Money Sex Business & Awakening with Alex Harvey

In this episode, I share a raw and honest reflection on my journey with receiving 1:1 coaching nonstop over the past 5 years… and why I stopped two weeks ago.

This is real, honest chat about my journey before I invested in long-term 1:1 coaching, and how I made the transition into having non-stop coaching for the past 5 years… until two weeks ago.

I also break down the deeper truth about investing in yourself, why most people hold themselves back, and what it actually takes to create the life and business you know you’re here for.

Inside this episode:

• Why waiting for your business to “pay for it” is keeping you stuck
• The real reason you place conditions on investing in yourself
• What mentorship has actually given me (beyond money or results)
• Why backing yourself fully is the shift that changes everything
• I’ve spent over $100k with this coach — was it worth it??

If you’ve been hesitating, waiting, or unsure when to hire a coach (or questioning and getting in your head about how much money you should actually spend on coaching), this episode is a must listen!

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Instagram — @beunacceptable

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Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

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Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Why This Episode Now

01:03 Two Mentorships Wrap Up

01:59 Selective About Coaches

03:18 The Weird Ending Tease

05:01 Personal Development Backstory

07:10 Money Blocks Around Coaching

10:51 Coaching Industry Hot Air

13:39 Finding William Whitecloud

17:22 From Courses to Coaching

19:37 First Framework Coaching

21:10 Going All In On Training

25:49 Investing In William One to One

28:18 How William Leveled Up Her Work

33:55 Repeating Trainings Goes Deeper

34:50 Trainings Need Repetition

36:35 Why Coaching Matters

37:44 One System vs Patchwork

38:37 Success Block Contraction

42:27 Reclaiming Inner Authority

44:04 Building a Feeling Process

46:36 Integration After Launch

52:20 Funding Mentorship Mindset

59:21 Completing With William

01:06:19 Final Choose Yourself

In this episode, I dive into the deeper truth behind people pleasing, how it shows up in micro ways every day in business and on social media… and why it’s not actually about being kind, but about trying to control how others perceive you.

Through real-life examples from my own interactions (including a kinda spicy one!), I show you how subtle and unconscious this pattern can be and how it quietly shapes your communication, decisions, and boundaries.

Inside this episode:

• Why people pleasing is actually a form of control and manipulation
• The hidden fear driving your need to be liked, understood, or approved of
• How over-explaining and over-giving keep you stuck and drained
• What it looks like to choose your truth — even when it feels uncomfortable
• How to stop managing other people’s perceptions and start being real

If you’ve ever felt like you need to explain yourself, keep the peace, or make sure everyone feels good—this episode will change the way you see it.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Welcome and Theme

00:49 Creating From Whats Alive

01:57 People Pleasing Roots

03:21 Social Media Pleasing Patterns

05:54 Recent Triggering Situation

08:26 Gym Reply and Queen Vibes

10:35 Power Dynamics Explained

14:52 Receiving Without Deflecting

18:37 Replying Without Owing

24:46 Slave Offer and Exploration

27:32 Aftercare and Overgiving

30:36 Clear Boundaries No Explaining

33:49 Humiliation Request Check-In

35:29 Realizing Zero Desire

38:02 People Pleasing Aftermath

41:00 People Pleasing Is Control

45:06 Gaslighting Vibes and Validation

49:42 Owning Your Truth Anyway

53:04 Another Date Red Flag

56:03 Business Boundaries Practice

58:36 Emailing and Social Replies

01:02:11 Permission Not to Please

In this episode, I break down what it actually means to “receive” life and why most people are unconsciously resisting it, without even realising.

Through real-time examples from my own day (including things not going to plan, feeling triggered, and navigating frustration), I show you the difference between resisting what’s happening vs receiving and how this directly impacts your ability to create what you want.

This is one of the most important shifts you can make if you want to stop feeling thrown off, like you have to do everything yourself, unsupported or blocked by life.

Inside this episode:

• The subtle (but powerful) difference between receiving vs resisting
• Why things “not going to plan” only derail you if you let them
• How your ego creates stories that keep you stuck and reactive
• What it actually looks like to use everything that happens as fuel
• A simple way to move forward — no matter what’s happening around you

If you’ve ever felt like your day, your mood, or external circumstances keep throwing you off, this episode will completely shift how you see it.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 New Recording Setup

01:14 Upload Disaster Story

04:36 Recovery And Lessons

06:40 Switching Recording Workflow

07:27 What It Means To Receive

08:18 Morning Plans Go Sideways

10:09 Resistance Versus Receiving

13:44 Triggers And Ego Stories

17:14 Using What Is To Create

25:13 Turn On Code Explained

29:24 Everything Happens For You

29:59 Life As Raw Clay

31:14 Ego Stories And Triggers

33:56 Victim Attachment

36:01 Receiving Saves Energy

37:23 Wrist Injury Wake Up Call

41:21 Rehab As Opportunity

43:45 Stop Resisting Reality

47:31 Receiving Versus Resisting

53:26 Acro Villa Perspective Shift

57:38 Wrap Up And Call To Action

After fracturing my wrist, I was reminded in a very real way that there is a deeper intelligence at play — one that knows how to bring things together far beyond what we can consciously figure out. This episode is about learning how to work with that… instead of exhausting yourself trying to do it all alone.

Inside this episode:

• Why trying to control everything is creating stress, burnout, and resistance
• The subtle difference between doing your part vs trying to do everything
• How to shift from force and over-effort into flow and co-creation
• What my fractured wrist revealed about trust, healing, and creation
• How to start letting life support you (without becoming passive or avoidant)

If you’ve been feeling like it’s all on you—or like you’re doing everything but nothing is working—this episode will open up a completely different way of creating.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

⚡ FIND ALEX’ BRAND ~ DARE ~

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

⏰ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS

00:00 Welcome Back From Bali

00:17 New House New Setup

02:28 Finding The Episode Theme

03:36 Control Burnout And Trust

07:04 Creative Cycles Not Hustle

12:26 Big Fruiting Season Recap

14:05 Leaning Into The Feminine

18:03 Thailand Wrist Fracture Lesson

21:54 Greater Intelligence In Healing

26:23 Letting Life Come Together

28:49 Effortless Alignment

29:42 Wrist Healing Lesson

30:16 Body Intelligence Basics

30:58 Poop Analogy Setup

31:52 Pushing Versus Surrender

35:31 Creation Without Control

37:55 Do Your Part

39:56 Bali Villa Manifestation

44:38 Clients Remember Support

46:50 Let Go Reflection

49:05 Next Episode Tease

51:55 Share And Review

In this episode, Alex dismantles exactly what’s happening when you’re trying to create, but nothing feels right, and you can’t seem to write, speak or do the thing you’ve planned to… and exactly what to do to come back into your heart & find your authentic ALIVENESS again.

Drawing from her lived creative process, Feminine Alchemy, and the principles behind Be Unacceptable, this episode explores:

• Why forcing yourself to be somewhere you’re not disconnects you from your truth & turns into performance mode - which feel horrible!
• Why feeling blocked doesn’t mean you’re off-track — and what it’s really showing you.
• The role of devotion, follow-through, and self-trust in real creative momentum.
• How power is reclaimed not by feeling “on top the world again” — it’s claimed by THIS [listen to find out].

You don’t need to fix yourself or learn how to override your ‘bleh’ feelings to be powerful and creative. 

You need to know how to follow the path back to what’s alive and be brave enough to step onto it. That’s what this episode does.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

In this episode, Alex dismantles the illusion of permission and reveals why waiting for recognition, success, confidence, followers, qualifications, or approval is the very thing keeping you stuck.

Drawing from Be Unacceptable and Code Four: You Are the Permission You’ve Been Waiting For, this conversation exposes:

• Why no one is coming to give you permission
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• How acting “smaller than you are” is actually an unconscious performance
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• Why your circumstances don’t change before you step up—they change because you do
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• The moment everything shifts when you stop waiting and start owning your authority
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This is a call to stop postponing your life.

You don’t need permission to be who you already are.

You just need to claim it. 

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

Every decision you make answers this — whether you realise it or not.

In this episode, Alex breaks down the core question behind confusion, self-doubt, and feeling stuck: are you making your life about safety, approval, and security… or about living your true nature and purpose?

Drawing from Code One of Alex’ new book, Be Unacceptable, The Holy Hot Service of Self-Worship, this episode reveals why trying to “secure life first” keeps you in conflict, and how everything becomes simple once you choose what your life is actually for.

This is a foundational episode for women ready to stop straddling two paths—and fully choose their own.

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

Ok, here is the long-awaited next podcast episode — YES, I WROTE MY BOOK! And had a book launch, and launched it on Amazon, and hit best seller in one of my categories within 24hrs (without doing any Amazon launch tactic), alongside completing and launching the Dare Silk Collection, Dare Elevate Collection & Dare Glass Pleasure Collection… all at the same event.

Listen to this episode to hear about the process and exactly what’s happened in the last 3 months in my last episode… it’s been a lot!

📖 GET THE BOOK

Be Unacceptable — https://beunacceptablebook.com

Instagram — @beunacceptable

👉 FIND ALEX

Alex on Insta — @alexh.co.

YouTube channel — @alexisharvey.

The Modern Woman Academy website — themoderwoman.academy

🍆 FIND DARE

Dare website — https://darethelabel.co/ 

Dare Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/darethelabel.co

I’ve been talking about writing this book for years now… and yet here we are, two years later, and it still isn’t finished. In this episode, I take you deep, deep, deep behind the scenes (of my consciousness) into the real reasons I’ve been avoiding it.

This is not a normal podcast episode - in this episode I take you along with me through my own process of uncovering why I haven’t been writing the book. It’s 100% raw, real, bts.

It isn’t just about writing a book - it’s about what we all avoid, what we fear being seen for, and the ways we hold ourselves back from our own creative genius. My hope is that by sharing my process in such a vulnerable way, it sparks something inside of you, too.

I hope you love this one. 💖

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy

In this raw and honest update, I share the next layer of what I’m working through in my weight loss/ health journey - and what I’ve been learning (of which there are two main things that I share in this ep!).

For years, I’ve oscillated between two modes: total food freedom, where I feel light, radiant, and intuitive with eating… and the dark spiral of compulsion, emotional eating, and shame.

This year, I’ve been facing this pattern head-on and sharing about what I’m learning through this process - which has been sooooooo rich. Omg.

In this episode, I dive into:

⚡️ What shifted when I decided to sit with the unbearable sensation instead of numbing it with food

⚡️ The truth about programs and patterns that run our lives if we don’t stop them

⚡️ Why your results in body, business, and life are always a direct match for who you are “being”

⚡️ The crucial difference between doing something for a temporary result and embodying it as your new identity

Whether your struggle is with food, business consistency, or self-sabotage, this episode will show you how to recognise the unconscious programs running you - and how to finally liberate yourself from them.

👉 WHERE TO FIND ALEX & GET MORE

• Find me on Insta and DM me here @alexh.co.
• Subscribe to my YouTube channel @alexisharvey.
• Visit my website for my latest offerings here themoderwoman.academy