I. The most compelling stories are stories that involve transformation in the lead character
Bible stories - Abraham, Joseph, Moses, David, Jesus, Peter, Paul…
Myths from around the world
Modern movies and novels
Why do we like stories of transformation so much?
The hero’s journey
II. A narrative arch of transformation:
I. Intro
II. Conflict/Struggle
III. Leaving Home (getting out of comfort zone)
IV. Struggle of a different sort
V. Transforming Moment
VI. Conclusion
III. Looking at our own stories - How have we experienced transformation?
“Change happens in us through great love or great suffering.” - Richard Rorh
Write down a time when you experienced transformation in your life.
A. Before the transforming moment
How did you feel before the break through (transforming moment)?
What types of thoughts had you been thinking?
List three adjectives that described you before you experienced change:
What was the precipitating incidents or circumstances which led to the breakthrough.
B. The transforming event
Describe the moment when you had a breakthrough (began the process of transformation).
What factors came together for you to experience change?
How were other people involved in this transforming event?
C. A new chapter
How did this event change the way you looked at yourself, others and God?
How were you different from that point on?
What were the gifts you received through the process?
What were the new challenges that you faced after the transforming event?
Exercise:
Break up into groups of 3. Each person will have 8 minutes to share a story of transformation. Those who are hearing the story will reflect back to the teller of the story the parts of the story that connected the most with them once the story is done.