I caught my wife sexting and lying about it; how do I forgive her? Like your first caller, my wife had affairs and my marriage was unable to be fixed. I had a porn addiction, and reading Every Young Man’s Battle helped me to commit to making changes! My 22yo daughter gained eighty pounds since getting married, and I saw a half-empty vodka bottle. Where do I start with her without getting her upset? I am an ecstatic new grandfather, and then hit an emotional pothole. Why is being abandoned by my dad coming up now?