In this episode, we unpack the idea of “living your best life”. what it actually means, who it’s really for, and whether it’s making us happier or just busier.

We talk about freedom after hiding parts of yourself, why best life energy can feel loud for some and quiet for others, and how it shifts across seasons, careers and confidence levels. From productivity guilt and the discomfort of rest, to performing versus actually being yourself, this one gets a little deeper than usual (but still chaotic).

Is living your best life about authenticity, proving something, or just doing whatever the hell feels right at the time?
Do we have a straight answer? Obviously not.

In this episode, we break down the classification system of gays… from twinks, bears, wolves and daddies to gym guys, interior design guys, therapist guys and chaos gays. We talk about why these categories exist, how people end up being labelled a “type” without asking, and why you never fully escape the one you get assigned.

We also get into the difference between being a girls guy and a gay guy, why women and gay men bond so deeply, and how all of this affects dating, friendship groups and where you actually feel comfortable going out. Along the way, we argue about which gay types are overrated, which are criminally underrated, and why personality might finally be beating abs.

It’s observational, slightly unhinged, and not about putting people in boxes (even though we absolutely do).

Do we really have a straight answer? Absolutely not.

Season Two of No Straight Answers kicks off with an honest conversation about identity, growth, and what it really means to outgrow the version of yourself everyone expects you to be.

In this episode, we unpack the idea that becoming yourself is not about adding more. It is about letting go. From unlearning old roles and masks, to reconnecting with the person you were before the world told you who to be, we reflect on how growth can feel both empowering and lonely.

We talk about changing identities, shifting friendships, people pleasing, and why outgrowing yourself does not mean you were wrong before. It means you are paying attention now.

If you are stepping into a new chapter, feeling reflective at the start of the year, or questioning who you are becoming, this episode is for you.

In this episode, we sit down during Pride Month to unpack what pride actually means to us on a personal level. From coming out versus truly feeling proud, to belonging, confidence, performative allyship, and navigating a world that wasn’t built with queer people in mind, this is an honest, vulnerable conversation about identity, growth, and choosing joy. We reflect on our first Pride experiences, the moments that made us feel seen, and why pride still matters today — not as a single day or parade, but as an ongoing journey of self-acceptance.

In this episode, Jude and Xavier dive into the topic everyone always asks about: coming out.

Not just the “big announcement,” but the entire coming out journey, including the confusion, the fear, the build up, the aftermath and all the queer experiences that happen long before anyone says the words out loud.

Jude and Xavier talk honestly about identity, denial, internalised homophobia, being outed accidentally, losing friendships, finding safe people and the quiet loneliness many LGBTQ+ kids carry before they have the language for it.
They also explore the positive side of coming out, including support, healing, the people who showed up, the moments that changed everything and how coming out is not a one time event but an ongoing part of becoming your authentic self.

It is real, raw, vulnerable, funny in parts and emotional in others, and their most honest conversation yet.

Content Note:

This episode includes conversations about homophobic slurs, discrimination, bullying, mental health struggles and trauma. 

This week, Jude clears his name… or at least tries to. After an unexpected turn on a Nine News interview, we unpack how a simple PR brief spiralled into national-TV claims of loneliness, ChatGPT dependency, and Jude walking into a bar alone.

From the first rule of improv (“yes, and…”), to Disney princess alter-egos, to witches, spells, and psychic moments at Heathrow. 

This episode is pure chaos in the best way.

Grab a drink, because we’re covering defamation, Delulu Disney energy, and why Xavier may actually be a witch. Or cursed. Or both.

This week, it’s Xavier’s turn in the hot seat. Jude interviews Xavier about the moments, memories and experiences that shaped who he is today, from growing up between New York and Perth to starting a business and figuring out his identity along the way. We talk introversion vs. extroversion, self-growth, pop culture comfort shows, and... the collarbone thing.

In this episode, Xavier turns the mic on Jude for a deep dive into his story. From breaking school rules to building a life that feels right, Jude opens up about the moments that shaped who he is and how he sees the world.

They talk childhood chaos, family, drive, identity, and what it means to make your own path when the straight one never fit. It’s honest, funny, and a reminder that figuring it out as you go is sometimes exactly how it’s meant to be.

Welcome to the very first episode of No Straight Answers with Jude and Xavier, figuring life out one conversation at a time. In this debut, they open up about the meaning behind the name, the chaos of recording their pilot, and what it really means to follow a path that isn’t linear.

From mismatched studio chairs to breaking toes and breaking norms, Jude and Xavier dive into life, careers, relationships, creativity, and the courage to just do it, even when you’re making it up as you go.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re winging it, this one’s for you.