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What if the rules you’ve been following your whole life were never actually written… but somehow you still learned them?
In this episode of No Más Yes Girls, we sit down with Jessica Rivera, executive coach and business consultant, for a real conversation about the unwritten rules women are taught to follow at work, in relationships, in family, and in life.
You know the ones:
Be nice.
Don’t be difficult.
Don’t ask for too much.
Work hard and someone will notice.
Don’t make people uncomfortable.
Be grateful.
Don’t brag.
Don’t take up too much space.
And then one day you realize…
following all of those rules might be the exact thing keeping you small.
Jessica shares her personal journey, the experiences that shaped her, and what she’s learned from helping women advocate for themselves, grow their confidence, navigate corporate spaces, and stop waiting for permission to want more.
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In this conversation, we talk about:
✨ Confidence vs. people-pleasing
✨ The “unwritten rules” women grow up following
✨ Learning to advocate for yourself
✨ Why working hard isn’t always enough
✨ Visibility and the fear of being seen
✨ Asking for more without feeling guilty
✨ Self-worth and money
✨ Taking up space without apologizing
✨ Why so many women shrink themselves to make others comfortable
✨ Healing the beliefs that keep us playing small
✨ Success, identity, and learning who you are outside of achievement
✨ What Jessica is still learning and unlearning today
One of the biggest questions we explore is:
How do you know when you’re being kind… and when you’re abandoning yourself to keep everyone else happy?
Because sometimes being a “good girl,” a good employee, a good daughter, or the person everyone can depend on looks admirable from the outside…
while inside, you’re exhausted from constantly proving yourself.
This episode is a reminder that confidence doesn’t always come before the scary step.
Sometimes confidence is built because you finally took the step while you were still scared.
☕️ Like always, this isn’t a formal interview. It’s a kitchen-table conversation between women talking honestly about work, identity, self-worth, boundaries, and becoming the person you were always allowed to be.
🎙️ Welcome to No Más Yes Girls, a bilingual podcast where two sisters heal out loud and have the conversations many of us grew up avoiding.
If this conversation made you think, “Wow… I do that too,” share it with another person who needs to hear it.🤎
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