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This chaotic and hilarious episode of Not Well marks the return of Bobby and Jim after a whirlwind spring that included a trip to Ireland. They catch up on everything from skincare and sugar daddy dreams to bizarre road rage incidents and unhinged homemade driving signs. The centerpiece is their unforgettable Irish adventure—drunken nights in Dublin and Galway, being “cut-shamed” at a gay bar, dealing with horny 20-year-olds, and falling in love with Irish lads, butter, and unbothered pub culture. Also covered: PDA shaming, gay-coded pocket watch obsessions, airport nightmares, contact lens trauma, and the trauma of being the oldest in the club. With their trademark irreverent humor, they deliver a jam-packed download of nonsense, insight, and gay travel trauma.

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In this chaotic pre-vacation catch-up, Bobby and Jim return after a brief hiatus to unpack their lives before jetting off to Ireland. From skincare obsessions and Spirit Airlines horror stories to hot dentist encounters and the psychology behind sounding "too gay," the duo dives headfirst into everything. They rant about billionaires in space (screw you, Katy Perry), the illusion of economic wins, and the prison industrial complex. There’s also a heartfelt moment reflecting on internalized shame in the gay community—and naturally, some dick talk and drunken bathroom confessions. Buckle up. It’s messy, mouthy, and classic Not Well.

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In this unedited chaos-core episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive into hot mess territory with unfiltered rants about April Fools’ trauma, she-cocks, the “goon” community, straight men in denial, crying influencers, and the dream of a five-man Irish rugby orgy. Between travel anxieties and poop logistics on planes, they still find time to manifest fame, mock chemsex culture, and debate why lesbians are society’s most helpful gays.

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In this outrageously entertaining episode of the "Not Well" podcast, hosts Bobby and Jim deliver a rollercoaster of laughter, shock, and unfiltered banter. Tune in as they explore Jim's wild travel escapades through Amsterdam's infamous red-light district, sharing eye-popping encounters involving explicit peep-show booths, quirky condom stores with flamingo-shaped protection, and surreal canal rides filled with unexpected comedy.

They hilariously recount personal misadventures, including Bobby’s comedic medical injection mishap, first chaotic pickleball experience, which left him hobbling like cartoon characters. Listener voicemails add another level of absurdity, featuring scandalous Cancun tales of snorkeling amidst diarrhea crises and wild anecdotes involving serotonin syndrome, food poisoning, and viral conjunctivitis.

Get ready for unconventional debates about bizarre trends, from the shocking straight men cutting eyelashes to appear less gay to discussions on foreskin circumcision theories that link Kellogg's cereal founder to masturbation fears. The hosts dive headfirst into absurd territory with controversial art ideas, notably proposing humorous yet provocative imagery of Jesus with an inappropriate erection.

This episode also tackles workplace drama, mocking adult tantrums over kitchen cleanliness and addressing humorous interactions that make daily office life surreal. Flat-earth conspiracy theories are humorously dismantled, questioning how believers rationalize visible curvature during air travel.

Loaded with NSFW humor, bizarre revelations, and hysterically inappropriate comments, Bobby and Jim make sure no topic is taboo, and everything is up for comedic grabs. Whether discussing jet lag experiences, Michelin star dining gone awry, Palestinian solidarity moments at Lush cosmetics, or introducing quirky fashion products like bulge bands, this episode of "Not Well" is guaranteed to entertain, shock, and amuse in equal measures.

Inappropriate Comments Analysis:

• Comment: "Jesus on the cross with a boner."
  • Reason: Religious sensitivity; satirizes sacred imagery, could offend believers.
• Comment: "Men pay for sex because their dicks are ugly."
  • Reason: Body-shaming; suggests a derogatory stereotype about people who engage sex workers.
• Comment: "Why clean a kitchen I don't use? Adult babies."
  • Reason: Workplace insensitivity; belittles coworkers' intelligence and hygiene habits.
• Comment: "Snorkeling with diarrhea."
  • Reason: Graphic and unsanitary imagery; excessively crude.
• Comment: "Flat-earthers: explain airplane curvature."
  • Reason: Potentially insulting a belief group; mocking individuals' beliefs in a provocative manner.

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In this chaotic and hilarious episode of Not Well, Bobby and Jim dive into a variety of topics ranging from reality TV and cult conspiracies to open relationships and political absurdities. They kick things off with a Chris Lilley reference before discussing the eerie themes of Severance, the state of weight loss drugs like Zepbound, and their upcoming trip to Ireland.

They also explore their thoughts on open relationships, the ridiculousness of transphobic sports policies, and the brainwashing of women through religious manipulation. Other highlights include workplace burnout, the absurdity of America’s political landscape, the societal shame around pleasure, and an unexpected tangent about self-milking. The episode wraps up with reflections on nightlife becoming cringe, respecting personal boundaries, and the economics of tiny penises in the sex industry.

Subjects Covered:

• Chris Lilley & Jemay references
• Weight loss drugs (Zepbound, Wegovy, Ozempic)
• Severance (TV show) and cult symbolism
• Ireland trip planning (Dublin, farms, hot farmers)
• Open relationships & societal shaming
• Public shaming & religious control over women
• Work culture & the dream of a 4-day, 5-hour workweek
• Volleyball girl’s transphobic fame at Trump’s speech
• America’s broken political and economic systems
• Bizarre sexual confessions (toothbrushes & self-milking)
• The science of butt pleasure & prostate stimulation
• Brazil & why it’s not high on the travel list
• The ridiculousness of billionaires controlling our lives
• Sexual freedom vs. societal constraints
• Ohio realtor leaving a hateful tip & getting fired
• Lady Gaga album reactions & the culture of public crying
• Small dick competition for free tuition
• Realization that nightlife is overrated
• Buffalo Bill and Betty—potential new queer bar name

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This episode dives into a chaotic mix of topics, kicking off with an absurd discussion about government spending on transgender mice before spiraling into an existential rant about sleep routines. The struggle of putting in a mouthguard, earplugs, and taking melatonin like a nightly pre-flight checklist is real, and the resentment toward winter laziness is reaching peak levels.

Travel plans are a big theme, with talk of Amsterdam and Ireland outfit planning. The dilemma of picking the right aesthetic—whether it's brat summer green or something grungy for Amsterdam—sparks debate. There’s also a revelation about the Netherlands and Dutch culture that, frankly, still doesn’t make sense.

Political chaos enters the mix with a breakdown of recent headlines, including a theory that there’s a reason certain politicians act the way they do (cough Putin’s leverage cough). A wild detour into the topic of the Epstein flight logs and why certain names keep appearing leads to some theories that are both hilarious and deeply disturbing.

There’s a rant about how Americans are perceived in Europe, with complaints about restaurant etiquette, slow service, and the European aversion to smiling. Apparently, asking for the check too soon is considered rude, but no one wants to acknowledge that sitting in a restaurant for three hours might not be for everyone. The general feeling is that some of these cultural differences are fair, but some are just unnecessary.

A spicy travel story unfolds involving a random European encounter that may or may not have been flirting. The confusion of reading signals abroad is real, but the experience of being semi-hard in a Barcelona cooking class is apparently universal. There's also an official manifestation of meeting hot Irish rugby brothers, because why not dream big?

Discussions about American history take a dark turn, with some brutal truths about how things really went down. The way Thanksgiving is framed in schools doesn’t quite hold up, and there’s a moment of horror at realizing how bad things actually were. The idea that early settlers ate each other when times got tough is casually thrown in, as well as the absurdity of how tobacco basically built an empire.

The episode ends with more travel struggles, including an encounter with a less-than-friendly European shopkeeper who was not amused by a lost tourist wandering in with Google Maps open. The realization that Europeans aren’t necessarily rude, but just different, is setting in, even if some customs still make no sense.

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This episode was a whirlwind of chaotic energy fueled by cold brew, deep thoughts on dicks, and unsolicited introspection. Bobby and Jim discuss everything from waking up at ungodly hours, Botox touch-ups, and the undeniable power of bulge bands. There’s talk of mysterious Irishmen, deep-seated bisexuality panic, and how Gen Z is dismantling the big dick industrial complex. The boys take a detour into a philosophical breakdown of averages (which nearly breaks Bobby’s brain), get deep into Trump voters realizing they’ve been conned, and unpack why someone always has a bottle of lube at the ready.

Somewhere along the way, Jim relives his DC trauma of watching Beaches next to a grieving classmate, Bobby gets manhandled in a Chicago bar bathroom, and they both theorize that being blind might make sex infinitely better. Also, a local takedown segment hilariously roasts a couple with too much sniffies exposure, and they contemplate why straight frat guys invented butt chugging. It all ends with Bobby questioning if he should go into politics and a serious, yet unserious, conversation about how tech bros like Elon Musk are destroying the world.

Most Inappropriate Moments

1. The boy pussy moan during straight sex.
2. A man being “helped” to pee by an overly supportive stranger.
3. A deep discussion about how straight frat boys invented butt chugging.
4. The full forensic analysis of dried cum stains on various clothing items.
5. Monkeypox paranoia spiraling into full-body checks.
6. A local couple exposed for their public sniffies profiles.
7. The realization that half of men have a dick under 5.5 inches.
8. A therapy session gaslighting a man into believing he isn’t sick.
9. Someone carrying pre-lubed pockets “just in case.”
10. The math breakdown of how dick size averages really work.
11. Frat boys nervously explaining why butt chugging isn’t gay.
12. A man getting Botox while wearing a suspiciously stained hoodie.
13. Straight men admitting they’ve thought about the other side.
14. Airport passengers losing their minds over flight delays.
15. A guy jerking off in a car with emergency lube on standby.

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The episode begins with a chaotic, rapid-fire discussion on current events, conspiracy theories, and pop culture, blending humor, absurdity, and deep frustration over political affairs. The hosts open with an explosive claim that the federal government is experiencing a private takeover under the guise of reform, referencing missing CDC datasets and security concerns with high-ranking officials using Gmail.

The conversation pivots into political absurdities, touching on right-wing rhetoric and congressional moments, including a rant on trans rights and Republican politicians' hypocrisy. They mock a certain congresswoman for her performative outrage while criticizing the collective ugliness of some far-right figures. The discussion naturally evolves into admiration for Democratic Rep. Jasmine Crockett, who they argue should be president despite the societal barriers preventing a Black woman from holding the office.

The episode takes a detour into pop culture, touching on the Grammys, Beyonce’s Cowboy Carter, and the state of music today. They make an unexpected but passionate argument about the phenomenon of “hot dicks on ugly faces,” an epidemic they claim is taking over dating apps. This leads to reflections on their own perceived attractiveness, aging, and the existential crisis of being labeled a "daddy" by younger men.

They also dive into their personal experiences, discussing their trip to Mexico, the joy of embracing one's desires without guilt, and the realization that Columbus, Ohio, isn't much different from Kentucky or other smaller towns. They reflect on how people irrationally judge other places while defending their own.

Later in the episode, they discuss the surreal and pervasive nature of pharmaceutical advertisements, reminiscing about their childhood obsession with trans fats and the moment of victory when they were officially banned. They also introduce the concept of The Hill, a metaphor for a higher state of consciousness that allows for telepathic communication, particularly with animals. One of the hosts recounts an eerie moment when their dog seemingly responded to unspoken thoughts, reinforcing their belief in an untapped human ability.

As the episode nears its end, they discuss eye exams, the stress of negotiating for a new car, and the importance of controlling the few things within one’s power. The conversation, like the rest of the episode, swings wildly between humor, personal anecdotes, conspiracy theories, and existential musings.

Ultimately, the episode encapsulates the signature blend of Not Well—a mix of gay comedy, sharp political critique, deep internet dives, and unfiltered chaos, all while maintaining an undercurrent of existential dread and dark humor.

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This chaotic episode covers everything from personal health woes to existential dread, with plenty of political rants and inappropriate humor in between. The hosts, overtired and slightly sick, spiral through absurd conversations about bodily functions, credit scores, and the downfall of America.

Main Topics Discussed:

• Energy Struggles & Gum Chewing – Trying to wake up, chewing gum aggressively for theanine, and realizing they're out of shape.
• Bloating & Puffy Nipples – Overeating salt-heavy ham leads to a discussion about gynecomastia and occasional nipple discharge.
• Asian Cuisine & Travel Biases – One host refuses to visit Asia, fearing unfamiliar food, while the other argues most of their favorite dishes are Asian.
• Credit Card Fraud & Financial Struggles – A story of identity theft, fraudulent Best Buy purchases, and how to manipulate credit scores.
• Homeownership Woes – Dealing with PMI, appraisals, and the realization that paying off a house takes forever.
• Elon Musk & Political Corruption – Discussing Musk’s alleged Nazi salute, billionaire control, and Trump's repeal of executive orders harming LGBTQ+ rights, healthcare, and worker safety.
• Casual Workplace Racism & Replacement Theory – A co-worker complains that white people will be the minority by 2040, exposing deep-seated racism in everyday conversations.
• Violent Stomach Flu & Near-Death Experience – Vomiting bile, sweating through clothes, nearly passing out, and justifying eating a tortilla after losing nine pounds.
• Existential Dread & Life Speeding By – A marijuana-induced panic about how life is just a slow march toward death.
• Ireland Trip & Uncut Dicks – Excitement about visiting ancestral roots but mild hesitation over uncut men.
• Car Leases & Consumerism – Debating whether it’s worth paying $500/month for a car just to drive to work.
• AI Warfare & Military Future – How war is shifting toward drones while outdated physical fitness tests still exist.
• Capitalism is a Scam – Longing for a simpler, barter-based existence instead of corporate greed ruling everything.
• Traveling for Dick – Admitting that most travel decisions are based on the attractiveness of local men.

A mix of chaos, humor, and unfiltered opinions, this episode tackles everything from bodily fluids to the dystopian future of AI warfare—all with a healthy dose of existential dread.

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This episode of Not Well dives deep into chaotic and hilarious conversations ranging from Trumpism, trans rights, societal failings, crumbs, childhood fears, and a lot of irreverent humor. Bobby and Jim dissect the ridiculousness of patriotism displayed during inaugurations, the bizarre cult-like worship of certain political figures, and the ongoing culture war surrounding trans individuals. They reminisce about their childhood quirks, like Bobby’s fear of his parents turning into skeletons and his crumb phobia. The duo explores the hilarity and discomfort of booth seating, societal expectations, and even random moments like towel habits during sex. A surprising tangent about telepathy, autistic communication, and “The Hill” takes the episode into pseudo-scientific territory, leading to thought-provoking discussions about perception and reality. They end with discussions on representation in media and whether straight actors playing gay roles is truly authentic. It's unfiltered, chaotic, and thought-provoking.

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