Summary

In this episode, Nicole and Tasha reflect on their season on anger. They listen to a powerful voicemail and discuss the conflation of anger and aggression. Doctor-Friend Una Henry joins the conversation to discuss the protective nature of anger. They also discuss the impact of passive choices and the role of shame in our lives. The episode concludes with an announcement of the theme for the next season.

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Credits

Neck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.

Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.

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Takeaways

• Recognize and validate your anger
• Share your experiences and compare notes with others
• Understand the difference between anger and aggression
• Take active choices and set boundaries
• Listen to and understand your emotions
• Shrink the voice of shame

Chapters

06:23

The Power of Sharing Experiences and Comparing Notes

10:23

The Impact of Anger in Personal and Professional Relationships

12:08

Recognizing and Validating Anger

16:08

The Conflation of Anger and Aggression

22:49

Continuing the Conversation with Dr. Una Henry

23:17

Understanding the Protective Nature of Anger

25:43

Identifying and Listening to Your Anger

29:16

Making Active Choices and Overcoming Fear

31:09

The Impact of Passive Choices and Breaking Free from Shoulds

36:21

Shrinking the Voice of Shame

38:36

Conclusion and Announcement of Next Season

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Summary

In this episode, Nicole and Tasha discuss anger and its role in personal and societal contexts. They provide updates on their own experiences with anger and reflect on their exploration of anger. They introduce the show's Patreon and discuss ways to support the podcast. They also listen to voicemails from listeners on topics such as grief and anger, rom-coms and toxic relationships, and women's anger in society. They discuss the book Good and Mad by Rebecca Traister and its exploration of women's anger throughout history. The episode concludes with a discussion on using anger as fuel and a call to action for listeners to tap into their anger and use it productively.

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Credits

Neck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.

Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.

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Chapters

01:17

Exploring Anger

03:05

Introducing Patreon

03:35

Supporting the Podcast

05:00

Voicemails

10:12

Discussion on the Book 'Good and Mad'

13:02

Little Mini Book Club

26:21

Conclusion and Call to Action

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In this episode, Nicole and Tasha discuss the book Rage Becomes Her by Soraya Chemaly. They explore topics such as the suppression of women's anger, objectification, bullying, white supremacy, and the importance of self-awareness and community. The book highlights the injustices women face in everyday life and the impact of suppressing anger on their health. The hosts emphasize the need for women to trust and support each other and to separate body confidence from appearance.

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Credits

Neck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.

Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.

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Chapters

00:00

Introduction

02:44

Book Club and Hoopla

07:41

Authority Figures and Negotiation

08:09

Bullying and Expressing Anger

10:15

Anger and Sadness

10:44

White Supremacy and Women's Anger

11:09

White Women's Vulnerability and Violence

11:39

Terroristic Racist Violence

19:02

Objectification and Pain

20:29

Domestic Labor and Caregiving

23:17

Self-Awareness and Naming Anger

23:43

Difference Between Anger, Assertiveness, and Aggression

24:12

Cultivating Body Confidence

24:42

Trusting Other Women

26:09

Forming Communities

27:09

Listener Voicemail

30:00

Experiment and Conclusion

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You thought Anger was an erratic bully to avoid at all costs, but maybe ... she is actually your new BFF? Let us start you on the journey with a fabulous interview with couples and family therapist Dr. Una Henry.

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Credits

Neck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.

Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.

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Summary

This conversation explores the power and importance of anger in personal growth. The guest, Dr. Una Henry, discusses how anger is often misunderstood and stigmatized, but can actually be a protective and liberating emotion. The conversation covers topics such as the influence of movies on our perception of anger, the impact of words and language, rejecting binary perspectives, and the function of anger as an early warning system. The guest also shares personal experiences and listener voicemails provide additional insights into the physical and emotional manifestations of anger.

Chapters

00:00

Introduction and Background

02:12

The Power of Anger

04:05

Embracing Anger

06:19

The Influence of Movies

08:12

The Impact of Words

09:12

Rejecting Binary Perspectives

10:08

Anger as a Clarity Indicator

11:08

The Function of Anger

12:06

Anger and Boundaries

13:05

Navigating Conflict in Relationships

14:26

Anger as an Early Warning System

15:25

The Liberation of Anger

24:21

Listener Voicemails

28:24

Conclusion

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Can navel-gazing and blaming your parents levitate you out of the dicksand? Plus we hear from Doctor/Neighbor Jen about what anger looks like in our brains and bodies.

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Credits

Neck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.

Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.

Episode Sponsors

Ladies Who Strategize Get in front of exceptional candidates and demonstrate your commitment to gender equity. LWS is chock full of vetted mid- to C-level strategic thinkers, brand consultants and fractional CMOs, plus the employees who can provide more context and color to what it’s really like to work in your company. It’s no surprise that LWS has connected hundreds of members to freelance and permanent roles to which they would not have otherwise applied. Posting freelance gigs is free; permanent jobs have paid options.

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Summary

In this episode, the hosts explore the theme of anger and discuss their personal experiences with anger. They also interview Dr. Jen Roth, a professor of psychology and neuroscientist, who provides insights into the biological and cognitive aspects of anger. The hosts then introduce an experiment for listeners to explore the physical sensations of anger and reflect on its function. They also discuss the importance of personal growth and accountability. The episode concludes with a preview of the next episode and a reminder to leave voicemails on the Neckline.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Theme of Anger

02:59 Personal Experiences with Anger

08:13 Understanding Anger from a Psychological and Neuroscientific Perspective

15:32 Experiment: Exploring the Physical Sensations of Anger

19:41 Reflecting on Personal Growth and Accountability

23:40 Preview of Next Episode and Conclusion

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Say it with us: "dicksand!" Anyhoo, what is that one sociopathic dude at the very top -- the one with all the helicopters -- actually feeling?

Can talking about gnarly power structures be funny? Let's find out together. Experiments, experts, non-experts, listener voicemails.

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Credits

Neck-deep in the dicksand is a production of Neck-deep Media.

Music, sound effects, and audio engineering by Alexis Gideon.

Episode Sponsors

Books Are Magic is a family-owned independent bookstore with two locations in Brooklyn. BAM is committed to being a welcoming, friendly, and inclusive space for all people. They offer thoughtfully selected voices and stories on their shelves, and free and affordable events featuring emerging writers as well as long-adored authors. Enjoy 10% off your entire online purchase with code NECK10 (through March 2024).

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Summary

Neck-deep in the dicksand is a podcast that explores power structures and aims to dismantle systems like patriarchy and white supremacy. The hosts, Tasha Gideon and Nicole Peeler, approach these topics from a non-expert perspective, embracing the joy of realizing they're doing it wrong and constantly growing and changing. The podcast's theme for the first season is anger, and they will explore different dimensions of anger, share listener experiences, and interview experts. The goal is to co-create a space for honest discussions and evolve together.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Explaining the dicksand

07:01 Purpose of the Podcast

13:20 Listener Voicemail and Introduction of Season 1 Theme: Anger

17:11 Creating a Shared Evolution

18:34 Conclusion and Call to Action

TRANSCRIPT

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