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In this podcast of My Inner Torch I recount a personal experience of being in a relationship for 23 years and realizing it lacks fulfillment and intimacy. I delve into the challenges of being with someone who exhibits traits of a covert narcissist, discussing the psychological impact, stress, exhaustion, and disconnection from the world. I share a recent experience of a conversation with my wife. I emphasize the difficulty of detaching from such relationships and encourage recognizing dysfunctional relationships. I also touch on experiences related to narcissistic and borderline abuse, highlighting the shift from love bombing to a ruptured relationship.

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In this episode of My Inner Torch, I explore the actor Anthony Hopkins’ recent writing about relationships. Hopkins advises letting go of those who are not ready to love or change, emphasizing the importance of stopping efforts for those who do not reciprocate. He highlights the significance of valuing one’s time and energy, advocating for creating a life with joy and commitment. Hopkins emphasizes the need to surround oneself with compatible and healthy individuals, rather than investing in toxic relationships. The message underscores the importance of protecting one’s energy and prioritizing genuine connections. Can you relate his words to your relationship with your Cluster B?

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In this podcast, I reflect on the challenges of being in a relationship with someone who has a cluster B personality disorder like narcissism or borderline personality disorder. 

I draw attention to the grief and loss experienced in such relationships, emphasizing the need to rebuild one’s life and self. I draw on my personal experiences to highlight the difficulty of disentangling from the distorted reality created by the person with the disorder. I believe healing involves recognizing manipulative tactics and rediscovering one’s true self. This podcast aims to provide knowledge and experiences for those in similar relationships, stressing self-worth, not tolerating abuse, and understanding that abusers are incapable of love.

I encourage you to focus on self-care and value.

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Welcome to My Inner Torch, where I delve into the intricate dynamics of relationships and the masks that people wear. In this episode, I explore the profound impact of realizing a spouse’s facade, the jarring contrast between their public image and private truth.

I share personal encounters and draw parallels from trench warfare, unveiling the distortion of communication and manipulation within the context of marriage. The painful realization of a partner fabricating a false reality is brought to light, urging caution and awareness of such individuals in relationships.

Join me as I navigate the complexities of dealing with deception in intimate relationships, shedding light on the dangers and repercussions of these false personas. 

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In this episode of “My Inner Torch,” I confront the complex dynamics of being in a relationship with partners who have Cluster B personality disorders. Delving into the intricacies of such relationships, I explore the challenges of maintaining hope for a return to the initial love bombing phase, despite mounting evidence to the contrary. Through my candid personal experience, I shed light on the manipulative nature of early relationship stages and share a recent realization about the use of sex as a weapon within these dynamics.

I encourage you to face these difficult truths head-on and to remain open to understanding the complexities of relationships with individuals who have Cluster B personality disorders. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder of the significance of gaining clarity within relationships over time.

Tune in every Friday at 10 a.m. EST for new episodes of “My Inner Torch,” where I  navigate the complexities of relationships and offer insights into understanding and confronting the challenges of being in a relationship with individuals who have Cluster B personality disorders.

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I talk a lot about covert narcissists, as I suspect my wife is one. So how do you spot a covert narc? We take a closer look at some of the red flags in this week's podcast of My Inner Torch. 

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Can you walk away a winner from your Cluster B? I explore this idea in this week's podcast of My Inner Torch.

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With the holidays approaching, many of us are already in a state of fear as to how everything is going to play out with family and friends. I address these fears and hesitations in this weeks podcast of My Inner Torch. 

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You've heard the saying "There's no such thing as a free lunch"....well, with a Cluster B that is especially so. Everything they give comes with an emotional price tag.

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Are you living in a fog of denial? Can you accept your Cluster B for who they are and what they bring to your relationship? Listen to this week's podcast of My Inner Torch for further insight. 

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