What if you’re not actually rebuilding who you are… but remembering?

In this episode, I explore the shift from performance-based identity to living in alignment with your true self — your values, boundaries, and inner knowing.

So many of us learn early on that our self-worth is tied to achievement, recognition, and meeting expectations. Over time, this can turn into people-pleasing, perfectionism, and a constant need for external validation — leaving you feeling disconnected, stuck, or unfulfilled.

But what happens when that way of being stops working?

This episode of the More Than Lucky Podcast is an invitation to slow down, reflect, and reconnect with what actually matters. We talk about what it looks like to move away from performance-driven living, how to identify your core values, and how those values shape your confidence, decisions, and relationships.

If you’ve been feeling out of alignment, navigating an identity shift, or questioning the life you’ve built, this conversation will help you come back to yourself.

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Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

Throughout our lives, we take on roles — sometimes intentionally, and sometimes simply because life, family dynamics, or circumstances place them on us.

In this episode of More Than Lucky, I’m exploring what it means to let go of identities and expectations that may have shaped us for years but no longer feel aligned with who we’re becoming. During seasons of personal growth and life transition, these roles can quietly influence the choices we make and the pressure we place on ourselves.

Maybe you’ve been the responsible one.
 The one who doesn’t disappoint.
 The one who stays quiet, keeps the peace, or carries more than your share.

These identities can shape how we see ourselves — and how we believe we’re expected to show up in the world.

I also reflect on how even positive change can challenge the identity we’ve built around a habit, a role, or a way of being. When we release these identities, it can leave us wondering who we are without them.

Today’s conversation is about learning how to let go without burning everything down — and how to move forward with clarity while honoring the parts of ourselves that got us here.

At the end of the episode, I share this week’s gentle practice: The Soft Unhook — a small reflection to help you notice the roles or expectations you may be ready to loosen your grip on.

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

There’s a space many women experience — but rarely name.

It’s the quiet, sometimes uncomfortable season between who you were and who you’re becoming.

In today’s episode, we’re talking about the in-between — that season of reinvention where clarity hasn’t fully arrived, the old ways don’t quite fit anymore, and you’re not entirely sure who you are right now. It’s not a dramatic transformation story. It’s not the polished “after.” It’s the middle.

If you’re navigating a life transition, identity shift, or subtle personal reinvention in your 30s or 40s, this conversation will help you normalize the discomfort, zoom out, and move forward with calm confidence.

Because growth doesn’t always look bold.
 Sometimes it looks like sitting patiently in the unknown — and trusting who you’re becoming.

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

On this episode Stephanie talks about Gabby Bernstein's manifesting challenge and what was different about the experience this year. Stephanie also talks about Lucky Girl Syndrome (didn't even know it was a thing until now!) and how you can cultivate your own lucky girl mindset.

Short and sweet episode.

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

In this week's episode Stephanie talks about signing up for Gabby Bernstein's manifesting challenge for the third year. After two years of manifesting unbelievable change, this year's challenge offers so much opportunity to grow this into a daily practice.

Stephanie also starts to read Gabby's book Super Attractor. Hear this review of the intro to the book and join the journey by reading and or just listening along. Super Attractor comes at the right time (of course!) to teach how to strengthen your daily spiritual practice.

In the second half of the episode Stephanie shares reflection on a life changing trip to Colombia, South America the summer she turned 16. A naive outlook and faith made it easy to go and Stephanie shares what she learned and carries with her today.

SHARE YOUR STORY >>> Share travel stories that made a huge impact on your life and outlook. Email me at [email protected] or DM at @morethanlucky.podcast

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

Birthdays are a personal new year, a time to celebrate and a time to reflect on the year gone by. In this episode Stephanie talks about celebrating her milestone birthday and reflects on the past year. Using a list of questions for self reflection Stephanie shares her answers and chats about lessons learned and the opportunities for the year ahead.

Don't wait for your birthday. Share this episode today with friends and discuss your answers to the questions!

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

January was a wild wild month full of highs and lows. This year I took on Gabby Bernstein's 21 manifesting challenge for the second time. In this episode I share my 5 unexpected lessons from participating. I talk about how a spiritual practice needs to be learned and what I realized about sharing my experiences with others. I also share a story that revealed, and reminded me, the process really works when you invest in yourself. I finish off my list by sharing the biggest shift in my attitude and how I realized I was in the right zone the whole time.

If you also participated in the challenge I would love to hear your unexpected lessons or simply what you are enjoying about the podcast. I want to share more insights and experiences that interest you the most.

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Email me, I'd love to hear your thoughts about any of my episodes or chat about the manifesting challenge [email protected] 

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

Welcome to 2022!!

So many of us start the new year by setting intentions for the year ahead. This January I am setting intentions and doing a 21 day manifesting challenge. I am excited for what 2022 will bring me.

A big part of my journey in 2021 was transforming my own fear into faith. My friend Jeanne introduced me to the book and now joins me for a book review and chat about The Universe Has Your Back Transforming Fear into Faith.

If you didn't listen to part one it might be a good idea to start there but its not a must.

Please share with me moments that connect with you so I can continue to create episodes that are helpful and meaningful.

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CHANCE TO WIN!  I am going to send one lucky listener a copy of the book. Please share the episode on your Instagram or leave a review on apple podcasts or spotify. At the end of January I will send one lucky listener a copy of the book. 

Enjoy!

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

My special guest this week, Jeanne Castellanos, joins me for a book review and chat about The Universe Has Your Back, Transforming Fear into Faith by Gabrielle Bernstein.
Jeanne has mentioned Gabby to me and this book I think at the end of 2020. Not too long after that Gabby popped up on my Instagram (as it always does) and I decided to dive in with a 21 day manifesting challenge. Did it ever have an impact on me!! At the end of this episode I share a big moment I had after recorded with Jeanne.

This fall I spent time reading Gabby's The Universe Has Your Back Transforming Fear into Faith and I've enjoyed it so much I can't shut up. Everyone in my circle has heard about it now and I want to share it with my listeners.

Learn more about Gabby here

This January I am taking on the manifestation challenge once again and I am looking forward to setting myself up for a fruitful 2022. I am also looking forward to reading more of Gabby's books.

I would love to hear from you my listeners about what connected with you this year on the podcast. Share your insights, experiences, or what you'd like to learn more about.

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Part two of my interview with Jeanne will be up shortly!
Happy New Year!

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.

This week's episode is extra special as I celebrate 25 years of friendship with one of my besties. Laurie Brooks Midgely joins me and we chat about first impressions, causing trouble in Washington and how we built a stronger friendship living and working together at sea.

One of the unique storylines in life we share is our mutual unusually good luck in winning  all sorts of things including theatre tickets, trips to vegas and t-shirts. It only gets better when we debate who is most lucky or what areas of life we're most lucky in (Laurie has bingo, hands down).

Our chat concludes with a look back on a trip that could have been a disaster and very disappointing, we share the secret as to why it was a trip that we'll never forget after a quick pivot.

I would love to hear from you what you have learned about building strong friendships. Send me an email and I'll share your story in a future episode.

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About the Host

Stephanie Lear is a thoughtful guide for women who are ready to create meaningful change — without losing their peace.

With a professional background in leadership, program development, and community-building, she has spent years designing spaces that bring people together with intention. But her most meaningful work has been the quiet, personal evolution that happens behind the scenes — the mindset shifts, perspective changes, and spiritual grounding that shape a life from the inside out.

Known among friends and colleagues as the one who gives the pep talk that actually lands, Stephanie has a gift for helping women zoom out, reconnect to what matters, and move forward with calm confidence. She shares what she’s learning in real time — not from a pedestal, but from lived experience.

Through More Than Lucky, she blends practical mindset tools with grounded spiritual insight to support women navigating reinvention, growth, and intentional next chapters.

Her belief is simple: peace and ambition can coexist.

And the life you want isn’t random — it’s created.