My Family Pod

In this powerful episode, Sarah Whitelegge, Senior Associate in the Family Team at Myerson, is joined by Samantha Fisher, CEO of Trafford Domestic Abuse Services (TDAS). Samantha discusses the various forms of domestic abuse beyond the physical, including emotional, psychological, financial, and digital abuse. Together, they explore how individuals can recognise the signs of domestic abuse and provide support to those who may be experiencing it.

They also address the growing issue of coercive and controlling behaviour and discuss the resources available to victims and their families. Samantha shares insights into TDAS's essential work supporting victims of domestic abuse, including their innovative male refuge project, the "Words Matter" video with Life Church Manchester, and the importance of prevention through education, particularly in schools.

For anyone concerned about someone who may be experiencing domestic abuse, this episode provides practical advice on how to offer support and where to access help.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

• Trafford Domestic Abuse Services (TDAS): TDAS Website
• Refuge’s 24-Hour National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247
• TDAS 'Words Matter' Video: TDAS Words Matter

Tune in to learn how you can play a role in supporting victims of domestic abuse and help raise awareness about this crucial issue.

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In this episode of MyFamily Pod, host Jane Tenquist welcomes Karen Blumenfeld, psychotherapist and co-founder of Hale Therapy Centre, to discuss one of the most complex and misunderstood issues in modern relationships: narcissism and coercive control.

As a divorce solicitor, Jane frequently encounters cases where one partner accuses the other of narcissistic behaviour or coercive control. But what do these terms really mean? How do they manifest in relationships? And how can individuals identify and navigate these dynamics?

Karen provides deep psychological insight into the spectrum of narcissism, from healthy self-esteem to narcissistic personality disorder, and explains the power imbalances, gaslighting, and emotional manipulation that often accompany coercive control. Together, Jane and Karen explore:

✔️ What narcissism really is – beyond the buzzword

 ✔️ How narcissistic traits impact relationships

 ✔️ Recognising coercive control and its effects

 ✔️ The emotional toll of being in a narcissistic relationship

 ✔️ How individuals can reclaim their sense of self

 ✔️ Why setting boundaries is crucial – and how to do it

 ✔️ How legal and therapeutic support can help victims regain control

If you or someone you know is struggling with an unhealthy relationship, this episode offers expert guidance and practical steps to help navigate these challenging situations.

Listen now and take the first step towards understanding and empowerment.

Find out more here: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law

For more resources and support, you can also reach out to Karen at Hale Village Therapy Centre here: https://www.haletherapy.co.uk/karen-blumenfeld/

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In this episode of MyFamily Pod, host Nichola Bright, family lawyer at Myerson Solicitors, speaks with financial planning experts Jenni Macdonald and Liz Grimshaw from Revival Financial Planning.

Together, they explore the financial challenges that arise during divorce and separation and explain how expert financial planning can provide clarity and security during turbulent times.

Topics include:

• The role of cash flow modelling and expenditure forecasting in divorce settlements.
• Understanding mortgage capacity reports and their impact on asset division.
• Demystifying pension sharing to secure long-term financial wellbeing.
• Broader financial planning strategies for major life changes such as redundancy, retirement, or moving home.

Whether you are navigating a divorce, supporting a loved one, or seeking expert financial advice, this episode offers practical tips and insightful strategies to help you plan confidently for the future.

If you’re seeking support for a family law or financial planning matter, our expert team at Myerson Solicitors is here to help. We provide compassionate, tailored advice on divorce, financial arrangements, and co-parenting to ensure you receive the support you need.

Find out more here: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law

For more resources and support, you can also reach out to Jenni and Liz at Revival Financial Planning

Find out more here: https://www.revivalfp.co.uk

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In this episode of MyFamily Pod, Jane Tenquist, Head of Family Law at Myerson Solicitors, speaks with Sally Beresford, a financial planner at Evelyn Partners. Together, they explore the critical issue of why women often retire with significantly smaller pensions than men and discuss practical steps to ensure financial security during and after divorce.

🎙️ Key topics include:

• The gender pension gap and why it exists.
• The importance of pension sharing during divorce.
• How cash flow modelling helps with financial planning.
• Steps women can take to boost their pension pot.

Don't miss this insightful conversation packed with expert advice for those navigating divorce and financial settlements.

In this episode of MyFamily Pod, host Nicola Bright, family lawyer at Myerson Solicitors, speaks with Helen Carouzos, a highly experienced HCPC-registered counselling psychologist. 

Together, they delve into the psychological challenges of divorce and separation, the impact of ADHD on family dynamics, and the importance of co-parenting and self-care during turbulent times. 

Topics include: 

• How ADHD can influence divorce and co-parenting. 
• Supporting children emotionally through separation. 
• Building resilience and self-care strategies for parents. 
• Managing legal and emotional stress during separation. 

Whether you're navigating a divorce, supporting a loved one, or seeking expert advice, this episode offers practical tips and compassionate insights to help you through the process. 



If you’re seeking support for a family law matter, our expert team at Myerson Solicitors is here to help. Whether it’s guidance on divorce, financial arrangements, or co-parenting, we provide compassionate, tailored advice. 

Find out more here: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law

For more resources and support, you can also reach out to Helen Carouzos for counselling and therapeutic services. 

Find out more here: https://helencarouzos.co.uk/

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