We’ve heard it a million times but who we surround ourself with matters

Want a literal example?

Here we are hanging out with a bunch of real estate agents

I was invited by my peers to come mastermind and hang out

Who invited his guy here? The people I surround myself with

I took a hard look in my review mirror and was amazed at what I found...

I’ve gotten into my workout and running routine many times but it was missing this one thing

This past weekend I spoke at an event that also allowed me to hear others speak as well

My biggest takeaway was looking in the rearview mirror at myself and seeing where my wins came from and doing them more

But what this also allows me to do is also see the reason I came up short on my goals

Now when I sit down and come up with my workout rhythm I don’t create a plan based on what SHOULD work

I’ve created a plan that’s already worked and identified the areas I needed to make the proper adjustments

Here’s my one thing... I refuse to negotiate with myself and come up with reasons why I deserve a day off

I refuse to negotiate the commitment I’ve made with myself

#WinTheDay

I was out to eat last night with some amazing people and got to learn more about them

I went to a meeting this morning and heard from more people about he selects and their journey

When I surround myself with the right people and we are open about sharing experiences amazing things happen

Meeting people with all backgrounds and stories.. my favorite thing about life

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We have speakers flying in from all over the country to lay it all on the line for you

Whether it was relationships, friends etc

I could blame it on a lot of things but that’s not my style anymore

It came down to having a lack of commitment to myself

I wasn’t clear on what I wanted out of life, and I would constantly go back on commitments I’d make for myself

When I’d do that all other commitments would follow

It wasn’t until I committed to myself did everything else follow suit

These last couple of years I’ve overcome a lot...

But the one thing I’m most happy about is that I’m able to spend time to myself

I used to be so scared of this... so scared of my thoughts and my reality

I’d surround myself with people at all times because I wasn’t mentally strong enough to be alone

But through constant improvement, I’m able to be alone and perfectly fine

Here’s an exercise I did to get back into my hood habits

I close my eyes and think of task I know I need to do to better my life

I then think of the life I would have 5-10 years from now and all the good I would be able to do for my loved ones because I did it everyday

Then... I think of having to apologize to my family and loved ones for not being able to help because let’s say I didn’t make my disks everyday

I think of telling my future kids “Hey I’d love to send you to that school you really want to go to but you know I was too afraid to make dials so you can’t do that”

I got my ass back on the phones

I got lucky that I put in countless hours of work

I got lucky I made decisions to stay in and work on weekends instead of going out

I got lucky I decided to start my own business

I got lucky I paid to go to masterminds and continue my self growth

Luck is exactly what you make it

This applies to all aspects of life

WHERE THERE’S PEOPLE THERE WILL ALWAYS BE PROBLEMS

We need to be part of the solution!

We all need to be actively either donating our time or money to the solutions in life

But everyday I get up and run all over their turf

Just this morning this big one was chasing me down the sidewalk

I’m not a fan of any bird.. I think it’s because they can fly and I can’t

I can choose to let my fear control me or I can live my life... but it’s my choice

(Yea apparently these pigeons get me too as you see on this video )