Myternity Leave

Nine months in and nine months out! Sammy feels like she has finally hit her stride and is absolutely loving maternity leave. But are we supposed to admit that out loud? In this episode, Toby and Sammy recap July. Following their overseas trip, winter is a shock to the system, but Parental Leave has become fun! It's a far cry from those tough newborn days and in-between a busy schedule of music, baby gym and other activities Samantha is finding more time for comedy again, and has even managed to become a Billy T Award nomineee.

Oh, whoops! We went on holiday to the UK and enjoyed our break so much that it took us two months to recover. And in doing that, let the podcast fall off the face of the earth. But don't despair. We are back, with a slightly different format and loads of updates to share!

We chat about travelling for 48 hours from New Zealand to Scotland with a baby, gush over our trip and give an insight into how we survived the many, many flights.

We also explain why we have changed up the podcast format and get a little bit too excited as we reminisce on the Shaky Pete's we had at Hawksmoor in London. It was without a doubt our best month of Maternity Leave yet!

This week on Myternity Leave, we've hit a few solid milestones. Literally! Charlie’s finally got a high chair, he’s trying actual food, and now I’m casually dealing with finding black strings in his nappy. 

Aside from that, we’re packing for the UK (no big deal), and taking a little mid-season break. Make sure you’re following the podcast so you don’t miss when we’re back and make sure to recommend to a friend*. (*preferably one who doesn't mind a bit of poo chat).

This week on Myternity Leave, it’s month six, and we’re somehow nearly halfway through. Toby joins me on the couch for a heartfelt (and slightly grumpy) catch-up as I mourn parts of my old life… like having the freedom to write jokes at any time, not exclusively at 5am in the morning. We talk about our recent trip to Waipukurau, surviving the dreaded 4-month sleep regression (yes, still), and Toby’s first baby swimming classes. All this and the main man himself makes a rather cute appearance.

On this episode of Myternity Leave, it’s birthday time for Toby and me… not that we're in any way relevant now. We reflect on how celebrations have changed (less bougie brunch, more nappy bin bants), I shed some thoughts — and hair — on postpartum fallout, and I continue my return to the stage with the joyful chaos that is Airhorn! in Newtown.

It’s an episode about building new traditions, letting go of your locks, and clinging onto the little things that help make you feel like you again.

In the latest episode of Myternity Leave, Toby finally gets a mic, I reminisce about my foray into the world of baby activities, and reenact the day my car developed a full-blown death wobble on the motorway.

Elsewhere, I squeeze in a visit to work with little one in tow, we take our first little overnight trip, and I return to comedy with two gigs in one night — which would be fine, if I wasn’t completely in love with my baby and crying on the inside the whole time.

This week on Myternity Leave, life threw me a curveball — a family emergency meant I had to hit pause on documenting the next leg of the parental leave journey.

Luckily, my very funny friend Lesa MacLeod-Whiting (2025 Billy T Award nominee and my Are We Pals? podcast co-host) had been at my place earlier in the week — and we just so happened to record a chat while she was there!

From accidentally ending up at a pro-abortion rally with a five-week-old, to sharing tips about going back to work as a self-employed new mum, Lesa provides us with a very real, very fun surprise guest episode.

Tickets for Lesa's NZ Comedy Fest Show Rebellina are available now! https://www.comedyfestival.co.nz/find-a-show/lesa-macleod-whiting-rebellina/

It’s Month 3 of maternity leave, and I’ve left the house. On purpose. With the baby. And I drove. That’s right — I’m back behind the wheel as a brand-new mum and a brand-new driver. In this episode, I cry in a pet store car park, get deep as I talk about losing someone I love, and discuss how I now use a Tamagotchi-style self-care app to survive the day.

It’s all about rebuilding independence, exploring as a family, and trying to grow in confidence. But even more important than all that, I've finally finished the nursery and hot air balloon!

In Month 2 of parental leave, my parents fly over from Scotland, and we celebrate Charlie’s first Christmas — with all the grandparents in one place. I talk mum guilt (why does getting your nails done feel borderline criminal?), witching hour madness, and the power of support when it comes to rebuilding your confidence.

We start to find our stride, helped massively by some rather wonderful postnatal classes. And encounter a different kind of New Years Eve. Do we even make it to midnight?

Also: Toby is back — or Big Toe, as he’s now known. And yes, I struggle to get this episode out on time… because five months on, life is very much happening.

And on the fourth week of Maternity Leave, I discovered that people-pleasing tendencies and being a new parent do not mix.

In this episode I chat about having too many visitors before I was ready, my daily joy in creating an 'outfit of the day', and how someone with the exact same life as me ended up having a very similar birth story too. Does that automatically make them a new bestie?

I also show a few flashes of vulnerability, but it's totally fine because it's on a podcast. Just don't come up to me and tell me I'm doing a good job. I will cry.