Any parent knows that it's in kids' nature to test their limits; it seems to be something all kids are born knowing how to do, like breathing or reaching for something that they shouldn't that's high up on a counter. The upside to this challenging behavior is that pushing boundaries is an important part of growing up and becoming more independent, and one day, thinking for themselves and (hopefully) making good choices. Kids need to flex their boundary-pushing muscles now, and sometimes challenge you and disagree with you so that they can assert their individuality more and more as they grow.
Your mission—and as a parent, you've already chosen to accept it—is to teach kids how to test their limits respectfully, without being angry or defiant, and to know that ultimately, you, the parent, are in charge.
Guest: Edith Kriel, executive director of Jelly Beanz, an organisation committed to helping abused and neglected children
Guest: Legendary actor/Marriage councillor/Father Dr Jerry Mofokeng Wa Makhetha