Mother of All Trauma
Download on the App Store

Mother of All Trauma episodes

  • Episode 9 - Ryan Shares His Story - Siblings, Struggles, and Survival

    In this heartfelt season finale of Mother of All Trauma, Miranda, Laura, and special guest Ryan, Miranda’s older brother, dive into the complexities of their shared past. Together, they explore family dynamics, childhood memories, and how upbringing shapes adult life.

    Ryan shares candidly about growing up with ADHD, navigating a strict household, and his journey of self-discovery and healing. The siblings reflect on their mother’s relationships, the role of religion, and the coping mechanisms that helped them survive, while also finding moments of laughter along the way.

    This conversation is a raw and moving exploration of resilience, connection, and the power of storytelling to heal old wounds. Tune in for honesty, vulnerability, and the hopeful promise of new beginnings as we close out season one.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    47 min
  • Episode 8: Katherine Shares Her Story - Between Estrangement, Loyalty, and Sisterhood

    In this candid conversation, sisters Laura and Katherine sit down with Miranda to unpack the complicated layers of their family story. They revisit childhood memories shaped by high expectations, holiday pressure, and the constant need to project a picture-perfect image. While Laura has chosen estrangement from their mother and Katherine maintains limited contact, both reflect on the emotional toll of growing up under their mother’s influence.

    The sisters open up about their contrasting roles within the family, Laura as the scapegoat and Katherine as the invisible child, and the lasting impact on their self-esteem, boundaries, and body image. They also share how they’re breaking cycles as mothers themselves, prioritizing emotional safety, open communication, and healthier traditions for their children.

    Despite the challenges of navigating their parental relationships, Laura and Katherine find strength in one another, gratitude for the families they’ve built with their supportive partners, and hope in the new dynamics they’re creating.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    57 min
  • Episode 7: The Scapegoat & The Golden Child: Untangling the Roles That Shaped Us

    In this raw and reflective episode, Miranda and Laura dive deep into the often unspoken family roles of the scapegoat and golden child. Drawing from their own childhoods, they unpack how these labels shaped their identities, relationships, and emotional wellbeing, then and now.

    From the weight of being blamed to the pressure of being idealized, they explore how these dynamics fueled sibling rivalry, impacted self-esteem, and created lasting emotional patterns. They also discuss the fluidity of these roles, how gender expectations played a part, and what it’s taken to begin healing.

    This conversation isn’t just about the past, it's about what comes next. Miranda and Laura talk candidly about how parenting their own kids has become a powerful catalyst for breaking generational cycles and redefining what healthy family relationships can look like.

    Whether you were the scapegoat, the golden child, or somewhere in between, this episode will leave you feeling seen, and maybe even a little more understood.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    29 min
  • Episode 6: Do They Even Know Why We Left?

    In this deeply personal episode, Miranda and Laura share the stories behind their decisions to go no contact with their mothers. They open up about the emotional weight of estrangement, the repeated efforts they made to communicate their pain, and the heartbreak of being met with denial and a lack of accountability.

    Together, they reflect on what it means to walk away—not out of anger, but out of necessity—and explore the disconnect that happens when parents refuse to see or hear the truth. This conversation isn’t about blame, but about boundaries, self-preservation, and the grief that comes when the people who raised you won’t acknowledge the reasons you left.

    Whether you’ve experienced estrangement or are trying to understand it, this episode offers validation, clarity, and connection.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    31 min
  • Episode 5: Peacekeepers Anonymous: People Pleasing, Conflict Avoidance & Losing Yourself

    In this vulnerable and thought-provoking episode, Laura and Miranda dig into the messy, exhausting world of people pleasing and conflict avoidance. From childhood survival strategies to grown-up relationship patterns, they explore how family dynamics, trauma responses (hello, fawning), and internalised self-worth issues have shaped the way they show up, or don’t, in moments of tension.

    Through honest storytelling and reflection, they unpack the cost of constantly keeping the peace, how resentment builds in silence, and why saying no can be an act of radical self-care. They also explore the way parenting has forced them to reckon with their own boundaries, and how breaking cycles starts with learning to stand up for yourself, even when it feels uncomfortable.

    If you've ever apologised too much, avoided hard conversations, or said yes when you meant hell no, this episode is for you.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    50 min
  • Episode 4: When Love Meets Trauma: Unpacking Mommy Issues in Relationships

    In this intimate and honest conversation, Laura and Miranda unpack how unresolved “mommy issues” can deeply shape our romantic relationships — from the way we communicate to how we handle conflict, intimacy, and even breakups. They reflect on how childhood dynamics and trauma have influenced their definitions of love, trust, and emotional safety, and explore what it really means to grow and heal in the context of a relationship. If you’ve ever found yourself wondering why you show up the way you do in love, or why certain patterns keep repeating, this one’s for you. 

    Themes:

    • Childhood trauma’s impact on adult relationships
    • Intimacy, trust, and vulnerability
    • Communication struggles and conflict styles
    • The emotional fallout of breakups
    • Personal growth, self-awareness, and boundary-setting

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    44 min
  • Episode 3: Am I Too Much or Not Enough? - Attachment Styles

    In this episode of Mother of All Trauma, Laura and Miranda dive into the world of attachment styles, exploring how the emotional bonds formed in early childhood influence how we show up in relationships and as parents.

    They break down the four main attachment styles - secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized, and reflect on how these patterns play out in their own lives. From romantic relationships to the way they parent, Laura and Miranda offer honest insights, real-life examples, and encouragement for anyone navigating connection and healing.

    The conversation also explores how understanding your attachment style can be a powerful tool for growth, and how it's possible to move toward secure traits, even when you didn’t grow up with them.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    43 min
  • Episode 2 Part 2: Miranda's Story - The Breaking Point

    In this honest and revealing episode of Mother of All Trauma, Miranda opens up about the turning point that led her to go no contact with her mother. From a bachelorette party filled with disappointment to a wedding day overshadowed by manipulation and emotional turmoil, Miranda shares how these moments made her finally choose herself.

    Alongside Laura, she unpacks the deep emotional cost of maintaining relationships that do more harm than good—and the strength it takes to walk away. Together, they discuss the guilt, grief, and liberation that often come with estrangement, and the healing power of owning your truth.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    39 min
  • Episode 2 Part 1: Laura's Story - The Final Straw

    n this raw and revealing episode of Mother of All Trauma, Laura shares the moment that changed everything, the final straw that led her to cut contact with her mom. With Miranda listening and holding space, the two explore the lead-up: repeated boundary violations, lies that rewrote the truth, and the emotional fallout of trying to protect your peace when from your parents.

    They unpack how seemingly small moments can pile up until something finally snaps. Laura reflects on the power of distance, the clarity that came with space, and the painful realization that accountability may never come from the people who hurt you.

    There’s vulnerability, frustration, and even a bit of laughter, because sometimes, the only way through the mess is to talk it out (and maybe swear a little).

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    40 min
  • Episode 1 Part 2: Miranda's Story - When Leaving Is Loving Yourself

    In this raw and deeply personal episode, Miranda opens up about her journey toward estrangement from her mother, a path shaped by childhood trauma, complex caregiver dynamics, and a fierce desire for freedom. From early odd jobs taken out of necessity to the pivotal moment she left for the airport, Miranda reflects on how parental control, emotional neglect, and unmet needs defined much of her early life.

    Together, Laura and Miranda unpack the lasting impact of trauma, the difficulty of breaking generational cycles, and the bittersweet reality of choosing distance to protect your peace. This episode is a powerful reminder that healing often begins with understanding, and that walking away can be an act of profound self-love.

    Send us Fan Mail

    Instagram

    Facebook

    1 hr

About Mother of All Trauma

From the publisher's feed

What if the hardest stories you've lived are the ones you need to tell?


Mother of All Trauma is a podcast about what happens when the people who raised you also hurt you and how…