New Life LIVE

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New Life LIVE episodes

April 23, 2025New Life Live: April 23, 2025
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Topics: Betrayal, Mother Issues, Leadership, Sexual Abuse, Insomnia, Counseling
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris
Caller Questions & More:
Sheri explains the difference between “betrayal trauma induced control” and codependency.
My mom says I shouldn’t be a Young Life leader because I haven’t been through anything to qualify me as a leader.
I was sexually abused by my dad from a young age until I was 40yo and still have insomnia and hypervigilance; would cognitive behavioral therapy be helpful?
Suggested Resources:
How People Grow
Take Your Life Back
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Topics: Betrayal, Mother Issues, Leadership, Sexual Abuse, Insomnia, Counseling
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris
Caller Questions & More:
Sheri explains the difference between “betrayal trauma induced control” and codependency.
My mom says I shouldn’t be a Young Life leader because I haven’t been through anything to qualify me as a leader.
I was sexually abused by my dad from a young age until I was 40yo and still have insomnia and hypervigilance; would cognitive behavioral therapy be helpful?
Suggested Resources:
How People Grow
Take Your Life Back
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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April 22, 2025New Life Live: April 22, 2025
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Topics: Christian Walk, Affairs, Trust, Anger, Separation, Physical Abuse
Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions & More:
Chris discusses our changing relationship with God and the state of reorientation.
My husband is unfaithful. I found a bottle of Viagra, but he denied it, and my pastors told me they don’t believe me.
My wife kicked me out of the house and changed the locks; what can I do to control my anger and save my marriage?
What is my obligation to our marriage covenant? My wife left a goodbye note on the table saying she has left to go find herself.
Was it the right thing for me to call the authorities and press charges because my husband was physically abusive?
Suggested Resources:
Intimate Deception
Sacred Marriage
Worthy of Her Trust
Emotional Freedom Workbook
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Topics: Christian Walk, Affairs, Trust, Anger, Separation, Physical Abuse
Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Dr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions & More:
Chris discusses our changing relationship with God and the state of reorientation.
My husband is unfaithful. I found a bottle of Viagra, but he denied it, and my pastors told me they don’t believe me.
My wife kicked me out of the house and changed the locks; what can I do to control my anger and save my marriage?
What is my obligation to our marriage covenant? My wife left a goodbye note on the table saying she has left to go find herself.
Was it the right thing for me to call the authorities and press charges because my husband was physically abusive?
Suggested Resources:
Intimate Deception
Sacred Marriage
Worthy of Her Trust
Emotional Freedom Workbook
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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April 21, 2025New Life Live: April 21, 2025
Topics: Discontentment, Hope, In-laws, Estrangement, Adult Children, Physical Abuse, Trust, Church Life, Separation, Intimacy
Hosts: Brian Perez, Marc Cameron, Dr. Alice Benton
Caller Questions & More:
Marc explains the difference between hoping and wishing, and he shares ways to deal with discontentment in marriage.
How can my husband and I connect with our granddaughters? Our daughter-in-law has alienated us from them.
I was choked and beaten by my first wife and I am not in love with my second wife; how do I trust people?
How do I stop thinking about my husband if I initiated a separation from him because we have a sexless marriage?
My wife has physical issues, and we haven’t been intimate for a couple of years; what can I do?
Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Life Recovery Workbook for Grief
Secrets of Sex and Marriage
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49 min
April 18, 2025New Life Live: April 18, 2025
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Topics: Criticism, Controllers, Separation, Adult Children, Avoiders, Boundaries, Pornography, Salvation
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Jacqui discusses the need to lower your judgment and criticism of others and to humbly examine where you are missing the mark in your own life.
My husband is very controlling with money; do I move out to a new apartment that I’ve already negotiated?
How do I resolve challenges with my adult daughter who is an avoider?
How much help should we give my brother who had a stroke, has addictions, and is about to get kicked out of a shelter?
My husband watches porn and talks to women online who are really AI bots.
How do I challenge my dad’s beliefs now that he is a Jehovah’s Witness?
Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Take Your Life Back
Intimate Deception
Life Recovery Journal
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Topics: Criticism, Controllers, Separation, Adult Children, Avoiders, Boundaries, Pornography, Salvation
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris, Dr. Alice Benton
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Jacqui discusses the need to lower your judgment and criticism of others and to humbly examine where you are missing the mark in your own life.
My husband is very controlling with money; do I move out to a new apartment that I’ve already negotiated?
How do I resolve challenges with my adult daughter who is an avoider?
How much help should we give my brother who had a stroke, has addictions, and is about to get kicked out of a shelter?
My husband watches porn and talks to women online who are really AI bots.
How do I challenge my dad’s beliefs now that he is a Jehovah’s Witness?
Suggested Resources:
How We Love
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Take Your Life Back
Intimate Deception
Life Recovery Journal
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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49 min
April 17, 2025New Life Live: April 17, 2025
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Topics: Easter, Long Suffering, Anxiety, Technology, Avoiders, Intimacy
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Jill shares her thoughts on Holy Week and long suffering.
My 34yo friend is a computer programmer and is anxious about AI and how it will impact him.
My husband and I will agree about something, but then he won’t do it; could there be some kind of childhood trauma holding him back?
When my wife pulls away from physical intimacy, I pull away emotionally. This is creating distance in our relationship. Where do I put these feelings?
Suggested Resources:
Every Believer’s Thought Life
Boundaries
How We Love
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Topics: Easter, Long Suffering, Anxiety, Technology, Avoiders, Intimacy
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, JJ West
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Jill shares her thoughts on Holy Week and long suffering.
My 34yo friend is a computer programmer and is anxious about AI and how it will impact him.
My husband and I will agree about something, but then he won’t do it; could there be some kind of childhood trauma holding him back?
When my wife pulls away from physical intimacy, I pull away emotionally. This is creating distance in our relationship. Where do I put these feelings?
Suggested Resources:
Every Believer’s Thought Life
Boundaries
How We Love
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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49 min
April 16, 2025New Life Live: April 16, 2025
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Topics: Community, PTSD, Guilt, Adult Children, Boundaries, Affairs, Disclosure, Drug Addiction
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Alice demonstrates, though a personal story, the importance of building a support community well in advance of when you would need their help.
Where can I find a counselor or group that understands the pressure of living with my husband’s PTSD?
I feel guilty when I go on trips and my husband can’t because he is disabled from a prescription drug addiction.
Our adopted daughter has lived an irresponsible life and has health problems; how do we draw the line?
What can we tell our friend whose husband was unfaithful and she feels she needs to hear the whole story before attending Restore? She is also grieving her son who just died from drug addiction.
What book can I give my adult son who turns to cocaine to deal with social anxiety? It gives him suicidal ideation.
Suggested Resources:
Take Your Life Back
Intimate Deception
Healing Is a Choice
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Topics: Community, PTSD, Guilt, Adult Children, Boundaries, Affairs, Disclosure, Drug Addiction
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Alice Benton, Dr. Jacqui Mack-Harris
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Alice demonstrates, though a personal story, the importance of building a support community well in advance of when you would need their help.
Where can I find a counselor or group that understands the pressure of living with my husband’s PTSD?
I feel guilty when I go on trips and my husband can’t because he is disabled from a prescription drug addiction.
Our adopted daughter has lived an irresponsible life and has health problems; how do we draw the line?
What can we tell our friend whose husband was unfaithful and she feels she needs to hear the whole story before attending Restore? She is also grieving her son who just died from drug addiction.
What book can I give my adult son who turns to cocaine to deal with social anxiety? It gives him suicidal ideation.
Suggested Resources:
Take Your Life Back
Intimate Deception
Healing Is a Choice
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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49 min
April 15, 2025New Life Live: April 15, 2025
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Topics: Endurance, Hope, Intimacy, Emotional Affair, Adult Children, Witchcraft, Separation, Finances
Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions & More:
JJ shares steps on how to press on when you hit a roadblock during a project.
My wife feels like it’s crazy for her to stay married to me and is too embarrassed to go to counseling. How do I cope with the life I have now?
Should we say anything to our son about going to Salem on his honeymoon? He uses tarot cards and crystals, and his future mother-in-law is a witch.
Should I leave my husband? He won’t get a vasectomy, and we have no money for college, retirement, or even savings.
Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
How We Love Our Kids
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Topics: Endurance, Hope, Intimacy, Emotional Affair, Adult Children, Witchcraft, Separation, Finances
Hosts: Brian Perez, JJ West, Dr. Jill Hubbard
Caller Questions & More:
JJ shares steps on how to press on when you hit a roadblock during a project.
My wife feels like it’s crazy for her to stay married to me and is too embarrassed to go to counseling. How do I cope with the life I have now?
Should we say anything to our son about going to Salem on his honeymoon? He uses tarot cards and crystals, and his future mother-in-law is a witch.
Should I leave my husband? He won’t get a vasectomy, and we have no money for college, retirement, or even savings.
Suggested Resources:
Worthy of Her Trust
How We Love Our Kids
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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49 min
April 14, 2025New Life Live: April 14, 2025
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Topics: Anger, Depression, Parenting, Reconciliation, Anxiety, Estrangement, Adult Children
Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions & More:
Chris discusses anger, sharing that outrage addiction leads to discontent.
I’ve had depression for weeks and can’t do anything while my husband has been in the hospital.
What type of therapy does my nephew need now that my brother wants to be more involved? I adopted my nephew 7yrs ago when he was removed from my brother’s home.
Is my anxiety and depression causing my anger, or is my anger causing my anxiety and depression?
My abusive ex-husband has turned my kids away from me; how do I show them love without looking desperate?
My 29yo son is living with me, and I can’t get him or his girlfriend out of my house.
Suggested Resources:
Take Your Life Back
How We Love Our Kids
Living Strong, Finishing Well
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Topics: Anger, Depression, Parenting, Reconciliation, Anxiety, Estrangement, Adult Children
Hosts: Brian Perez, Chris Williams, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions & More:
Chris discusses anger, sharing that outrage addiction leads to discontent.
I’ve had depression for weeks and can’t do anything while my husband has been in the hospital.
What type of therapy does my nephew need now that my brother wants to be more involved? I adopted my nephew 7yrs ago when he was removed from my brother’s home.
Is my anxiety and depression causing my anger, or is my anger causing my anxiety and depression?
My abusive ex-husband has turned my kids away from me; how do I show them love without looking desperate?
My 29yo son is living with me, and I can’t get him or his girlfriend out of my house.
Suggested Resources:
Take Your Life Back
How We Love Our Kids
Living Strong, Finishing Well
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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49 min
April 11, 2025New Life Live: April 11, 2025
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Topics: Defenses, Teens, Anger, Marijuana, Groups, Divorce, Remarriage, Coaching, Self Worth, Getting Unstuck
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Sheri discusses defensiveness as a self-protection tool.
My 15yo granddaughter is a twin and has dramatically changed and has asked me to pray for her temper.
One of the participants in our Life Recovery Group uses medical marijuana, and I let her know that it might trigger others in the group. Do you agree?
I’m the caregiver for my ex-husband who is quadriplegic, but I am engaged to another man; do I have biblical grounds to get remarried if I got divorced because of abuse?
I am a grief coach and have a hard time charging people for my services; how do I get unstuck?
Suggested Resources:
How We Love Our Kids
Understanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot
Emotional Freedom Workbook
Boundaries
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Topics: Defenses, Teens, Anger, Marijuana, Groups, Divorce, Remarriage, Coaching, Self Worth, Getting Unstuck
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Sheri Keffer, Dr. Alice Benton
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Sheri discusses defensiveness as a self-protection tool.
My 15yo granddaughter is a twin and has dramatically changed and has asked me to pray for her temper.
One of the participants in our Life Recovery Group uses medical marijuana, and I let her know that it might trigger others in the group. Do you agree?
I’m the caregiver for my ex-husband who is quadriplegic, but I am engaged to another man; do I have biblical grounds to get remarried if I got divorced because of abuse?
I am a grief coach and have a hard time charging people for my services; how do I get unstuck?
Suggested Resources:
How We Love Our Kids
Understanding and Loving Your Child Who Smokes Pot
Emotional Freedom Workbook
Boundaries
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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49 min
April 10, 2025New Life Live: April 10, 2025
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Topics: Discontentment, Anxiety, Grandparenting, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Church Life, Dating, Free Will
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Jill discusses endings, beginnings, and the discontentment that can happen in between.
What should I do if I am anxious and feeling guilty after I threw a box of pastries in anger and it accidentally hit my 6yo grandson?
My 29yo son believes that Jesus is not the only way to get to heaven. Do I talk to him about it again or let it go?
The leader of my adult son’s church fell away and left the church; how can I encourage my son to go back to church, especially around Easter?
How do I have a relationship with Christ if I only go to church with my girlfriend? If our relationship ends, I don’t want to stop being a Christian.
Why does God allow bad people to get away with murder?
Suggested Resources:
100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Why I Believe
Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Topics: Discontentment, Anxiety, Grandparenting, Christian Walk, Adult Children, Church Life, Dating, Free Will
Hosts: Brian Perez, Dr. Jill Hubbard, Marc Cameron
Caller Questions & More:
Dr. Jill discusses endings, beginnings, and the discontentment that can happen in between.
What should I do if I am anxious and feeling guilty after I threw a box of pastries in anger and it accidentally hit my 6yo grandson?
My 29yo son believes that Jesus is not the only way to get to heaven. Do I talk to him about it again or let it go?
The leader of my adult son’s church fell away and left the church; how can I encourage my son to go back to church, especially around Easter?
How do I have a relationship with Christ if I only go to church with my girlfriend? If our relationship ends, I don’t want to stop being a Christian.
Why does God allow bad people to get away with murder?
Suggested Resources:
100 Days To Freedom from Fear and Anxiety
Doing Life with Your Adult Children
Why I Believe
Forgiving What You’ll Never Forget
Subscribe to the NEW LIFE LIVE! podcast via iTunes or download the New Life Ministries App.
Watch on YouTube
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49 min