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"Don't be distracted by criticism. Remember — the only taste of success some people get is to take a bite out of you." -Zig Ziglar
This week on Not Well with hosts Bobby and Jim, the guys discuss their wild night where things got interesting in the hot tub. They also talk about family at the holidays and how to avoid triggering yourself or your loved ones - which is easier said than done sometimes! Jim and Bobby discuss an awkward grindr situation and how to handle these situations going forward. They also touch on why it's important to have the right kind of underwear when peeing at urinals, because you never know who might be watching! Bobby thinks every queer person should have should have five or ten good women in their life: Heather for caring confidant; Courtney to provide nonstop laughter; Ashley if he wants someone with tears to share when things get tough- these are just three examples on how a gay person should be surrounded by supportive females! There’s also Emma an activist that takes his side no matter what goes down while Sara The Irrational situation sorter will live in anxiety alongside you -but offer solutions as well.
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“The quieter you become, the more you are able to hear” – Rumi
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When we meditate, we inject far-reaching and long-lasting benefits into our lives: We lower our stress levels, we get to know our pain, we connect better, we improve our focus, and we're kinder to ourselves. Let us walk you through the basics in our new mindful guide on how to meditate.
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“A person’s energy and the aura they give off never lies. Trust in that.” - Anonymous
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Bobby's Breakthrough book can be found HERE
Clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents' emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you'll learn how to create positive new relationships so you can build a better life.
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Bobby - All red aura
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Aura Colors
Red:
Red is physical energy, passion, and courage. It's an actionable energy—you're rooting down and being courageous, calling in actionable change. Red is associated with the emotions that come with the power of manifesting, such as creativity, passion, enthusiasm, courage, and willpower.
Indigo:
Due to their empathetic character, they have a natural affinity towards animals and children. With their ability to absorb and understand other’s feelings and emotions, they are often healers, counsellors or involved within the helping professions.
Purple:
An understanding that you are connected to everything around you can bring a sense of spiritual well being, a state that is most commonly associated with this aura color.
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“I’ve never met an interesting person with an easy life.”
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What's Your Love Language?
Words of affirmation
When words of affirmation is your love language, words build you up. You thrive on spoken affection, praise, encouragement, and compliments. Harsh words and criticism can bother you for a long time.
Acts of Service
Anything that your partner does willingly to ease your workload is a sign of love to you. You feel cared for when your partner vacuums before you get to it or makes you breakfast as a surprise. On the other hand, broken promises or laziness can make you feel unimportant.
Receiving gifts
When you speak this love language, a thoughtful gift shows to you that you are special. In contrast, generic gifts and forgotten special events have the opposite effect. This love language isn’t necessarily materialistic – it could be as simple as receiving your favourite snack after a bad day.
Quality time
To you, nothing says you’re loved like undivided attention. When your partner is truly present (and not looking at their phone), it makes you feel important. Failure to actively listen or long periods without one-on-one time can make you feel unloved.
Physical touch
Holding hands, kisses, hugs, and other touches are your preferred way to show and receive love. Appropriate touches convey warmth and safety, while physical neglect can drive a wedge between you and your partner.
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This week on Not Well with Bobby, Jim & Miz we talk about:
Miz’s Death Song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OIgq9spZnhk
Jim’s Death Song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qQvIAs-nPSo
Bobby’s Death Song: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXt56MB-3vc
Bobby’s letter to She’s Not Doing So Well (left as written including bad punctuation) :
This is not a goodbye but a thank you. The story about your name will forever hold a place in my heart. I am thankful for that gummy in denver, sitting with jim drinking Fiji water at a fucking Panera of all places and not being able to control my mouth when i said, sort of loudly at someone that was having a rough day " OH, She's Not Doing So Well" . When i wanted to start a podcast with Jim the only name i kept going to was you. So thank you for being such a statement.
With that being said, this is goodbye. I have learned so much working on you and I have met so many amazing people. The experiences I have had because of you are priceless. I will use what i learned from you and apply it to your new name. I know many people will be sad to see your name go and I know i have spent way too much money on stickers and shirts and swag, but you will forever be the OG name. We're gonna call you "NOT WELL" from this point forward.
Bobby
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· A survey conducted by an independent market research firm found that there were three songs that respondents most wanted to play when they died; Frank Sinatra's My Way (the most popular), Imagine by John Lennon and American Pie by Don McLean. The researchers also discovered that many respondents had specific requests like 'Nothing too sad' or 'Anything upbeat.
· Little People of America (LPA) defines dwarfism as a medical or genetic condition that usually results in an adult height of 4'10" or shorter, among both men and women, although in some cases a person with a dwarfing condition may be slightly taller than that. The average height of an adult with dwarfism is 4’0, but typical heights range from 2’8 to 4’8.
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Its the season 5 Finale, finally. We don't disappoint either when Bobby goes ham on Miz. Jim is blindsided and Bobby is just trying to stick up for himself. This one gets off to a very aggressive start but ends up being a pretty great life lesson. Are you the main character in your life?
We also talk about invisible disabilities and what it actually means. Do these disabilities go too far and take away from visible or actual disabilities? You be the judge.
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This week on She's Not Doing So Well, Miz hooks up at a gay bar with a Pfizer representative, Jim is feeling himself and thinks things are looking up for him and Bobby found out from his bloodwork that he is pre diabetic and has high cholesterol and is in a complete spiral. All this and more because we are extra. We are also talking seriously about a rebrand. We might be changing the name to just "Not Well" for searchability purposes.
Key Topics:
Bloodwork
Crystals/Rocks
LA
Homeless population
cancel culture
Dave Chappelle
The Closer
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Seattle
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This week is another episode that is not with the complete cast of characters . Not to worry, its still entertaining and we will be back together next week! Finally.
Bobby hates when people pout all day even though he is guilty of it sometimes. Miz tells us about his WILD time in Atlanta. Jim is in California but literally calls us for no more than 30 seconds from the San Diego Zoo.
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