Not Getting Dressed

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While it seems impossible to have rage on the eve of Game 2 of the Stanley Cup Finals in Edmonton, rage still becomes her in this episode. KK says "yes ma'am" to Ekholm, she's done her research and she unequivocally agrees, he would indeed pull your hair. We discuss the sting of ex-husbands not communicating when they get engaged, rage about lives and experiences we have left behind, but also the peace and solace we have (occasionally) in our non-married lives. Also, KK is saving herself for the Cup and we let you in on what a day to day text exchange looks like between yours truly.

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After a month hiatus full of lifes ups and downs, we're back. In this episode we recap our very different holidays, if that hockey player would pull your hair, and if you can name 10 diets you've been on. We share on how with age, it gets more difficult to drop the pounds, harder to find a fuck to give, but a little easier to love yourself.

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K and J cozy up fireside (dog included—consider yourself warned) with mocktails to tackle "faking it." They explore people-pleasing autopilot mode that sacrifices oneself to keep everyone else happy. Plus: kissing 101, their recent dopamine purchases, binge-worthy shows, and life-changing tip of the week for when friends are up against it: "Just drop off the bagels or rotisserie chicken. Don't ask, just do it."

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Here we are. Another Sunday morning, checking in from Jamie's kitchen. Today we host our first guest who's now (as of this week) very close friends to both of us. Queen Em is here from the UK, with loads of insight on relationships, a 3 step practical sex life, the lukewarm Canadian sports scene and how if they ever divorce, it will be due to their dogs.

It's light and fun of course with a few deep puddles. Thank you so much Emma for joining our kitchen island conversation.

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In this episode, we rip the covers off "Dr." Jamie's not-so-guilty favourite topic. We know it, you know it, no shame here, it's sex. Katie has test anxiety from failing the 11 types of orgasms quiz. Plus, we're unpacking those sexual shame landmines planted in your childhood that still explode at the worst moments.  We talk everything from choreplay, tantra, birth control and how to communicate in bed.  This steamy conversation is just the first climax in our multi-part series — consider yourself warned.  

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February's finale is here, and after a day of hardcore adulting, K and J are spilling all the tea. From their post-therapy wind-down rituals to eye-rolling at the audacity of men, these two don't hold back! They're diving deep into how they're finally dressing exactly how their younger selves always dreamed (hello, revenge fashion) and the delicious journey of falling in love with the skin they're in. Plus, get ready for a steamy preview of what's coming next episode – consider it foreplay for your ears. And wait for it... they're sharing a scandalously fun party game that literally anyone can play. Patent pending, obviously. You're welcome.

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In this quieter kitchen bar conversation, we double down on the realities of grief and losing a parent, pour one out for our fallen leaderboard champion (sleep tight, sweet Zaddy), and learn why bombarding one of your single best friends with romantic charcuterie thirst traps is definitely not the move this Valentine's.

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This week, we’re diving into the realities of dating in your 40s – the highs, the lows, and everything in between. We talk about the challenges of the local dating pool, the lessons we've learned, and how we keep moving forward. If you're in the same boat, consider this your reminder to keep swiping, take a pause when needed, and always honor the girl code. Plus, a little PSA: coffee in bed, a killer playlist, and a date planned? You're on the podium.

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Coming from -20 degrees on a Saturday night in our robes from Jamie's kitchen, in this episode we go through our wins of the week, but more importantly we dig deep into what a win is and finding the wins in what a societal norm might view as a loss. For a dose of fun we unpack a terrible date and discuss if we will ever share a bedroom with anyone other than our dogs again.  

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In this first episode of Not Getting Dressed, you will hear about how we met. We cover everything from kinder mom PTSD, far too many years that we lived apart, and you will experience first hand the authenticity and humour that make us up. Trigger warning: Jamie's hound throws up near the end. It's a bit rough around edges, but ready to go, just like us. 

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