Today’s episode is a replay of an amazing conversation I had with Alexandra (Nutritionist + Chef) IG: @atasteofwellbeing about the impact of self-love on your well being
ACTION STEPS FROM THE EPISODE for developing self-love and changing how you’re being with yourself:
1. Get really really honest about how you actually are with yourself on a day-to-day basis. 2. Make a really conscious decision that you want to make this relationship change and that how you’ve discovered about how you’re being with yourself is no longer serving you anymore. \ 3. Meet yourself where you’re currently at. So, if you discover, when you’re reflecting on how you are being with yourself - that you are really, really not in a great place with yourself right now - you can’t then do what a lot of people do, which is expect to pendulum to swing you straight from a few affirmations to suddenly loving yourself. 4. Remember: YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE PERFECT ABOUT THIS. If you hit a block, it doesn’t matter, just recommit and say that the next day you’re going to be nicer to yourself and you’re going to just move into what that next phase for you is. 5. Grab yourself a jar and label it your self-love jar or self-appreciation jar. Write down 1-2 things that you appreciate, like, value, or even love about yourself every single day. As it fills up, you will start to get a visual about how much there is to value and appreciate about you as a human being! Stopping negative chatter:
Say STOP to the thoughts that are coming in. Acknowledge them.
Then question, is that thought true?
Then question it again, is that thought really true?
Then ask yourself,
“How would it make me feel if I believed that thought?”
“How would I feel if I didn’t believe it?”
“What is an alternative thought that I can choose to insert here and focus on, instead?”
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