Not As We Planned

By Tash Gershfield,Carly Harris

When two single mums come together to talk about the realisation of their marriages ending. Chatting all about the new challenges faced as a single parent, coparenting, dating again in your 30s and

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Not As We Planned episodes:

October 22, 2025 Jessica May: the untold events of her partner's affair and the signs that she ignored | Not As We Planned Podcast
For the first time ever, Jessica reveals the detailed truths about her partner's affair, the way she found out, and what she did afterwards!!! Not one to miss!
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October 15, 2025 It's Giving Desperate Housewives | Not As We Planned Podcast
We actually beg a listener to take our advice, or she will regret it, the lying boyfriend who made out he ended it to do her a favour, the shocking 9-year affair and watching history repeat itself!
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40min
October 08, 2025 Legally Nik: Answering Your Questions About Coparenting, Dealing With Narcissist's & A 50/50 Split | Not As We Planned Podcast
A very eye-opening episode which will give you an insightful understanding into the coparenting world, how to manage the legal battle with your children’s parent and growing through the trauma.
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56min
October 01, 2025 Sending A Nude Into The School Group Chat!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
We share the most embarrassing moments when you text the wrong person, Tash shares a mortifying experience, finding out you're the home wrecker only after the relationship ends and when your husband leaves you for a man
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45min
September 24, 2025 I Got Eaten Alive!! The Dating Episode You Don't Want To Miss! | Not As We Planned Podcast
We get an update on Carly's dating drama after being ghosted, how she joined dating app Wisp https://wisp.global/ (ad) which bans ghosters, the most graphic sexual encounter by a male listener, the 5ft7 liar, and dating a criminal!
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41min
September 17, 2025 Should You Date Multiple Men At The Same Time?? | Not As We Planned Podcast
We discuss whether it’s a good idea to date multiple men at once, swapping stories with the other woman, planning another baby with your ex and how to meet the love of your life and a lovely email to give is all hope!
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43min
September 11, 2025 The hack to find deleted messages on your phone!!! | Not As We Planned Podcast
Carly gives us a big life update, we have a little scroll on ‘are we dating the same guy’, realising you’ve outgrown your partner and don’t know if you should end it, and should you give your cheating partner one more chance?
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43min
September 03, 2025 We’re Back in Our BRAND NEW Studio! Breakups, Divorce & Dating Real Talk | Not As We Planned Podcast
Welcome to a brand-new era of Not As We Planned - and our very first episode in the NEW studio! 💖 It’s a total pinch-me moment, and we’re so excited to share it with you. Same raw honesty and bestie vibes, but with a fresh new space and energy.

In this opener, we dive deep into the realities of love, heartbreak, and fresh starts. You’ll hear the jaw-dropping story of a woman who stayed in a toxic relationship for 30 years before finally breaking free, an empowering reminder that it’s never too late to put yourself first. We also answer listener questions about cheating, red flags, and “should I have stayed?” moments. Plus, catch up with us as we share the highs and lows of single life, dating apps, co-parenting, and everything in between.

If you’re ready for real talk, belly laughs, and conversations that feel like therapy with your best friends, you’re in the right place.

👉 Don’t forget to subscribe for weekly episodes from our new studio!

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43min
July 30, 2025 100. Unfortunately Men Like This Exist…
We discuss the difficulties of splitting your time with the kids over the holidays, someone who needs some serious tough love from us, a clear comparison with how your life could look when leaving or staying and the man who was sleeping with 9 women!!!

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Producer: @TristanHehir

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50min
July 23, 2025 99. He Did Cheat.. But it Was My Fault
We have an honest conversation about the financial pressures of being a single mum, when you catfish your partner by pretending to be the other woman, and a hard story of emotional abuse whilst managing to break the trauma bond

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Producer: @TristanHehir

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50min

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