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We start off by diving into the emerging three-party system in politics and share our thoughts on why Republicans seem to be missing the mark. But don't worry, we quickly shift gears and lighten the mood with hilarious anecdotes about Broadway shower scenes and bid farewell to the legendary Diane.

From politics and Broadway, we transition into the realm of relationships, exploring topics such as swingers, bisexuals, and the societal taboos surrounding masturbation. We even touch on the logistics of fisting after a colonoscopy, because no topic is off-limits in our candid conversations.

But that's not all! We also delve into the mysteries of the universe, discussing encounters with extraterrestrial beings and the belief that aliens may be trying to protect Earth from our own destructive tendencies. We even take a sip of Portugal's famous gin Genia, a fermented cherry drink that packs a punch.

As the episode progresses, we tackle serious issues such as the U.S. justice system, transgender rights, and the importance of community both in Portugal and in general. We explore the concept of fear and how to overcome it, while also embracing the idea that nothing really matters in the grand scheme of things.

So, whether you're a fan of indulging in delicious pastries like the Portuguese pastel de nata, or you're more intrigued by the mysteries of the universe and the possibility of extraterrestrial life, this episode has something for everyone.

[00:02:26] Three party system emerging. [00:05:49] Swingers and bisexuals. [00:08:45] Fisting after a colonoscopy. [00:09:48] Farewell to Diane. [00:13:51] Republicans are so dumb. [00:17:40] Broadway shower scene. [00:18:20] Done with bottoming. [00:21:51] Rocking out with our cocks out. [00:24:24] Masturbation and societal taboos. [00:28:08] Encounters with extraterrestrial beings. [00:31:46] Concerns about protecting the earth. [00:33:18] Do aliens want to attack us? [00:37:34] Strong Portuguese alcoholic drink. [00:39:10] Fresh food and quality ingredients. [00:42:17] Addictive nature of fast food. [00:44:39] Female solo travelers. [00:48:01] US justice system and self-defense. [00:52:45] Naked Attraction show. [00:55:07] Pussies are interesting. [00:56:16] Naked dating and gay contestants. [01:00:03] Being watched at the bar. [01:02:40] Feasting and merry wine. [01:07:28] Policing everybody else's opinion. [01:09:23] Policing behavior and building community. [01:10:49] Transgender rights and societal norms. [01:16:00] Community and connection in Portugal. [01:17:26] Building community and falling apart.

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In this solo episode, Bobby discusses what Jim is up to in Portugal and asks listeners to call in with their crazy stories. He gives a book recommendation called "The Creative Act" and talks about living an authentic creative life.

Bobby plays some bizarre audio clips including Trump claiming windmills are killing whales and a kid who thinks people in the 90s used horses instead of cars. He answers a voicemail about how to handle a boyfriend who is suddenly into a new hip church. Bobby cautions about becoming more religious as an adult and questions the logic of Christian beliefs.

Next, Bobby goes through some personal questions submitted by a listener. He describes his ideal physical type and celebrity crushes. He shares his simulation theory and a conspiracy that our universe is just an atom in a larger entity. Bobby reveals embarrassing hookup stories from his past and talks about his love-hate relationship with constantly changing passwords.

He tells the origin story of how he started the podcast with Jim. He didn't choose Jim, but rather sees it as a serendipitous universe connection. He envisioned a different podcast format at first but evolved into something more authentic.

Bobby closes out with a rant about the radio host Delilah being mean to callers. He thanks listeners for tuning in to this experimental solo episode and promises Jim will return with stories from Portugal next week.


00:02:38 Embrace originality in creativity.
00:09:01 No takeaway.
00:12:09 Religion can be divisive.
00:15:53 No solid advice, just communicate.
00:21:42 We are part of something bigger.
00:26:48 Podcast hosts clicked and connected.
00:31:33 Sexual experiences and massage preferences.
00:37:02 Be cautious when meeting strangers.
00:43:21 Passwords are frustrating and complicated.
00:46:59 Delilah is backhanded and unhinged.

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This week on Not Well, hosts Bobby and Jim dive into a wide array of topics ranging from climate change to puberty stories. The episode opens with a discussion around the alarming consequences of climate change exposing coffins and even corpses from graveyards overwhelmed by flooding. This leads into commentary on a viral video depicting Rep. Lauren Boebert blowing smoke and acting disruptive during a Broadway performance of Beetlejuice, pointing to her immature behavior unbecoming of a congresswoman.

Transitioning to the subject of aging, the hosts talk about an interaction with two 22-year-old women that made them feel ancient and out of touch, highlighting the vast generational divide and relatability gap between millennials and Gen Z. They touch on how quickly one can go from young adulthood to middle age.

Nostalgic stories follow about chaotic family weddings, with drunk bridesmaids vomiting and family dysfunction on full display after too much open bar consumption. The hosts analyze how youthful alcohol-fueled mistakes take on more gravity with age. Discussion moves to the awkward early onset of puberty, from first wet dreams to the worry over small penis size exacerbated by urban legends around dye #5 shrinkage.

Examining race issues, the hosts react to a bizarre video showcasing German model Martina Big who chemically darkened her skin while adopting racial stereotypes in an offensive attempt to become Black. They conclude she erroneously conflates race with stereotypical aesthetics and behaviors. On relationships, the hosts open up about recently letting go of disappointing partners and learning to set boundaries around clear communication.

In closing musings, the hosts explain feeling disillusioned by straight bars and desiring the welcoming diversity of queer spaces. They question why certain restaurant chains like Pizza Hut and Golden Corral choose to brand themselves with the lowbrow connotations of words like “hut” and “corral.” And they impart dubious advice on avoiding STDs via hands-only stimulation.

0:00 - Cold open / Intro

1:21 - Video of Rep. Lauren Boebert's disruptive behavior during Broadway show

5:05 - Getting older and feeling disconnected from younger generations

9:09 - Stories of chaotic family weddings

15:35 - Going through puberty at different ages

18:59 - Reacting to a woman trying to make herself appear Black

26:57 - Remembering delayed puberty

34:04 - Discussing the universe and human nature

44:28 - Letting go of disappointing relationships

49:41 - Feeling disillusioned hanging out in straight bars

57:09 - Questioning names like Pizza Hut and Golden Corral

1:00:00 - Closing thoughts and advice on avoiding STDs

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Strap in—or better yet, don't! Episode 212 of the Not Well Podcast is the wild ride you didn't know you needed. Bobby and Jim dive headfirst into topics you never knew you wanted to hear about, but trust us, you do. Ever heard your friends say something so bizarre it made you do a double-take? Yeah, we're starting there.

We're tackling life's big questions, like 'What's the meaning of life?' and 'Why is Britney Spears still a style icon?' But don't worry, we're not all philosophy and pop divas. We've got stories that range from family survival guides to the great outdoors—think Bear Grylls but with way more laughs and zero bug-eating.

If you're into social dynamics, we're dissecting everything from sorority life to historical figures who definitely didn't make it into your history books. And because we care about your well-being, we're even diving into the mysteries of disrupted sleep and the job market.

So, if you're looking for a podcast that's as enlightening as a TED Talk but as entertaining as a stand-up comedy show, Episode 212 is your golden ticket.

[00:00:28] Christian friends saying "daddy fill me" 
[00:03:06] Male genital anatomy. 
[00:06:32] Cialis and morning wood.
 [00:10:08] Trust and Betrayal. 
[00:13:00] The meaning of life. 
[00:15:49] Forgiveness and moving on.
[00:19:13] Britney Spears' dancing and clothing.
 [00:22:02] Family tragedies and survival.
 [00:26:11] Peeing outdoors while camping.
 [00:28:37] Thropple and blackout moments.
[00:30:45] Masturbating in a saltwater bath.
 [00:35:16] Three men blowing me. 
[00:36:24] Terry Shivo'd your way to an orgasm.
 [00:40:12] Sorority hierarchy and patriarchy. 
[00:42:21] Fraternity and drinking culture.
 [00:46:41] Helen Keller's controversial history. 
[00:50:57] Historical figures and authenticity.
 [00:52:16] Personal hygiene during oral sex. 
[00:55:24] Disrupted sleep and seasonal changes.
 [00:58:07] Fragility of men.
 [01:01:28] Gay Republicans and LGBTQ rights.
 [01:04:51] Homelessness and job opportunities.
 [01:08:17] Carnies and childhood trauma. 
[01:11:12] Have a great week.

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Episode 211 of Not Well Podcast dives into a myriad of topics that range from the humorous to the controversial. Starting off with Jazz Club Shenanigans, Bobby and Jim explore the quirks of nightlife before an uber ride we never will forget. 

Taxicab Confessions bring a lighter note, but the conversation quickly shifts to the sensitive topic of hypocrisy in touching kids. Political division is also touched upon with a focus on Sarah Palin. The episode offers a 'dick update' and celebrates the arrival of great sweatpants season.

Relationship dynamics are explored in-depth with a segment on porn addiction and its impact on couples. The hosts also discuss the controversial correlation between corn and porn. Unusual eating habits and Tommy Lee's infamous sex tape make an appearance, followed by a bold statement that 'fat and ugly is a choice.'

The episode wraps up with discussions on the neurodivergent community, generational alphabet confusion, and the challenges of power outages during masturbation. The topic of 'smart casual' attire is also covered, and the episode concludes with a thought-provoking segment on slavery in the New Testament. This episode is a rollercoaster of emotions, opinions, and hot takes that you won't want to miss."

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WE ARE BACK!!! 

Bobby and Jim explore a whirlwind of topics in this episode, starting with reflections on vacations, solo trips, and the anxieties of approaching 40. They dive into humorous discussions about Speedos and share thoughts on the pride section controversy.

The hosts navigate through comedy, including Dave Chappelle's appearance and the fine line between humor and offense. They take a political turn with a focus on laws impacting the trans community and young people's political beliefs.

From Pizza Hut regrets to experiences in Myrtle Beach, the conversation remains lively and entertaining. They share personal anecdotes about fun in the spa, the Eagle nightclub experience, and trashy southern states. 

The episode concludes with a series of rapid-fire topics, including creep moments, tarmac waits, and candid conversations about sexuality and community. It's a rollercoaster ride through laughter, reflection, and candid conversations.

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In this episode of the Not Well Gay Podcast, Bobby and Jim kick off with a light-hearted discussion on solo trips and the concept of 'trailer trash gays'. They also delve into the topic of aging politicians, focusing on figures such as Feinstein, McConnell, and Harris, and the implications of Trump's indictments.

The conversation then shifts to heteronormative views on sex within relationships. Bobby and Jim emphasize the importance of communication and understanding socialization. They explore the idea of intimacy beyond penetration and discuss the concept of pleasure as sex to compromise needs.

Bobby and Jim also contemplate the existence of aliens and share their thoughts on Catholic confessions. They discuss the concept of original sin, the communion with the church, the power held by priests, and the manipulation that can occur within confession. They also humorously consider the idea of sin as a joke.

The discussion continues with a consideration of aliens, Christianity, parenting, and the regret that can stem from an affair. Bobby and Jim share their thoughts on faith, morning wood, aliens, and the dark web. They also analyze honeymoon photos to explore creative ideas and offer a public service announcement to stay hydrated.

The episode concludes with a debate on the potential dangers of swimming in the Atlantic Ocean, the idea of drinking from the Titanic for wealth, the practice of sending voice messages, and the humorous notion of taking shots of old men for riches. This episode promises a blend of humor, serious discussion, and thought-provoking ideas that will leave listeners both entertained and enlightened.


(0:00:00) - Trailer Trash Gays and Solo Trips
We joke about the gay bar The Eagle, discuss 'trailer trash gays', solo trips to Wilton Manners and Camp Buckwood.

(0:04:47) - Aging Politicians and Trump's Indictments
We discuss solo trips, Disport AKA Botox, 'trailer trash gays', and the ages of Feinstein, McConnell, and Harris.

(0:13:36) - Sex Views in a Relationship
Communicate, understand socialization, intimacy beyond penetration, and pleasure as sex to compromise needs.

(0:24:19) - Contemplating Aliens and Catholic Confessions
Original sin, communion with the church, priest power, confession manipulation, and sin as a joke discussed.

(0:32:21) - Aliens, Babies, and Airplane Mishaps
We consider aliens, Christianity, parenting, and regret from an affair.

(0:41:03) - Sharing Faith and Discussing Beliefs
We discuss faith, morning wood, aliens, and the dark web.

(0:46:20) - Trashy Sandals Resorts and Hydration
We analyze honeymoon photos to explore creative ideas and offer a PSA to stay hydrated.

(0:53:58) - Ocean Dangers and Communication Considerations
We debate potential dangers of swimming in the Atlantic Ocean, drinking from the Titanic for wealth, sending voice messages, and taking shots of old men

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Hold on to your headphones! Bobby and Jim are back with another episode of the "Not Well Gay Podcast" that's guaranteed to be a riot of laughter, deep thoughts, and candid conversations.

Starting at [00:02:00], they tackle the seldom-discussed topic of hysterectomies and their aftermath, bringing a dash of humor to a serious subject. Then, at [00:04:47], they'll have you rolling with laughter with a side-splitting tale of a dance club adventure in New Lexington.

The hosts then shift gears at [00:08:47] to discuss the importance of voting, specifically urging listeners to vote no on a special constitutional amendment. This segues into a conversation at [00:10:05] about the media's portrayal of riots and peaceful protests, followed by a humorous critique of country music singers at [00:14:35].

From discussing environmental issues in Palm Springs to sharing hilarious anecdotes about their "motherfucking cats", this episode is packed with engaging content. And just when you think it can't get any better, they wrap up with a hilarious discussion on the fashion of thongs at gay pools and the very real phenomenon of the snail trail at [01:06:39].

So, buckle up and join Bobby and Jim for an episode that's equal parts outrageous, honest, and hilarious. You won't want to miss this!

[00:02:00] Hysterectomies and bleeding after. 
[00:04:47] A funny story about a dance club. 
[00:08:47] Vote no on issue one.
[00:10:05] The problem with showing riots.
 [00:14:35] Ugly country music singers.
 [00:16:27] Lack of aggressive political ads.
 [00:19:00] Struggling with dating and intimacy. 
[00:22:41] It's never too late. 
[00:24:30] Water usage in Palm Springs. 
[00:28:09] Building houses in Phoenix. 
[00:30:13] Freshwater as a valuable resource.
 [00:33:59] Talking about their fucking cats.
 [00:36:34] Hot couple from Plain City.
 [00:40:19] Pool and smelly hotel room. 
[00:43:09] Jerking off in the woods. 
[00:47:15] Lana Del Taco.
 [00:49:44] Symbolism in dreams.
 [00:52:00] Feeling insecure about body image.
 [00:55:00] Body image and self-perception.
 [00:57:09] Embracing the transition of age. 
[01:00:42] Unhealthy social media relationships.
 [01:03:19] Thongs at gay pools.
 [01:06:39] Snail trail is real.

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in episode 207 of the "Not Well" podcast, the main topic of discussion revolves around an unexpected surprise: the revelation of something being much larger than initially anticipated. This revelation serves as a springboard for exploring the broader theme of managing expectations in different areas of life. The episode delves into how people often form expectations based on assumptions, past experiences, and societal norms. However, when reality does not align with these expectations, it can lead to feelings of disappointment and frustration. The episode highlights the consequences of underestimating the significance or impact of a subject, and it emphasizes the importance of being prepared for unforeseen outcomes. Throughout the discussion, various scenarios are explored, such as work-related instances where underestimating project complexity or role demands can result in stress. Additionally, the significance of setting realistic expectations in relationships is touched upon, as unrealistic assumptions can strain the dynamics. The podcast also advocates for self-care and the establishment of boundaries to avoid burnout and feelings of overwhelm. The ultimate message conveyed in this episode is to cultivate patience and acceptance, acknowledging that life doesn't always unfold as expected, and learning to adapt and appreciate current circumstances can lead to a more fulfilling journey.



[00:01:17] Pizza and seating woes. [00:03:11] She's a talented fembot. [00:06:49] Drinking and drawing therapy. [00:10:38] Straight guys showing their dicks. [00:13:31] Karaoke and alcoholic friends. [00:17:07] Body-focused repetitive behavior disorders. [00:22:24] Karaoke nights and exposed Dicks. [00:25:06] Teachers and their impact. [00:28:26] Dating the teacher's niece. [00:31:14] Dad bod fantasies. [00:36:00] Ripple effect of strike. [00:39:38] UPS strike consequences. [00:42:00] Entertainment during an apocalypse. [00:45:26] Plantation style outfits and controversy. [00:49:32] Brothers being sexual with each other. [00:52:27] Taboo desires and societal norms. [00:56:15] Republicans obsessed with trans people. [01:00:05] Aging and body insecurities. [01:03:08] Hot men and lost shots. [01:05:38] A new perspective on Seattle.

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