study Shift

30:08 Surrender Control Avoid Burnout

31:30 Tools To Return To Devotion

33:27 Wrap Up And Invitation

You say you want visibility. But every time you go to put yourself out there fully, your nervous system shuts down.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason so many women struggle to consistently share themselves, build their brand, speak their truth, and allow themselves to be seen… AND exactly HOW to create nervous system safety to be seen.

Because this isn’t actually a content problem. It’s a visibility wound.

Inside this episode:

• Why visibility feels genuinely unsafe to your nervous system
• The hidden connection between childhood conditioning and online self-expression
• The real meaning of vulnerability (and what most people get wrong)
• How to unhook comparison and the painful retreat if you feel rejected or ignored
• How to dissolve self-consciousness
• The secret key for women that no one talks about

This episode is for the woman who craves getting her work out into the world on a might bigger level but knows her system is holding her back from being fully visible… if that’s you, let’s go, baby! See you inside.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Welcome and Theme

01:22 Why Being Seen Feels Scary

02:30 My Visibility Journey

06:26 Childhood Roots of Hiding

12:03 Why Women Feel the Pressure

13:50 Step One Self Validation

21:47 Step Two Vulnerability

32:03 Step Three Connect to Turn On

36:10 Step Four Process Triggers

39:30 Bonus Safe Sisterhood Support

43:09 Wrap Up and New Program