Not Done Yet

On this episode of Not Done Yet, I sat down with Jeneka Jool for an easy‑going but really insightful conversation. Most of my questions came straight from her own podcast, Uninhibited, and we dove into everything from self‑discovery to grief to what it actually means to live your life fully.

We talked about the lessons her mom left her with, how she holds onto belief when life gets heavy, and what it looks like to shed old identities and step into new ones. At its core, this conversation is about being present, keeping the promises you make to yourself, and finding joy in the everyday moments.

Takeaways:
Music can be a powerful tool during tough times.
Journaling helps in processing emotions and experiences.
Grief can reshape our identity and perspective on life.
It's important to keep moving forward, even when feeling unready.
Self-love is essential for personal growth and relationships.
Community support is vital during times of loss.
We should celebrate the lives of those we've lost, not just mourn them.
Living authentically means letting go of past versions of ourselves.
Finding joy in small moments can lead to a fulfilling life.
We are all capable of achieving our dreams, regardless of societal pressures.

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction to the Journey
03:01 The Power of Music in Tough Times
05:59 Navigating Life's Challenges
08:58 The Importance of Journaling
12:11 Grief and Moving Forward
14:50 Lessons from the Past
18:11 Finding Hope in Difficult Times
20:49 The Impact of Loss on Identity
24:07 Letting Go of Old Versions of Yourself
27:01 The Legacy We Leave Behind
29:52 Living Life to the Fullest
33:01 The Importance of Self-Love
35:57 The Role of Community in Grief
38:50 The Impact of a Mother's Love
42:00 Creating Meaningful Connections
45:01 The Journey of Self-Discovery
47:56 The Importance of Being Present
51:00 Final Reflections on Life and Legacy

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Debbie Fapo shares her inspiring journey of self-discovery, resilience, and healing. From her experiences with grief and loss to her spiritual awakening, she emphasizes the importance of hope, community, and creativity in overcoming life's challenges. Debbie discusses her role as a teacher and content creator, and how these experiences have shaped her writing of a devotional journal, 'From Pit to Pastures.' The conversation highlights the significance of faith and the power of storytelling in connecting with others and fostering personal growth.

Takeaways:
Each person's journey is unique and filled with challenges.
Hope is essential for personal growth and healing.
Grief is a process that requires time and support.
Community plays a vital role in overcoming struggles.
Creativity can be a powerful tool for healing.
Faith can provide strength during difficult times.
Self-reflection is crucial for understanding one's journey.
It's important to be honest with oneself and others.
Shed the weight of past traumas to move forward.
There is always beauty on the other side of pain.

Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Setting the Tone
03:02 The Journey of Self-Discovery
05:51 Rebellion and Identity Struggles
09:09 Pivotal Moments and Spiritual Awakening
11:56 Navigating Grief and Loss
18:49 Finding Hope and Healing
25:12 The Role of Faith in Overcoming Challenges
31:53 The Power of Community and Support
38:56 Creativity and Teaching as Healing Tools
46:12 Writing the Devotional: From Pit to Pastures
52:55 Encouragement for Others in Their Journey
59:59 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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In a world where job security is increasingly uncertain, experiencing a layoff can feel like a personal defeat. However, as we explore in this episode of Not Done Yet, Ruby Gill shares her powerful journey of resilience and perspective following her layoffs. Through her story, we uncover the importance of mindset and the transformative power of viewing setbacks as opportunities for growth.

Ruby's story begins with a heartfelt LinkedIn post announcing her layoff. Her message was not just an update; it was an embodiment of grace and professionalism. Unlike her first layoff, where she felt devastated and took it personally, Ruby approached her second layoff with a different mindset. She recognized the red flags leading up to it and was mentally preparing herself for the possibility. This foresight allowed her to navigate the situation with a level head, focusing on the next steps instead of drowning in despair.

Ruby contrasts her two layoff experiences vividly. The first was marked by tears and feelings of inadequacy. She recalls how she took it personally, feeling like her worth was tied to her job. This experience taught her that layoffs are often not personal; they are business decisions. With her second layoff, Ruby's approach shifted significantly. She realized that her identity wasn’t defined by her job, and she began to see layoffs as a chance to reassess her life and career. During this period, she emphasized gratitude for her abilities and the opportunities she had to travel and explore.

One of the key themes in Ruby's narrative is the strength found in vulnerability. By sharing her story on LinkedIn, she connected with her network in a way that was both authentic and empowering. Ruby's journey shows that it's okay to feel uncertain and scared after a layoff, but it’s essential to channel those feelings into a constructive approach. Rather than succumbing to negativity, she advocates for maintaining a positive outlook and recognizing one’s value.

Ruby's experience also highlights the need for self-reflection during challenging times. After her first layoff, she found herself in interviews where her negativity impacted her chances. This realization prompted a shift in how she presented herself, emphasizing the importance of confidence and positivity. Ruby learned that instead of focusing on what went wrong, she needed to embrace her skills and approach future opportunities with optimism.

Ruby Gill's story is a testament to the power of perspective in the face of adversity. By transforming her approach to layoffs from one of personal despair to a mindset of gratitude and growth, she has equipped herself with valuable lessons for the future. Key takeaways from her journey include the importance of maintaining a positive outlook, understanding that layoffs are not personal, and the power of self-reflection in shaping one’s career path. In a world where setbacks are inevitable, it is our perspective that ultimately defines our journey.

Tags: layoffs, resilience, personal growth, career transition, positivity, self-reflection, job loss, professional development, mindset shifts

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In this reflective episode, Quincy shares five key lessons learned throughout 2025, emphasizing the importance of starting, community support, resilience in the face of challenges, the value of personal growth, and the simplicity of making changes. He encourages listeners to embrace their journeys and take actionable steps towards their goals, reminding them that they are not alone in their struggles.

Takeaways

• Starting is always the hardest part.
• Community is essential for support and growth.
• Everything can be figured out with time and effort.
• It's okay to change your mind as you grow.
• Simplicity is key in making changes.

Chapters

00:00
Closing Out 2025: A Personal Reflection

01:46
The Challenge of Starting: Overcoming Initial Hurdles

07:42
The Importance of Community: Finding Support

15:43
Everything Can Be Figured Out: Embracing Life's Challenges

22:44
It's Okay to Change Your Mind: Embracing Growth

28:03
Simplicity is Key: Making Change Easy

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In this conversation, Sanum Yousuf, the founder of Grazing Daisy, shares her inspiring journey from dropping out of college and working odd jobs to following her heart into entrepreneurship. She discusses the challenges of balancing motherhood with her growing business, the importance of self-awareness, and overcoming limiting beliefs. Sanum emphasizes the significance of community, resilience, and staying grounded amidst success. She reflects on cultural challenges in her business and the importance of embracing uncertainty as part of personal growth. The discussion culminates in the idea of being 'not done yet,' highlighting the continuous journey of self-improvement and exploration.

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When Lauren first heard her daughter’s diagnosis, her world shifted in ways she couldn’t have imagined. In this episode, she shares the questions that raced through her mind, the isolation she sometimes felt, and the surprising strength she found in community, love, and perspective. This is a story about more than illness — it’s about redefining what it means to fight, to grow, and to keep moving forward when life feels overwhelming.

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In this intimate episode, I sit down with my sister to talk about her unexpected journey into motherhood. Once certain parenting wasn’t for her, everything changed with the arrival of her son, Zyaire—and with his Trisomy21 diagnosis (Down Syndrome).

She opens up about the moment she got the news, the realities of solo parenting, and the strength she’s discovered in the face of fear, exhaustion, and love beyond measure. We talk about purpose, identity, and what it means to show up—even on the hardest days.

This is a story of transformation, deep resilience, and a mother’s unshakable love. If you're navigating uncertainty or seeking hope, this conversation is for you.

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Today's episode is a little different. Quincy is being interviewed by Ashley Fry, one of his former guests who had the idea for Quincy to be in the guest's seat. Today we reveal the deeper meaning behind the podcast. Join us today to hear about Quincy's journey to self-discovery, battling imposter syndrome, and shedding old identities.

This is a story about growth, gratitude, and the courage to keep going — even when you’re not sure where the road leads. If you’ve ever questioned your worth or wondered if your story matters, this one’s for you.

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In this deeply moving episode, we sit down with Maggie, a mental health and behavioural consultant whose journey has been shaped by adversity, challenge, and purpose.

Raised in Jordan, Maggie grew up witnessing the injustices faced by women and children — including the trauma experienced within her own family. Seeking safety and a new beginning, she arrived in Canada as a refugee, only to confront yet another life-changing challenge: Keratoconus, an eye condition that nearly cost her her sight.

But Maggie’s story is not defined by what she endured — it’s defined by how she rose.

Now a passionate advocate and respected community leader, Maggie opens up about the experiences that shaped her work, the strength it took to rebuild her life, and why she believes true healing is a collective journey.

This episode is a powerful exploration of trauma, resilience, identity, and the clarity that can emerge even in life’s darkest moments.

If you’ve ever questioned your purpose, your path, or your inner strength — this conversation is for you.

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In this episode, I talk about the importance of exercising the 'I don't care what people think' muscle. Many people are held back by the fear of judgment and the visibility of their actions in today's world. Join me as I share my personal experience of overcoming these fears (while still living with them), and encourage listeners to take action, embrace their unique gifts, and not let the opinions of others dictate their lives.

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