You think your 7/10 marriage is pretty good.

Then you discover what a biblical marriage actually looks like and realize you're closer to 7/100.

The problem isn't that you need better communication or more date nights...it's that you've been sold a lie about partnership and mutual submission that's turned you into a family butler instead of a family captain.

What if everything you've been taught about loving your wife is backwards? What if the "nice guy" approach that keeps the peace is actually destroying the respect, freedom, and passion your marriage was designed for?

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In This Episode:

0:00 Intro

8:00 Default Marriage

11:25 Being afraid to lead

23:09 Mutual submission

38:32 What it looks like to move from "co-submission" to leading

45:24 You can't lead with co-submission

51:29 The two ditches

1:03:35 Getting unstuck

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Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.