New Dad Order

This episode examines three of the most talked-about stories of 2025: the Charlie Kirk assassination, the suspension of Jimmy Kimmel, and the debate over deploying the National Guard in New Orleans.The conversation begins with the shocking assassination of Charlie Kirk, a moment that shook the political landscape and intensified national concerns about political violence. The episode explores not only the facts of the case but also the media reaction and the way the story has been framed across different outlets.Attention then turns to the suspension of Jimmy Kimmel, following his controversial remarks connected to Kirk’s death. This segment asks whether the incident reflects the persistence of cancel culture or a more straightforward case of accountability. The blurred line between free speech, public consequences, and claims of censorship is analyzed within the broader context of America’s ongoing culture wars.From there, the focus shifts to crime and policing in New Orleans, where leaders are debating whether the National Guard should assist local police. The proposal comes despite reports that violent crime has declined by nearly 20% in 2025. The episode highlights the tension between statistics showing progress and political moves suggesting crisis, questioning what it means to normalize troop patrols in U.S. cities.The discussion raises several broader questions:Has the phrase cancel culture lost meaning in today’s debates, or is it still useful for understanding cultural clashes?What role should accountability play when celebrities and media figures make controversial statements?How should the U.S. respond to crime in cities where trends are improving but public trust remains shaky?Does deploying the military in American neighborhoods strengthen public safety or signal deeper problems in governance and policing?Throughout the episode, these stories are connected to larger themes of political polarization, cultural tension, and public safety. The result is a timely and thought-provoking breakdown of how politics, media, and security collide in America in 2025.0:00-intro 0:49-Show intro 1:19-Lost faith in humanity? 1:29-thirdly ad 4:14-We talk about Jimmy Kimmel 9:43-Disneys decision 11:44-Letterman fan 13:30-Not a lot watching late night tv 14:11-Conspiracy theories 14:39 -Same thoughts from previous episode on Charlie Kirk? 16:39-Dubby Ad 17:20-Don’t talk about your faith 21:43-Propaganda monologue 22:22-National Guard discussion 35:00-Wrap up🎧 Listen on Spotify: New Dad Order Podcast on Spotify📸 Follow us on Instagram: @newdadorderpodcast1#CharlieKirk #NewDadOrder #Podcast #CharlieKirkMurder #Politics #FreedomOfSpeech📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: [email protected]📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: [email protected]💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder✦ Contact Information Burns Estate PlanningToll-Free: 800-308-4416Louisiana: 985-345-7114Florida: 850-855-4890Alabama: 251-378-9822Fax: 985-345-7124Email: [email protected]: burnsestateplanning.comOffice Locations: Hammond (HQ), Mandeville, Metairie, Baton Rouge (LA); Destin, Panama City Beach, Pensacola, Tallahassee, West Palm Beach, Jacksonville (FL); Spanish Fort (AL).Social Media:Facebook: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsLinkedIn: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth AdvisorsYouTube: Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the shocking murder of Charlie Kirk — a polarizing figure in American politics and social media.We talk about:👉 His rise from college campus debates to internet fame👉 Why so many people either loved him or hated him👉 The role social media played in his career (and his downfall)👉 Our honest opinions on his impact, legacy, and the tragedy surrounding his death👉 How freedom of speech, division, and echo chambers shaped the conversation around himThis one’s a little different in tone, but we wanted to give our real reactions and have an open conversation without the political extremes. Whether you agreed with Charlie Kirk or not, there’s no denying his influence.Hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and drop a comment below 👇 — Did Charlie Kirk’s debates ever change your mind about anything, or did they just fuel the division?🎧 Listen on Spotify: New Dad Order Podcast on Spotify📸 Follow us on Instagram: @newdadorderpodcast1📲 More socials coming soon…#CharlieKirk #NewDadOrder #Podcast #CharlieKirkMurder #Politics #FreedomOfSpeech📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: [email protected]📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: [email protected]💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9Qtiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder

In Episode 23 of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the funniest, strangest, and most absurd house rules and parenting myths they grew up with. From weird family traditions to childhood superstitions, the episode unpacks the rules parents swore were true but turned out to be nothing more than myths or scare tactics.The Strangest House RulesSome rules were practical, but others made no sense at all. One example was the “no shoes and no socks inside” rule, meant to keep the house clean but taken to an extreme. Another? No sleeping past 8 AM on weekends, because sleeping in was seen as being “lazy.” Families also enforced no singing at the table, no eating in the living room, and the classic “don’t use the nice towels or soap” reserved for guests only.Parenting Myths We All HeardRay and Parfait laugh about the myths nearly every kid was told:“Don’t swallow gum, it stays in your stomach for 7 years.”“No swimming after eating for 30 minutes.”“Turn off the car’s dome light—it’s illegal.”“Sit too close to the TV and you’ll go blind.”These myths weren’t just funny—they shaped how kids behaved, even though none of them were true.Childhood Superstitions and Family BeliefsThe hosts also share unique cultural superstitions. One rule claimed that whistling indoors invited ghosts. Another tradition suggested rubbing a potato on a wart and burying it to make it disappear. Families even believed that planting a baby’s umbilical cord stump by rose bushes would make the flowers bloom more beautifully.Outdated Safety RulesThe episode highlights how safety was viewed differently back then. Many kids rode in the back of pickup trucks or skipped wearing seatbelts in the back seat because parents thought it was safe. Others were told that wearing the seatbelt incorrectly could “cut you in half” during an accident—another scare tactic with no truth.Why These Rules Stick With UsWhile most of these childhood rules and myths turned out to be false, they remain memorable because of how often parents repeated them. Some were rooted in caution (like not swallowing gum), while others were just cultural traditions passed down without question.Today, parents laugh at how absurd these rules sound but also reflect on how they shaped childhood experiences. Whether it was drinking from the garden hose, turning lights off to “save money,” or avoiding “guest towels,” these weird family rules and parenting myths became part of growing up.👉 If you love stories about funny parenting rules, childhood myths, and family superstitions, this episode of the New Dad Order podcast is packed with nostalgia, humor, and a reminder that sometimes the strangest rules make the best memories.📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: [email protected]📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: [email protected]💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9Qtiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder

How do you know if your child is dealing with fake friends at school? In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the realities of childhood friendships, parenting struggles, and the hard lessons kids face when friends turn toxic.As parents, we want our kids to grow up surrounded by real friends who uplift them, not fake friends who use, criticize, or tear them down. But spotting the difference isn’t always easy—especially in elementary and middle school, when cliques, jealousy, and peer pressure start to shape your child’s social life.In this conversation, we break down the 7 signs of fake friends every parent should know:Only reaching out when they need somethingCriticizing instead of upliftingTalking behind your backDismissing your feelings or dreamsMimicking your interests for the wrong reasonsGetting jealous of your winsLeaving you drained after hanging outAlong the way, Ray and Parfait share real parenting experiences about guiding kids through friendship struggles, school drama, and balancing sports, academics, and personal hobbies. From helping your child handle toxic friendships to teaching them how to be a true friend themselves, this episode is full of practical parenting tips, relatable stories, and encouragement for families.We also cover:How to protect your kids from fake friends without sheltering themThe right way to talk to your child about jealousy, criticism, and gossipBuilding resilience and empathy so kids can thrive socially and emotionallyWhy friendship struggles are part of growing up—and how parents can guide their kids through themWhether your child is facing toxic friendships in school, struggling with losing a best friend, or just starting to navigate the ups and downs of childhood friendships, this episode gives you the tools to help them spot the red flags and build stronger, healthier relationships.If you’re a parent who wants actionable parenting advice on friendships, fake friends, and helping kids grow socially, this one’s for you.👉 Don’t forget to Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more conversations on parenting, kids, and real-life family struggles.Time Stamps:00:00-intro 01:27-Thirdzy Ad 01:56-Friend talk 12:19-When do friends separate? 14:33-7 things fake friends do 14:43-#1 Friend needs me when he needs something 17:58- #2-Criticize more than uplift 20:49-#3-friends who talk behind their back 23:16-Dubby Ad 23:56-#4-they dismiss your feelings or make fun of your dreams 27:30-#5-They mimic your interest 29:02-#6-Jealous of your wins 31:02-#7-You feel drained after hanging out 33:00-How do we teach our kids not to be fake friends 37:50-outro📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: [email protected]📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: [email protected]💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9QTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://open.spotify.com/show/4Zi2b2lmVbAr1m8mhHhjOK?si=l6HluKZ8Rs2Fxt6WJAVy9Qtiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderThanks to Psych2Go!

Breakfast Cereal, 90s Nostalgia, Saturday Morning Cartoons, Sugar Smacks, Frosted Flakes, Lucky Charms, Apple Jacks, and Corn Pops — in this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait take you back to the golden days of childhood when cereal and cartoons ruled Saturday mornings.The hosts start by declaring their favorite childhood cereals: Sugar Smacks (both agree it was their number one pick). From there, the cereal debate heats up with Apple Jacks, Corn Pops, and the ever-popular Frosted Flakes. They laugh about whether Wheaties were just Corn Flakes in a different box, share hot takes on why Lucky Charms marshmallows weren’t really marshmallows, and admit that some cereals like Cookie Crisp were “too much” even for kids.Classic cereal mascots also get a shoutout — Tony the Tiger, Toucan Sam, and the Trix Rabbit — as the guys remember how commercials influenced what ended up in the pantry. They dive into retro cereals tied to cartoons like Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Ghostbusters, and Batman, all of which were just Lucky Charms knockoffs with different marshmallow shapes.The episode blends cereal rankings, funny debates, childhood stories, and retro advertising nostalgia, making it a perfect listen for anyone who grew up in the 1980s, 1990s, or early 2000s. Whether you loved sugary cereals, healthy cereals like Cheerios, or gimmick cereals tied to cartoons, you’ll find yourself nodding along — or arguing in your head about which box was truly the best.By the end, both hosts realize they actually agreed on way too much (especially their love for Sugar Smacks and Frosted Flakes) and invite listeners to share their own favorite cereals in the comments.📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: [email protected]📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: [email protected]💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 Listen on SpotifyTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/ray-belvin/episodes/No-Regrets-on-using-Life-360--Eat-whats-cooked--NDO5-family-podcast-motivation-art-jre-e31pdc6tiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderTime Stamp0:00-intro 1:15-Thirdzy Ad 02:18-We start the discussion on favorite cereal-Sugar Smacks 2:46-Applejacks 3:10-Corn pops 3:33-Lucky Charms 4:02-Cartoons made likeness cereals 5:24-Frosted Flakes 6:05-Corn Flakes 6:36-Wheaties 7:26-Frosted mini wheat 8:10-Rays personal Mandela Effect 8:38-Cheerios 8:50-Frootloops 9:41-Rice krispies 9:50-Fruity/ cocoa pebbles 11:09-Trix 12:41-Cookie Crisp 13:53-Reese’s Puffs 14:09-cinnamon toast crunch 15:05-Captain Crunch 15:18-cereal commercials 17:03-Crunch Berries 17:56-honey bunches of oats 18:02-Life cereal 18:38- Dubby Ad 19:11-Life cereals Origin of name 20:03-Special K 20:13-Raisin Bran 21:54-Drinking milk after eating cereal 23:10-Drinking milk with dinner 25:16-couldn’t debate cereal because we liked the same ones 26:19-outro

Welcome back to the New Dad Order Podcast! In Episode 20, Ray and Parfait take a nostalgic trip down memory lane and revisit the magic of Saturday morning cartoons. From bowls of cereal in front of the TV to heated debates about which shows truly stood the test of time, this episode is packed with laughs, memories, and a healthy dose of dad perspective.We compare the cartoon eras of the 80s vs. 90s, exploring what shows shaped our childhoods, what still holds up today, and how modern kids are missing out on the weekend ritual of waking up early for cartoons. We also dive into wrestling nostalgia, after-school classics, and how streaming has completely changed the game for kids today. What we cover in this episode:Saturday morning routines & the culture around cartoonsWrestling cartoons & WWF memories (Hulk Hogan, Andre the Giant, Iron Sheik)Iconic 90s lineup: ProStars (Michael Jordan, Bo Jackson, Wayne Gretzky), Ghostbusters, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 80s favorites: Smurfs, Scooby-Doo, Dungeons & Dragons, Thundercats, G.I. JoeLooney Tunes vs. Flintstones vs. Jetsons – which cartoon holds up the best?Afternoon & after-school shows: DuckTales, Chip & Dale Rescue Rangers, Tiny Toons, Robotech, X-Men Scooby-Doo crossover, and the moment kids realized wrestling wasn’t “real”Comic book crossovers and how Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles went from violent indie comics to kid-friendly Saturday staplesPlus, we share some funny personal stories: growing up on pizza nights, family food traditions, comic collecting, and even which Ninja Turtle was our favorite.🕒 Timestamps00:00 – Intro & Saturday morning nostalgia01:10 – Childhood routines & cartoons02:12 – Wrestling cartoons & WWF memories03:08 – ProStars, Ghostbusters & Ninja Turtles04:17 – Classic 80s cartoons: 06:36 – G.I. Joe toys, cartoons & life lessons08:12 – Pre-workout sponsor shoutout09:08 – Looney Tunes, DuckTales & after-school favorites10:35 – Space Jam & Looney Tunes revival11:34 – Comic book cartoons: Spider-Man, X-Men, Batman12:31 – Hanna-Barbera classics: Captain Caveman, Space Ghost14:00 – Saturday morning wrestling & WWF memories15:26 – Scooby-Doo & WWE crossover16:01 – After-school cartoons: Tiny Toons, Rescue Rangers, Brady Bunch18:19 – Anime influence: Robotech, GeForce & toy culture20:23 – Nickelodeon classics: Rugrats, Doug, Dora22:08 – Baby Shark & kids’ shows today22:58 – Scooby-Doo Jr., Jetsons, Flintstones24:33 – Best cartoons ever? Dungeons & Dragons vs. Ninja Turtles25:56 – Wrestling memories & realizing it was scripted26:30 – Flintstones vs. Looney Tunes27:38 – Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles comic origins29:29 – Favorite Turtles & final reflections29:54 – Closing thoughts & call to actionLike this episode? Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and turn on notifications so you never miss a new drop from New Dad Order.📩 Reach Out:Jerrard:📧 Email: [email protected]📱 Instagram: @itsparfaitRay:📧 Email: [email protected]💤 Sleep & Recovery:Melatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak Fitness👉 Hit this link and use promo code: NDOZZZ🔗 https://thirdzy.com/⚡ Energy Boost:Need a new energy drink? Try Dubby Energy!👉 Use this link and discount code automatically applies🔗 https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotb🌐 Find Us Online:Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify:🎧 Listen on SpotifyTikTok:https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorderMelatonin-Free Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/ray-belvin/episodes/No-Regrets-on-using-Life-360--Eat-whats-cooked--NDO5-family-podcast-motivation-art-jre-e31pdc6tiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder

In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive into the world of travel baseball vs travel basketball (AAU). They break down how summer becomes “high drama season” with endless World Series tournaments, costs of travel ball, team classifications (AA, AAA, Majors), and the business behind organizations like Perfect Game, UTSA, and Hammond Yankees. They also compare basketball’s AAU structure, local leagues, and the impact on young athletes and families. From expenses to coaching, talent development, and the culture of travel sports, this conversation is both insightful and relatable for every sports parent. ⏱️ Timestamps00:00 – Travel baseball World Series hype00:29 – Spring, summer, and travel ball season00:54 – Recovery products for sports dads01:24 – Basketball & AAU explained02:20 – Travel baseball structure & “money grab” debate03:22 – Travel organizations (Perfect Game, UTSA, 2D, Hammond Yankees)05:20 – Costs of tournaments, uniforms & fees07:03 – Umpire fees & tournament format08:23 – Local vs out-of-state travel09:17 – Playing AA vs AAA vs Majors10:18 – Why kids deserve stronger competition11:15 – Travel team organizations across Gulf Coast12:42 – Basketball structure & travel programs14:00 – Parents’ role & team development15:28 – Multiple “World Series” explained16:22 – Travel drama, alcohol, and team chemistry17:09 – Basketball travel timeline vs baseball seasonReach out to Jerrard or [email protected] is ‪@itsparfait‬ [email protected] Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbWe are also on the following sites:Instagram-https://www.instagram.com/newdadorderpodcast1Spotify-https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/ray-belvin/episodes/No-Regrets-on-using-Life-360--Eat-whats-cooked--NDO5-family-podcast-motivation-art-jre-e31pdc6tiktok-https://www.tiktok.com/@newdadorder#joerogan #theovon #shawnryanshow #news #dailydoseofwisdom

n this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, co-host Jerrard shares his firsthand experience using Thirdzy, a natural sleep supplement, and how it compares to his previous go-to: Beam, a CBD-based sleep aid. As a dad who juggles early mornings and long commutes, Jerrard gives a detailed, no-hype breakdown of how Thirdzy affected his sleep quality, referencing data from his WHOOP sleep tracker. He explains how Thirdzy helped him reach deep sleep faster, without the grogginess he sometimes felt after using Beam.Jerrard talks about how Beam worked well for a time, especially when paired with warm milk, but eventually he wanted something more well-rounded—without melatonin or CBD. That led to his switch to Thirdzy, which he says gives him a “night and day” difference in how rested he feels. The conversation digs into ingredients, routines (including adding electrolytes for overnight hydration), and real-world results from using both products.Later, the dads pivot to a deeper discussion around parenting psychology—specifically the emotional impact of things parents say without thinking. They explore phrases like “What’s wrong with you?” and “I wish you were more like your sister” and how these comments, even if unintentional, can hurt a child’s sense of identity or self-worth. The guys reflect on their own upbringings, cultural norms, and how they’re learning to parent more consciously.The episode blends dad life, health optimization, and emotional intelligence, making it a valuable resource for parents who want to feel better and do better.Key topics:Thirdzy sleep aid vs Beam CBD sleep powderNatural sleep without melatonin or grogginessWHOOP deep sleep tracking & resultsParenting psychology: harmful vs helpful languageHow dads can balance health, stress, and emotional parentingT⏱️ YouTube Timestamps00:00 – Welcome & Episode 18 Overview01:32 – Ray’s First Experience with Thirds Sleep Supplement02:41 – Beam CBD Sleep Aid: How It Worked (and Downsides)03:35 – Why Ray Switched from Beam to Thirds04:36 – Sleep Tracking with Whoop & Deep Sleep Benefits06:11 – Doctor’s Opinion on Thirds (Non-Melatonin Advantage)07:33 – Real-Life Benefits: Waking Up Rested Without Grogginess08:37 – How Thirds Makes 3 Hours Feel Like 809:54 – Sleep Patterns & Recovery Insights10:20 – Why Ray Subscribed to Thirds for Good11:13 – Nootropic-Based Pre-Workout Introduction12:04 – Parenting Story: The Ice Cream Incident13:09 – “What’s Wrong With You?” – Harmless or Harmful?14:40 – The Context Matters: Behavior vs. Personal Traits15:46 – “I Wish You Were More Like…” – Healthy Advice or Hurtful Comparison?16:49 – When Comparison is Used for Positive Traits17:21 – Cultural Context: Asian Firstborn Expectations18:27 – Final Thoughts on Parenting Phrases & Character Development👇 Drop your thoughts below!✅ Don’t forget to LIKE 👍, SHARE, and SUBSCRIBE for more honest talks on health, recovery, and parenting.🔔 Hit the bell so you never miss an episode!Reach out to Jerrard or [email protected] is ‪@itsparfait‬ [email protected] Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADO...We are also on the following sites:Instagram- / newdadorderpodcast1 Spotify-https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show...tiktok- / newdadorder

s your marriage struggling after having kids? You're not alone. In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast (Ep 17), we dive deep into how marriage changes after kids and what it takes to reconnect with your partner when life revolves around parenting.From managing schedules to creating intentional couple time like a quiet coffee or dog walks, we share real experiences and practical tips for keeping your marriage strong. Whether you're newly married, planning a baby, or already married with kids, this conversation offers honest insights and advice for relationships after baby.We explore how family life, marriage struggles, and the challenge of finding time for each other impact long-term happiness. Learn how small efforts—like a weekly routine or simple attention—can make a huge difference in marriage life after baby.💬 Drop a comment: What do you and your partner do to stay connected?👍 Like | 🔔 Subscribe | 📣 Share with others who might relate!Reach out to Jerrard or [email protected] is ‪@itsparfait‬ [email protected] Sleep & Recovery for Peak fitness-Hit this link and use our promo code-NDOZZZhttps://thirdzy.com/Need a new energy drink get Dubby Energy!https://www.dubby.gg/discount/NEWDADORDER?ref=fhfcqotbSpotify-https://creators.spotify.com/pod/show/ray-belvin/episodes/No-Regrets-on-using-Life-360--Eat-whats-cooked--NDO5-family-podcast-motivation-art-jre-e31pdc600:00 - Intro: Welcome to New Dad Order Podcast00:30 - Overview of the 4-part "Dad Identity Crisis" series01:18 - Rediscovering self and marriage after kids02:10 - Importance of personal hobbies & identity03:36 - How marriage changes when kids grow up05:00 - Prioritizing your spouse: “God first, wife second”06:00 - How they created couple time after kids07:35 - Coffee and conversation: the new connection routine09:20 - Evening walks with the dog = bonding time10:50 - Breaking the habit of only talking about the kids12:45 - Date night struggles & lack of alone trips15:00 - Daily routines vs weekly connection17:20 - Dreams for future: travel, coffee, connection20:00 - Do we give our spouse enough attention?22:15 - What do we actually do together as a couple?23:45 - Joining a faith-based couple group for growth25:00 - Final reflections: Awareness is key26:30 - Outro: Share your ways of staying connected!🔔 Disclaimer:The content shared in this video is for informational and conversational purposes only. It reflects personal experiences and opinions, and should not be taken as professional marital, psychological, or parenting advice. Every relationship is unique. Please consult a qualified counselor or therapist for personalized support. Viewer discretion is advised.#marriageafterkids #marriedwithkids #relationshipadvice #familylife #marriagetips #relationshiptips #babyplanningaftermarriage #marriageandkids #marriedafter #marriageinfamily #lifeafterbaby #marriagestruggles #marriagekidsandmoney #family #aftermarriagebabyplanning

In this powerful episode of the New Dad Order podcast, we dive deep into one of the most overlooked yet important transitions a man can experience: rediscovering your identity after becoming a father. Fatherhood changes everything — from your hobbies and lifestyle to how you see yourself. Hosts Ray and Parfait reflect on their personal journeys of transformation, sharing how they moved from late-night poker tables to early morning workouts, CrossFit routines, coaching youth sports, and balancing marriage and mental health. 👉 Are you a new dad feeling lost in your role?👉 Do you miss your old hobbies and wonder if you'll ever get back to “you”?You're not alone — this episode is for YOU.🔑 Topics Covered:Finding new purpose after kidsBalancing marriage and parentingMental health & me-time for dadsGetting back into fitness (CrossFit, running, etc.)Coaching and community leadershipDad guilt vs. self-careWhy “effort and focus” matter more than anythingMyths of modern fatherhood💬 Drop a comment and tell us: How have YOU rediscovered yourself after becoming a dad?📌 Don’t forget to Like, Subscribe, and hit the 🔔 notification bell for more authentic parenting talks.00:00 – Intro: The Dad Identity Crisis00:28 – Losing Old Hobbies After Kids00:52 – Not Letting Fatherhood Define You01:55 – Early Fatherhood Reflections & Work-Life Balance03:10 – Poker, Parties, and Letting Go04:57 – The Mental Shift: Guilt vs. Priorities07:21 – Coaching: A New Purpose Beyond Parenting08:40 – Leadership & Community Involvement10:00 – Respect & Effort: Life Lessons Through Sports12:03 – Rediscovery Through Fitness & CrossFit14:18 – Marriage, Me-Time & Running as a Couple26:00 – Outro: Why Dads Must Keep Their Identity🔒 Disclaimer:The content shared in this video and podcast episode is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is intended for informational and motivational purposes only and should not be taken as professional medical, psychological, or parenting advice. Always consult a qualified expert or counselor for personalized support related to mental health, parenting, or relationship issues.#fatherhood #parentingtips #rediscovery #dadlife #mentalhealth #newdadorder #findyourjoy #postpartum #coachingdads #crossfitdadiva #marriageafterkids #momstories #dadidentitycrisis