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Procrastination — the “I’m stuck” or “I’ll do it later” stuff — is usually fear, and action is the antidote. We dig into how procrastination is often emotional avoidance and a nervous‑system trick (hello, caveman brain) — masking itself as perfectionism or control — and give real tools like journaling “What am I afraid will happen if I actually do this?” plus breathwork, grounding, rage‑song dancing, and doing it anyway to retrain your system.

I share my crisis of faith around my YouTube hustle, we talk about choosing fun and surrender over grinding masculine hustle, and Marci reminds you it’s okay to smash the fish and make it better. We call out fear for what it is — a lying bitch — and show how changing the thought changes the feeling, the action, and eventually the result. Mostly, we keep it real and messy: be authentic, stop chasing metrics that aren’t yours, and put out work you won’t be embarrassed about.

So pick one small bold thing, do it despite the doubt, and watch me — and us — shift the damn Bullshift.

Takeaways:

• I learned that what I keep calling procrastination is usually fear wearing a mask — not laziness at all.
• We explained procrastination as nervous system regulation: we're avoiding the uncomfortable emotion, not the actual task, so call out its bullshift.
• I can flip that regulation into safety with breath work, journaling, grounding, rage songs, movement — whatever calms my nervous system so I actually do the thing.
• We called out perfectionism as a control trick — saying "I'll wait until it's perfect" is fear hiding behind busywork.
• I told my YouTube story: fun and surrender beat relentless hustle, and taking action doesn't automatically mean my whole belief system is false.
• We ran the fact-thought-feeling-action-result model to expose the stories that keep us stuck and then intentionally choose better, braver thoughts.
• I decided authenticity over gaming the algorithm — if one woman is helped by my work, it's worth more than chasing viral vanity metrics.
• Action is the antidote; despite fear and the lying bitch in your head, you push through, smash the fish, make another, and build a testimony you'll later be grateful for.

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Remember: You've Got This! See you on the next one!

Companies mentioned in this episode:

• YouTube
• MrBeast
• Instagram
• Love Blue House
• NoMoreBullShift

How do you actually use Neville Goddard’s Law of Assumption when real life is happening around you?

That’s where we’re going in Part 2 of our conversation with Cheryl Andrisani.

In Part 1, Cheryl shared the story of how changing her assumptions, beliefs and identity transformed her finances, marriage, career and relationship with herself.

This time, we get practical.

We talk about how to recognize a limiting belief while it’s happening, how your emotions and your body can reveal the state you’re operating from, and what to do when you’ve already reacted like the old version of yourself.

Because let’s be real: it’s one thing to say, “Become the version of yourself who already has what she wants.”

It’s another thing entirely when you’re pissed at your husband, worried about money, staring at a stack of bills or trying not to spiral over something you can’t control.

Cheryl walks us through how she learned to shorten the amount of time she stayed stuck in those states and return herself to calm.

We also dive into one of the biggest pieces of manifestation that often gets skipped:

Resistance.

Are you actually open to receiving what you say you want—or are your limiting beliefs, excuses, fear and need for control slowing everything down?

Cheryl explains the Law of Assumption as choosing to live as the version of yourself you want to become now instead of endlessly waiting to get there.

Then we take that principle straight into money.

How do you think like a financially secure woman when the money isn’t in the bank yet?

How do you look at bills without immediately feeling scarcity?

Can you change your relationship with money before your bank account changes?

And what happens when you stop believing money can only come through one particular path?

Cheryl also shares another incredible chapter of her story: after growing a successful e-commerce business that no longer felt aligned with the life she wanted, an unexpected opportunity appeared—and the company was ultimately sold for $1.8 million.

From there, the conversation gets even deeper into surrender, faith, receiving and Neville Goddard’s idea of “living in the end.”

Instead of obsessing over HOW something will happen, what if you could begin feeling the way you believe you’ll feel when it already has?

Peaceful.

Safe.

Supported.

Free.

We talk about:

• How emotions can expose limiting beliefs

• Emotional regulation when you’ve already been triggered

• “Be still and know that I am God” as a practical reset

• Removing resistance and becoming more open to receiving

• How to change your relationship with bills and money

• Why you may already be manifesting perfectly—just not what you consciously want

• Surrendering control over the “how”

• How Cheryl’s business eventually sold for $1.8 million

• Learning to believe money can come through more than one path

• Simple manifestation experiments that make the process feel lighter

• Why putting a timeline on manifestation can create more resistance

• Neville Goddard’s “living in the end”

• Using visualization to move your body out of fear

• Why the thing beneath almost every manifestation may actually be peace

And that final realization may be the biggest shift of the entire conversation:

What if you don’t have to wait for the money, relationship, career or circumstance to change before you allow yourself to feel the way you think it will make you feel?

Maybe peace doesn’t come at the end. Maybe peace becomes the place you begin.

🎙️ No More Bullshift with Peggy & Marci

Connect with Cheryl:

*Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/living_in_joy

*Living in Joy: www.livinginjoy.ca

*Truecosmic Academy: truecosmic/academy/cheryl-andrisani

*Youtube: @Living_in_joy-Cheryl.Andrisani

*facebook.com: Cheryl Carreon Andrisani

*Podcast: She Who Speaks Abundance Podcast

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Facebook
• Truecosmic
• Living in Joy
• No More Bullshift

In this episode, which is Part 1 of 2 ( IT IS THAT GOOD), We picked up mid-conversation (yes, I totally forgot to hit record — classic us), and we launch right into Cheryl’s real, messy, and wildly effective journey with Neville Goddard’s law of assumption.

We are still buzzing about how she and her husband went from scraping by with a half‑million e‑commerce business to doing over $10 million in online sales in three years and eight months.

Cheryl walks us through the shift from toxic positivity and surface affirmations to actually uprooting limiting beliefs — the mirror of your life reflecting who you believe you are. We talk scripture, imagination, and why prayer as gratitude makes more sense than begging the universe. She gives us proof: repaired marriage, financial security, and a calmer inner state that changed everything around her.

As hosts, we get vulnerable with her about our own assumptions, and honestly, you can feel the room lighten when she lays out how faith + practice turned panic into momentum.

If you’ve ever felt stuck in victim mode asking “why me,” Cheryl’s story is a direct “watch me” counterpunch. She describes practical mental moves — asking myself, if I were a millionaire would I be panicking? — and actually training the mind to behave differently.

We laugh, and remind each other that life’s mirrors are not punishments but clues. It’s part inspiration, part how‑to, and all heart: imagine the version of you you want, stop performing your old habits, and start being that person now so reality will match. Come for the numbers, stay for the tenderness and the simple, repeatable mindwork.

Connect with Cheryl:

*Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/living_in_joy

*Living in Joy: www.livinginjoy.ca

*Truecosmic Academy: truecosmic/academy/cheryl-andrisani

*Youtube: @Living_in_joy-Cheryl.Andrisani

*facebook.com: Cheryl Carreon Andrisani

*Podcast: She Who Speaks Abundance Podcast

Ready to turn Why Me into Watch Me?

Hit subscribe and tell us in the comments — what area of your life are you ready to become Unlimited in and how are you shifting it after this episode?

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Facebook
• Truecosmic
• Living in Joy
• No More Bullshift

Feeling like your growth is making your closest relationships feel distant or tense? If you've set a new boundary, changed a habit, or started chasing a bigger dream — and a friend, partner, or family member suddenly pulled back, got critical, or went cold — this conversation is for you.

In this episode, Peggy and Marci unpack the Mirror Effect — why your evolution can trigger discomfort in others — and how to navigate outgrowing friendships and relationships in midlife without guilt, gossip, or blowing up healthy bonds.

You'll hear how to tell the difference between a relationship that is challenging you to grow and one that is pressuring you to stay small, what to say to your inner circle before resentment builds, and how to hold your boundaries with empathy.

If you are sensing you are outgrowing friendships, you are not doing it wrong. How you handle the mirror moment decides what grows with you.

In this episode:

What the Mirror Effect is and why it shows up when you evolve

How to handle pushback from friends and family without abandoning yourself

The conversation to have with your partner and inner circle as you change

How to decide which relationships to nurture and which to release with love

Turning triggers and jealousy into clarity about what you actually want

Ready to turn Why Me into Watch Me?

Hit subscribe and tell us in the comments — which relationship is holding up the mirror for you right now?

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Neville Goddard
• Cheryl Andrisani

Are you holding onto friendships out of history or habit rather than actual alignment?

In this episode of No More BullShift, Marci and Peggy dive deep into the concept of a Friendship Audit. They unpack why history doesn't always equal a great friend, how to recognize competitive relationships disguised as support, and the exact questions you need to ask yourself to evaluate your social circle.

You will learn how to shift your relationship boundaries gently—without needing a dramatic confrontation—and how to reflect on the energy you are bringing to the table as a friend.

Grab a cozy drink, put on some nice music, and get ready for a powerful conversation that will change how you invest your most valuable asset: your time.

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Are you actually as emotionally mature as you think you are? In this episode, we break down what real emotional maturity looks like on a scale of 1 to 10—and the results might surprise you.

We often think emotional maturity means never getting angry, jealous, or triggered. But the truth is, it’s not about avoiding big feelings—it’s about what you do with them once they show up. We dive deep into the ultimate relationship test: can you pause before reacting, or are you letting your "caveman brain" drive your life?

What we break down in this episode:

• The Power of the Pause: How to separate your immediate thoughts from your actions.
• Fighting Fair: The secret to apologizing without immediately defending yourself or adding a "but."
• The "Festivus" Rules: Real-life relationship drama and how to clear grievances without destroying connection.
• Weaponizing Vulnerability: Why this is a total relationship killer and how to stop doing it.
• Knowing What’s Yours to Carry: Setting boundaries with people-pleasing and learning to tolerate being misunderstood.

Rate yourself along with us in the comments! Are you a 5, an 8, or somewhere in between?

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What if the very thing that makes you feel underestimated is actually your superpower?

In this heartfelt tribute, Peggy and Marci celebrate how Dolly Parton turned poverty, being underestimated, and being told to stay small into a blueprint for women who refuse to stay small.

This is not a goodbye — it is a thank you. A look at how Dolly walked so we could run.

In this conversation you will hear:

— Why Dolly’s message of love and light let her transcend divides and meet people where they are

— How she turned being called a dumb blonde and judged for her image into her trademark and her power

— How she rose out of why me and turned hardship into fuel to lift others

— The stories behind Jolene, Nine to Five, and I Will Always Love You — and what they teach about owning your voice and knowing your worth

— Dolly’s most empowering wisdom: find out who you are and do it on purpose, if you want the rainbow you gotta put up with the rain, if you don’t like the road you’re walking start paving another one, and why dreams are nothing without wings

— How to stay rich in spirit through gratitude, little miracles, and everyday joy

If you have ever felt invisible, boxed in, or told you are too much or not enough — this one is for you. Let Dolly’s legacy remind you to own who you are, on purpose, and start paving your next road.

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

• Dolly Parton
• Nelson Mandela
• Elvis Presley
• Whitney Houston
• Jane Fonda
• Lily Tomlin

That anxious voice in your head isn't always the enemy. 😮‍💨

Peggy and Marci get honest about anxiety: the middle-of-the-night spirals, the endless "what ifs," and the exhausting habit of borrowing trouble from tomorrow. But here's the shift: anxiety doesn't have to run your life. It can actually work for you.

In this episode you'll learn:

✨ Why anxiety only lives in the future — and how to pull yourself back to the present

✨ How to tell anxiety apart from your intuition (Peggy's near-miss podcast story is the proof)

✨ The "worry box" trick that stops the spiral before it starts

✨ Box breathing and the one exhale trick that calms your nervous system fast

✨ Why your brain is a problem-solver — and what happens when you don't give it a good problem If you've ever lain awake worrying about something that never even happened, this one is for you. You've got this. 💛

💬 QUESTION: What's one worry you've been carrying that you're ready to name — and finally set down? Drop it in the comments.

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Are you a flea in a jar? Jumping lower than you're actually capable of, even though the lid came off long ago? Or are you like the Hummingbird who was never told it actually can't fly?

In this episode, Peggy and Marci unpack what limiting beliefs are, where they come from, and why your brain is wired to go looking for proof that they're true. You'll learn how to identify limiting beliefs and how to overcome limiting beliefs with three practical tools — the thought download, the court-of-law test, and the best-friend test — plus the mindset shift behind taking baby steps instead of waiting for one huge leap.

It's a confidence-building conversation about rewriting the self-talk that quietly caps your potential, so the beliefs holding you back stop running the show.

💬 What's one belief you've caught yourself saying "I can't" about — and if you ran it through the court-of-law test, would it actually hold up? Drop it in the comments. We read every one, and your story might be the nudge someone else needs to hear.

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Stop searching for a soulmate — "the one" isn't someone you find, it's someone you keep choosing.

Marci and Peggy are breaking down what actually makes a partner worth the investment — and spoiler: it's not chemistry, looks, or money. In this episode they talk through the qualities that predict a lasting relationship: kindness, authenticity, how you fight, whether you feel safe being vulnerable, and why being best friends matters more than being swept off your feet.

Plus: the red flags to watch for in conflict, how family dynamics shape the relationship you'll build, and the one conversation you should have before you ever get engaged.

👉 Ready for more? If this hit home, you don't have to figure it out alone. Subscribe and turn on notifications so you never miss an episode — and grab a friend who needs to hear this, because every "Why Me?" deserves a "Watch Me!" moment.

Before we wrap, here's the question we want you to answer in the comments — because this one always sparks a good conversation:

"Think of your last relationship. Was he 'the one' — or were you just hoping he'd become him? Drop it below, and tell us the one sign you should've seen sooner."

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