🔍 Episode Overview:

In this episode, family lawyer Joe Ferguson is joined by Marcie Shaoul, certified coach and author of The Co-Parenting Method: Six Steps to Raise Happy Kids After Separation and Divorce.

Together, they explore how separated parents can move from conflict to collaboration, with practical tools for managing emotions, setting boundaries, and putting children’s needs first. The discussion also highlights how Marcie’s framework is helping both families and professionals rethink what effective co-parenting looks like.

Together they discuss:

• Why developing a long-term mindset is essential to successful co-parenting
• How to manage strong emotions and avoid communication “flare-ups”
• The importance of healthy boundaries and mutual respect
• The difference between co-parenting and parallel parenting — and when each approach is appropriate
• How small shifts in behaviour can transform family dynamics and reduce conflict
• How practitioners can use The Co-Parenting Method as an early-intervention tool to support clients outside the courtroom

🧠 Key Takeaways:

• Co-parenting isn’t about friendship — it’s about creating a stable, low-conflict environment where children can thrive.
• A calm, child-focused approach reduces emotional fallout and helps children feel secure across both homes.
• The Co-Parenting Method gives parents a clear, six-step framework to communicate effectively and make lasting, child-centred decisions.
• Professionals can recommend the book and online programme to empower clients early in their separation journey.

📚 Resources & Links:

Learn more about Myerson Family Law: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law
Discover The Co-Parenting Method: https://thecoparentingmethod.com
Buy the book: The Co-Parenting Method: Six Steps to Raise Happy Kids After Separation and Divorce (available on Amazon and major retailers)

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💼 Keywords & Topics:
Family Law, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Parenting After Separation, Communication, Emotional Regulation, Boundaries, Parallel Parenting, Child Wellbeing, Mediation, Parenting Plans, Family Coaching, Resolution, Conflict Reduction, Myerson Solicitors

How can technology support healthier co-parenting, and what happens when it’s misused?

🔍 Episode Overview:

In this episode, family lawyer Joe Ferguson is joined by Katie Deans from Our Family Wizard to explore the role of technology in family law. From tackling the risks of call spoofing and AI-powered abuse to building safer, more effective communication between separated parents, the conversation shines a light on both the challenges and opportunities that digital tools bring to co-parenting.

Together they discuss:

• How abusers exploit tools like call spoofing and voice cloning, and how families can protect themselves
• Why accountability and transparency are key to effective co-parenting communication
• The features that make Our Family Wizard a trusted tool for parents and professionals, including ToneMeter® and AI-powered message redrafting
• Options for child, third-party and professional accounts, and how these support wider family networks
• Pricing, fee waivers and accessibility, ensuring the app is available to all families who need it

🧠 Key Takeaways:

• Technology can be misused in abusive situations — but it can also create safer spaces for co-parenting communication.
• Features like uneditable messaging, timestamped calls and ToneMeter® help parents remain accountable and child-focused.
• Our Family Wizard offers flexibility, from affordability options to professional access, making it a valuable tool in family law practice.

📚 Resources & Links:

• Learn more about Myerson Family Law: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law
• Explore Our Family Wizard: www.ourfamilywizard.co.uk

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💼 Keywords & Topics:
Family Law, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Technology in Family Law, Domestic Abuse, AI Voice Cloning, Call Spoofing, Parental Communication, Accountability, Our Family Wizard, ToneMeter, Parenting Plans, Legal Tech, Child Contact, Family Disputes, Professional Access

What really happens when divorce lawyers team up with financial detectives to uncover hidden assets, shady spending, and the truth behind business valuations. 

🔍 Episode Overview:

When it comes to divorce, it's not just about the family home or savings, business interests can be some of the most complex and contested assets in the process.

 In this episode, family lawyer Nichola Bright explores the critical role that forensic accountancy plays in financial settlements on divorce, especially where business valuations are concerned.

Joined by expert forensic accountants Natalie Jones and Jack Clitheroe from Begbies Traynor, the discussion delves into:

• What forensic accounting really involves and how it differs from traditional accounting
• How businesses are valued during a divorce and what methods are used (e.g., earnings-based vs. net asset-based)
• The role of Single Joint Experts (SJE) and shadow accountants in financial disputes
• Key considerations in minority shareholdings and lifestyle analysis
• Red flags for hidden assets or unusual spending patterns
• Real-world examples including agricultural and family-run businesses
• How forensic insight helps manage client expectations and drive fair outcomes

🧠 Key Takeaways:

• Forensic accountants bring invaluable problem-solving skills and financial insight to divorce cases involving complex assets.
• Early involvement of a forensic accountant can help close the information gap between spouses particularly when one partner runs the business.
• Business valuation isn't just about numbers; it involves context, control, market comparisons, and sometimes, digging into past financial conduct.
• Forensic accountants play both independent and advisory roles to support solicitors and protect client interests.

📚 Resources & Links:

• Learn more about Myerson Family Law Services: www.myerson.co.uk
• Connect with Begbies Traynor Group: www.begbies-traynorgroup.com
• Explore guidance on business valuations in divorce and when to seek expert input

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💼 Keywords & Topics:

Family Law, Divorce, Finances on Divorce, Forensic Accountancy, Divorce Lawyer, Business Valuation, Minority Shareholding, Hidden Assets, Divorce Settlements, Single Joint Expert, Shadow Accountant, Matrimonial Finances, Director Loan Accounts, Lifestyle Analysis, Cryptocurrency in Divorce, Farming Businesses, Contentious Valuations, Court Proceedings, Family Business Disputes

Hosted by: Jane Tenquist, Head of Family Law at Myerson Solicitors

In this powerful episode of My Family Pod, we sit down with Jonathan Edgeley, founder of Montrose Health, to discuss the hidden impacts of addiction on relationships, separation, and family life.

Jonathan shares his deeply personal journey through addiction and recovery, shedding light on how substance misuse, from alcohol and drugs to gambling, fractures family dynamics and exacerbates divorce proceedings. 

As a family lawyer, host Jane highlights the real-world consequences of addiction on parenting roles, financial strain, and the emotional well-being of children.

Key topics include:

• The cycle of addiction and how it escalates from social use to dependency
• The role of addiction in marital breakdown and the complex dynamics it creates
• How trauma, childhood experiences, and genetic predispositions contribute to addiction
• Why addressing the whole family is vital for sustainable recovery
• The unique, tailored rehab programmes offered by Montrose Health, including one-on-one residential support in the Peak District
• Understanding the link between addiction and undiagnosed ADHD or autism
• Insights on post-divorce recovery, mental health support, and rebuilding self-identity
• Practical advice for family lawyers on spotting vulnerable clients and providing effective signposting

Whether you are a family law professional, facing the challenges of addiction within your family, or seeking a deeper understanding of recovery pathways, this episode offers compassionate insights and practical advice.

📍 Resources & Mentions

• https://www.montrosehealthgroup.com/

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Therapy for Relationships: Strengthening Communication, Supporting Separation, and Rebuilding After Breakdown

Hosted by: Jane Tenquist, Head of Family Law at Myerson Solicitors
Guest: Lindsay George, Therapist based in Altrincham

🔍 Episode Summary

In this insightful episode, Jane Tanquist, a family lawyer at Myerson Solicitors, sits down with Lindsay George, an experienced therapist specialising in individual and couples therapy. Together, they explore the deep emotional and psychological aspects of relationships, covering:

• The three critical Cs of successful relationships: Communication, Compromise, and Commitment
• Why couples disengage – from financial pressures to social media distractions
• The emotional stages of relationship breakdown and how therapy can help navigate them
• The difference between productive and toxic communication patterns
• How therapy supports co-parenting and smoother separations
• The impact of divorce on emotional health and the journey toward recovery
• The growing trend of “relationship MOTs” – proactive therapy for couples

Whether you are facing relationship challenges, going through separation, or working with clients in similar circumstances, this episode offers professional perspectives and practical advice.

🧠 Key Topics Covered

• Emotional disconnection and communication breakdown
• How therapists observe and address communication styles in couples
• The emotional spectrum of separation: grief, denial, ambivalence
• Supporting clients legally and therapeutically through divorce
• Long-term impacts of relationship breakdown
• The role of friends, family, and therapy in recovery
• Gendered patterns in post-divorce relationships

👂 Who This Episode is For

• Individuals or couples experiencing marital strain or separation
• Family solicitors, mediators, and other professionals in relationship law
• Therapists and mental health professionals working with separated or divorcing clients
• Listeners curious about healthy relationships and emotional wellbeing

📍 Resources & Mentions

• Connect with Lindsay George: www.lindsaygeorge.co.uk

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In this powerful episode, Sarah Whitelegge, Senior Associate in the Family Team at Myerson, is joined by Samantha Fisher, CEO of Trafford Domestic Abuse Services (TDAS). Samantha discusses the various forms of domestic abuse beyond the physical, including emotional, psychological, financial, and digital abuse. Together, they explore how individuals can recognise the signs of domestic abuse and provide support to those who may be experiencing it.

They also address the growing issue of coercive and controlling behaviour and discuss the resources available to victims and their families. Samantha shares insights into TDAS's essential work supporting victims of domestic abuse, including their innovative male refuge project, the "Words Matter" video with Life Church Manchester, and the importance of prevention through education, particularly in schools.

For anyone concerned about someone who may be experiencing domestic abuse, this episode provides practical advice on how to offer support and where to access help.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Trafford Domestic Abuse Services (TDAS): TDAS Website
• Refuge’s 24-Hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247
• TDAS 'Words Matter' Video: TDAS Words Matter

Tune in to learn how you can play a role in supporting victims of domestic abuse and help raise awareness about this crucial issue.

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In this episode of MyFamily Pod, host Jane Tenquist welcomes Karen Blumenfeld, psychotherapist and co-founder of Hale Therapy Centre, to discuss one of the most complex and misunderstood issues in modern relationships: narcissism and coercive control.

As a divorce solicitor, Jane frequently encounters cases where one partner accuses the other of narcissistic behaviour or coercive control. But what do these terms really mean? How do they manifest in relationships? And how can individuals identify and navigate these dynamics?

Karen provides deep psychological insight into the spectrum of narcissism, from healthy self-esteem to narcissistic personality disorder, and explains the power imbalances, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation that often accompany coercive control. Together, Jane and Karen explore:

✔️ What narcissism really is – beyond the buzzword

 ✔️ How narcissistic traits impact relationships

 ✔️ Recognising coercive control and its effects

 ✔️ The emotional toll of being in a narcissistic relationship

 ✔️ How individuals can reclaim their sense of self

 ✔️ Why setting boundaries is crucial – and how to do it

 ✔️ How legal and therapeutic support can help victims regain control

If you or someone you know is struggling with an unhealthy relationship, this episode offers expert guidance and practical steps to help navigate these challenging situations.

Listen now and take the first step towards understanding and empowerment.

Find out more here: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law

For more resources and support, you can also reach out to Karen at Hale Village Therapy Centre here: https://www.haletherapy.co.uk/karen-blumenfeld/

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In this episode of MyFamily Pod, host Nichola Bright, family lawyer at Myerson Solicitors, speaks with financial planning experts Jenni Macdonald and Liz Grimshaw from Revival Financial Planning.

Together, they explore the financial challenges that arise during divorce and separation and explain how expert financial planning can provide clarity and security during turbulent times.

Topics include:

• The role of cash flow modelling and expenditure forecasting in divorce settlements.
• Understanding mortgage capacity reports and their impact on asset division.
• Demystifying pension sharing to secure long-term financial wellbeing.
• Broader financial planning strategies for major life changes such as redundancy, retirement, or moving home.

Whether you are navigating a divorce, supporting a loved one, or seeking expert financial advice, this episode offers practical tips and insightful strategies to help you plan confidently for the future.

If you’re seeking support for a family law or financial planning matter, our expert team at Myerson Solicitors is here to help. We provide compassionate, tailored advice on divorce, financial arrangements, and co-parenting to ensure you receive the support you need.

Find out more here: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law

For more resources and support, you can also reach out to Jenni and Liz at Revival Financial Planning

Find out more here: https://www.revivalfp.co.uk

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In this episode of MyFamily Pod, Jane Tenquist, Head of Family Law at Myerson Solicitors, speaks with Sally Beresford, a financial planner at Evelyn Partners. Together, they explore the critical issue of why women often retire with significantly smaller pensions than men and discuss practical steps to ensure financial security during and after divorce.

🎙️ Key topics include:

• The gender pension gap and why it exists.
• The importance of pension sharing during divorce.
• How cash flow modelling helps with financial planning.
• Steps women can take to boost their pension pot.

Don't miss this insightful conversation packed with expert advice for those navigating divorce and financial settlements.

In this episode of MyFamily Pod, host Nicola Bright, family lawyer at Myerson Solicitors, speaks with Helen Carouzos, a highly experienced HCPC-registered counselling psychologist. 

Together, they delve into the psychological challenges of divorce and separation, the impact of ADHD on family dynamics, and the importance of co-parenting and self-care during turbulent times. 

Topics include: 

• How ADHD can influence divorce and co-parenting. 
• Supporting children emotionally through separation. 
• Building resilience and self-care strategies for parents. 
• Managing legal and emotional stress during separation. 

Whether you're navigating a divorce, supporting a loved one, or seeking expert advice, this episode offers practical tips and compassionate insights to help you through the process. 



If you’re seeking support for a family law matter, our expert team at Myerson Solicitors is here to help. Whether it’s guidance on divorce, financial arrangements, or co-parenting, we provide compassionate, tailored advice. 

Find out more here: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law

For more resources and support, you can also reach out to Helen Carouzos for counselling and therapeutic services. 

Find out more here: https://helencarouzos.co.uk/

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