Not So Sexy

We learn that you can shave your butthole and that when you live with someone you have to be yourself all the time. Your SO (Significant Other) will, at some point, walk in on you pooping - get over it.

We learn that you deserve to be happy with people you're with.

And finally we learn that boys get to be boys and girls get to wait for boys to figure themselves out - except for the notebook that's a super progressive love story.

We've been thinking a lot about dating here at not so sexy. As one of us is single, I know, we mention that a lot. But it's something that's on our minds. We've been thinking a lot about the perceptions we have before we go on a date with someone. How we look at them and how they look at us.

So we decided to explore this topic. Over three episodes we are going to get the voices of men, women, and a mix respectively.

This episode features Davey, Justin, and Jack. Davey is a comedian and all around hilarious person in STL. He also isn't looking for a relationship right now. He also is working on showing up more like himself on dates.

We all have a moment where we realize we're sexual creatures. Sometimes we realize we like girls, sometimes boys, sometimes butt stuff.

Often our sexual awakening's show us a whole new perspective about ourselves and the world.

This episode we learn that our awakening's have changed who we are, that we deserve good partners, and that our buttholes are no longer off limits.

Look. Porn is weird and terrible and wonderful. It also has many uses. Sometimes I like to get off on my own and sometimes I like to get off with a partner with it on in the background. It's there when I need it.

Thanks porn!

Asking for sex can be hard. It can be weird and there isn't really a road map for it.

This week we bring on Nicole and Rafe to talk about asking for sex. It turns out that it's not as easy as we thought. Also communication. Shocker!

How many times have you worried about what you like? Ever asked to be dominated? Want someone just to say "I love you?" This week's episode we bring on Kit, FOR THE FIRST TIME, and Jodi to talk about their perspectives on getting weird, which hey IT'S NOT THAT WEIRD.

We also talk about being over weight and finding love. Turns out we just need to love our bodies.

Today's episode is about Body Shame. We brought Frank, Seth, and Analicia into the studio to talk about how we feel about our bodies.

Look, we only get one body we might as well love it. Additionally, it can be funny standing in our underwear in front of people.

As always we want you to have that sweet, nasty, and safe sex. So here are some helpful resources to help you do that.

So our first sex tip is - Buy Condoms Online. It's like a rainbow (for fucking!).

The STD Project - So many useful resources about disease prevention and proper use of condoms.

Bedsider Comprehensive guide to safer sex - This series is awesome. It's an in depth series that we encourage anyone who is wanting to know more about safe sex should check out.

We bring in Logan, Melissa, and Katie into the studio to talk about consent. It's such a massive topic. We find out that consent is like a layer cake. A sexy layer cake? No, a regular ol get permission before you stick your finger into the cake cake. Also magic.