New Dad Order

Jerrard and Ray discuss sleep patterns and when their kids should and wanted to go to sleep, a brief discussion about Thirdzy, getting to the gym. Dad fashion is on the books-did you rock cargo shorts? Squatting and Leg press are subjects for meat head moment and they finish off with a heated discussion on who is a better athlete...Soccer players or basketball players! Who you got?

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Join us as we navigate the exhilarating journey of fatherhood, sharing stories, advice, and the occasional dad joke, real talk on parenting, balancing life, and embracing the chaos of fatherhood.​

Welcome back to the New Dad Order — where we raise strong kids, crush weak mindsets, and deadlift through the drama.In this episode, we’re talking about:

🏆 Why participation trophies aren't helping

💰 How NIL deals are changing youth sports

😢 What to do when your kid has a loss after a game

🏋️‍♂️ The right way to deadlift (and why it matters)

📣 Coaching your kid with heart — win or loseIt’s not just about sports — it’s about grit, growth, and being the kind of dad who shows up when it counts. Whether you're a coach, a parent, this one’s for you.

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Jerrard and Ray talk about Bullying and how it affected each of their lives and they give solutions to parents especially in this new day of social media.

Talking about social media, how can you post it but not talk about it?

There are a few more topics and a new Dad Rule and a meat head moment.

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Jerrad and Ray breakdown some of their origin story and talking about being older dads and through those experiences how we are raising our kids.This conversation explores the profound intersections between parenting, faith, and family dynamics, with a strong emphasis on youth sports and coaching philosophy. It reflects on the challenges and rewards of navigating family life while balancing personal passions, such as sports and fitness. The discussion highlights the importance of discipline, growth, and emotional maturity in both parenting and coaching, and how shared experiences in sports can strengthen relationships. It touches on the impact of travel sports, the influence of the ego in youth athletics, and the journey of embracing health-conscious lifestyle changes as a dad. Ultimately, it reveals the transformative power of learning through exploration, discovery, and the lessons sports teach about life, teamwork, and growth.

Special thanks to Man Overseas Podcast-Brad Dantonio https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast

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Jerrad-IG is ‪@itsparfait‬

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