In this episode of Moore with Gaby, we’re going deeper than "cookie-cutter" advice. I’m sharing the raw truth about where people-pleasing actually starts—on a couch at five years old, waiting for a belt.

If your life feels like a public park where anyone can walk in and dump their trash, this is for you. We’re discussing the "Hotel Lobby" problem, the "No-Rep" rule of growth, and why you never owe a "Taker" an explanation for your peace.

The Core Distinction

The Strong Woman: She is the "Fixer." She is "Easy Access." She carries the weight of her Mom’s drama, her sister’s crisis, and her team’s laziness because she can. She is burned out because she has no wall.

The Woman of Strength: She is a leader. She knows that Common = Cheap. She protects her time like a Penthouse, not a Hotel Lobby. She is responsible to people, but not for them.

During this episode, you will learn about;

[00:06] What in for you in today’s show

[00:18] How Gaby started her coaching business

[02:20] What next in life when we hit the walls

[05:13] Taking responsibility for your pivotal moments

[06:56] Holding on and protecting your vision

[09:42] Cultivating courage and being around the association that believes in you

[10:44] Evolving to serve your purpose

[12:54] Stepping out and taking that leap of faith

[15:52] Showing up and changing the world through your story

[18:11] Building your stamina and living by your means  

[19:51] Take my believe and run with it to make a difference

[20:19] How to get in touch and hang out with me

Notable Quotes

“Sometimes we fake it for so long that it’s so hard to turn around.”

“The world is a better place because you’re in it.”

“Your vision is the key to success.”

“It’s okay to leave something that doesn’t serve you.“

“Life is all about evolving and changing.”

“It’s okay sometimes to win and sometimes to fail.”

Connect With Gaby

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsKTPluuV9YGqlNbeczf-0A

Twitter, IG, Snapchat: @moorewgaby

www.moorewgaby.com

[00:07] What in for you in today’s episode.

[00:26] Moving out of the hoods opened new opportunities for me.

[01:01] How Gaby got her first job as an Elevator Operator and her experience.

[04:36] How Gaby moved up the corporate ladder and what she learned.

[07:39] Gaby job as an assistant in sales and how she embraced her career.  

[08:42] How Gaby used rejection as a motivation to be the best sales representative. 

[10:07] How Gaby was elevated to being the director of sales because of her character.

[13:01] Gaby’s mission and what she was willing to sacrifice to be who she wanted to be.

[17:11] Owning your choices, embracing your journey and pivoting. 

[18:13] The qualities that make Gaby successful in sales.

[21:31] Motivating yourself to move forward and accomplish your goals.

[23:18] How to connect and reach out to Gaby.

• “Opportunity and luck only happen when you’re prepared and disciplined.” 
• “We are not perfect, but consistency, persistence, and discipline will make us successful.”
• “People are in your life for a reason and for a season.”
• “Life and career choices have their consequences, and you have to own up.”
• “It’s never too late to pivot.”
• “Say no to some things so you can say yes to big things in life.”

During this episode, you will learn about:

[00:01] Intro. 

[02:37] The responsibilities that come with coming from migrant parents. 

[04:32] Coach Carrera experience and motivation after his dad passed away. 

[08:22] Living under other people expectations versus your expectation. 

[10:00] Learning creativity and the ability to use your skills.

[15:17] The value of a coach in helping you maximize your potential. 

[18:43] Coach Carrera strategy that has helped him transform many lives.

[23:33] The power of planning for your goals to achieve your vision.

[26:31] Embracing change and moving past emotional uncertainty.

[32:13] Coach Carrera mission in helping people be their best self.

[38:21] Giving hope and changing your community.

[41:11] Overcoming the fear of the unknown and manifesting your dream. 

[47:38] The importance of asking for help and how this led to Gaby’s coaching breakthrough.

[51:59] Increasing your capacity and bandwidth to achieve more in life. 

[53:57] Living your life with intention and awareness to manifest your goals.

[57:43] Aligning your mindset with what you want and living your potential.

[01:02:34] Using self-talk to cultivate an inspiring belief system.

[01:06:58] What to focus on when influencing people as a leader.  

[01:10:26] Ending the episode at a light note.    

• “A goal without a plan is just a dream.“
• “There is no right way of growing up, your journey is unique to the direction you take.”
• “The biggest way you can teach someone that they live in something less fortunate is exposing them in something more fortunate.”
• “Dream bigger than your eagle.”
• “It takes less energy to be successful than it’s to fail and recover success.”
• “With answers comes confidence, and with confidence comes the next step of faith, which could be your next breakthrough. 

During this episode, you will learn about:

[00:01] Intro. 

[00:19] The real definition of fear and how we mask fear in our lives. 

[02:13] Beating fear in our career and entrepreneurship journey.

[03:07] Healing from childhood fears and getting your breakthrough. 

[05:57] Coming into sense with your faith and what resonates with you.

[08:09] Taking control of your life and finding your perfect path.

[09:56] Being okay being with you and giving your all.

[13:20] Getting away from the fear of what people say and paving ways for your success.

[14:56] What happens when you shift the energy for fear to being fearless. 

[17:10] How to reach out and connect with Gaby. 

• “Putting great thoughts and expectations eliminates fear.”
• “It sucks not doing things because of fear.”
• “It’s okay to go against the grain to be who you are meant to be.”
• “Bumps in life are not meant to destroy us; they’re meant to shape us.“
• “Hurt people hurt people.”

During this episode, you will learn about:

[00:01] Intro.

[00:28] What in for you in today’s episode.

[00:43] Discovering your true self during adversity and life challenges. 

[01:33] Gaby life’s coach and how she met him. 

[04:48] How Gaby’s life coach changed her life.

[05:55] The importance of seeking help and helping others without ridicule.

[08:40] Accepting your journey, who you’re and your contribution to the world. 

[12:00] Living your life by design and to your expectations.

[14:06] Getting a life coach to hold you accountable for your actions and goals.

[15:19] Creating excuses will not propel you forward.

[17:20] Believing in yourself and stepping above what people think about you

[19:34] Gaby’s unique relationship with her coach, who she sees as a father.

[22:41] Call to action.

• “You’ve to go through challenges in order to evolve as a person.”
• “No matter the direction the wind blows, stay deep-rooted in your heart.”
• “Anyone looking for an excuse is going to find one.”
• “Everybody got something to say about your life, but that is non of your business.”
• “Without doing extra work, don’t expect extraordinary results. “

During this episode, you will learn about:

[00:01] intro

[00:40] What in for you in this week’s episode

[00:53] Gaby's childhood and career backstory

[02:47] Giving back to the world around you

[04:33] Gaby’s dad alcoholism and his death 

[06:15] Gaby's career coach and how she found her career path

[08:15] What keeps Gaby motivated in her journey 

[09:21] Showing up and being consistent every day

[13:30] Writing your goals down and accomplishing them 

Connect with Gaby: on Instagram @moorewgaby

[15:32] Gaby’s vision and goal in the coaching space 

[16:33] Starting with belief, persistence, routine, and commitment 

[18:02] Living up to your potential and making a difference 

[19:11] Call to action 

• You cannot give from an empty tank. 
• You’re the outcome of people you surround yourself with.
• If you show up every day, you will be ahead of the game.
• Why dream small when the sky is the limit 
• If something does not add value, it’s not important.
• You were created for a purpose. with a purpose and on purpose.