My Big Gay Podcast

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Three bottles of Whispering Angel, two gays, one drag queen, one drinking game... what could possibly go wrong this week?! 

Join Benji, Brad and Chanel No.5, London's campiest drag queen, for a riotous game of Mr and Mr: The Benji and Brad Edition. The game forces the boys to share some of their messy stories including wild nights out, masturbating at work and the embarrassment of waking up next to someone without knowing their name.

In this weeks Queer Diary, we reveal a listeners story about an awkward family Airplay incident involving a rosebud on the big screen. 

So what are you waiting for? Grab a bottle of wine and play along! 

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Ever wondered what really happens on a wild night out with a drag queen? Join us as we spill the tea with the fabulous Miss Chanel No. 5, the reigning queen of Clapham's drag scene. From Brad's notorious wardrobe malfunctions to a disastrous perm attempt, Chanel gives us the lowdown on our most laugh-out-loud moments around London. With a glass of Whispering Angel wine in hand, we chat about the highs and lows of drag culture and the personal journeys within it, adding a dash of humor and insight into our crazy adventures.

Imagine spending a holiday with your family in a secluded French villa, complete with poolside drama and moments of sheer joy. Relive our family holiday fiascos and celebrations, followed by a vibrant trip to Guernsey for Pride, where the atmosphere was nothing short of electric. We navigate the rollercoaster of family dynamics and the exuberance of Pride celebrations, sharing stories that are as heartfelt as they are hilarious.

Get ready for a whirlwind tour of South London's nightlife, featuring mistaken identities, wild mix-ups, and Benji's infamous drunken escapade outside Subway. Whether it's a rugby-player mix-up during a show or a chaotic night at a gay networking event, our tales from Cardiff and Brighton are bound to leave you in stitches. To top it all off, we dive into a lively debate about Drag Race, fantasizing about a survival-themed mashup and dissecting the career impacts of the show. Stick around for our fun game segment, "Mr. and Mr. Benji and Brad Edition," for an extra dose of laughter and shade!

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Ever wondered how birthday celebrations evolve as you transition from your 20s to your 30s as a gay man? Join us as we share our hilarious and heartfelt journey through smelly shoes, nostalgic escapades, and the transformation from simple gatherings to extravagant trips. Benji takes us on a tour of his fabulous birthday adventure in "Gay Paris," while Brad reminisces about his uniquely themed 21st birthday cake. Along the way, we chat about maintaining personal freedom in relationships, especially when planning solo trips, all with our signature humor and candor.

Next, prepare to be whisked away to the enchanting streets of Paris. We recount our unforgettable experiences from Disneyland Paris to the bustling city nightlife. Listen as we share amusing tales from the provocative shows at the shower club Raid to the extravagant performances at Moulin Rouge, including a jaw-dropping act involving a topless dancer and snakes. Our vivid storytelling and laughter-filled anecdotes will have you planning your own Parisian adventure in no time!

We cap off the episode with some cultural critiques and a deep dive into relationship dynamics. From discussing the financial impact of the British royal family to the controversial nature of football culture, we leave no stone unturned. Then, we explore the complexities of sexual compatibility in relationships, illustrated through personal stories and listener advice. Finally, we wrap up with a call to action for our listeners to engage with us on social media and share their own queer diaries. Tune in for more laughter and insightful conversations next Wednesday!

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Ever wondered how to effortlessly make queer friends in a bustling metropolis like London? Tune in to our latest episode where we unlock the secrets to forging meaningful connections within the vibrant LGBTQ+ community. From the thrill of joining a gay rugby team to the intellectual haven of Gaze the Word bookshop, we've got tips that cater to every interest. Picture yourself part of impromptu sports games at Clapham Common or enjoying a drag show featuring the fabulous Chanel Number 5. Whether you're a sports enthusiast or a literary buff, we share personal anecdotes that will inspire you to step out and make new friends.

Navigating friendships isn't always smooth sailing, and sometimes, saying goodbye is necessary for your well-being. In this episode, we also tackle the often-overlooked subject of friend breakups—how to handle them gracefully and maintain a positive outlook. Our candid discussions about the emotional complexities involved offer practical advice and a dash of humor, especially when considering the unique dynamics of maintaining professional relationships in podcasting. Whether you're new to the city or looking to expand your social circle, this episode offers an invaluable guide to forming lasting connections within London’s LGBTQ+ scene.

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Season 6: Episode 2. Benji and Brad discuss their summer holiday plans including what it is like going away as a queer person on a family holiday. Ever wondered what it’s like to date a brat? Benji and Brad dive into the world of "Brat Summer," exploring how childish and self-centered behavior is changing the dating game. Plus, Benji shares a cautionary tale about a friend's overzealous use of Viagra and the stigma surrounding sexual performance. From laughs to lessons, this episode has it all, making it one you won't want to miss!

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Season 6: Episode 1. Benji and Brad are now officially back with a bang, sharing their latest escapades and teasing a lineup of fabulous guests for Season Six. Brace yourself for a whirlwind season that promises laughter, insight, and plenty of surprises.

Curious about Ozempic and its buzz in the weight loss world? Benji and Brad break it all down for you, from the various forms of the drug to its effects on appetite and costs. The boys get real about societal pressures within the gay community and how this medication fits into the bigger picture of body standards. Whether you're considering Ozempic or just intrigued by the hype, Benji and Brad reveal all and share their experiences. 

Navigating the modern dating scene is no walk in the park, especially post-lockdown. Benji and Brad dive into the nitty-gritty of dating apps like Grindr, Tinder, and Hinge, offering a candid look at the unique challenges and mixed experiences within the gay community. From blunt rejections to unexpected connections, the boys discuss everything. Plus, don’t miss the exciting updates about the different ways you can now interact with My Big Gay Podcast - your participation makes the show even better! 

Join us every Wednesday for all things big and gay on My Big Gay Podcast.

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Season 6: Episode 0. 

Benji and Brad are back with a brand new season of My Big Gay Podcast! Join the boys in their new studio where they reveal what they’ve been up to so far this year. 

Benji and Brad share the highs and lows of adulting in the bustling city of London. From the glitter-filled fun of London Pride and Mighty Hoopla (the largest queer festival in the UK) to the daunting task of buying property. Expect candid confessions about managing finances, dealing with mortgages, and of course still finding time to have a party. 

To top it all off, (cheeky…), Benji and Brad dive into experiences had by the queer community including hooking up at festivals and figuring out the dating apps. 

Buckle up for a season opener teeming with laughter, genuine reflections, and a whole lot of fabulousness!

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Join Benji and Brad for some festive fun as they chat about their lead up to Christmas, what they’re getting each other as a present and how some of their Christmas parties have ended up! Happy holidays podcasters and here’s to a fantastic 2024 for you all x

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Season 5: Episode Twenty-Five - Part Two. Fill up those glasses and join in with the second part of Benji and Brad’s end of Season Five Party! They are joined by David Allwood (Mr Gay UK 2022) where they’ll be getting all the answers to your questions. Plus, Benji and Brad play Shag, Marry, Ghost with David (feel free to play along and share your answers!) as well as finding out all about David’s marriage story. 

Keep being your fabulous selves, spread kindness, live your best big gay lives and Benji and Brad will C U Next Season! xx

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