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"Death is like a mirror in which the true meaning of life is reflected" - Sogyal Rinpoche

"You needn’t die happy when your time comes, but you must die satisfied, for you have lived your life from the beginning to the end." - Stephen King

"No one here gets out alive." Jim Morrison


In this episode Jim and Bobby speak with Tracie Santos, a death positive community member, who offers her services as a volunteer hospice nurse. Bobby is afraid of death and Tracie answers all of Bobby's questions and fears. We find out what rights, or lack of, LGBTQIA+ community members have in regards to their final legal rights and wishes. Tracie tells us about the death process and what happens when she sits and talks to these individuals. She also tells the boys about what a "Death Cafe" is and how it originated. Columbus Ohio was one of the first in North America to bring the death cafe concept over from Europe. Everyone has a different opinion on death and in this episode we learn so much more than we thought about death and all their friends (Coldplay reference)



For More Information On Death Cafes:

All Death Cafes are not for profit and are organized with no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action. They were founded by Jon Underwood based on the work of Bernard Cretan, and more information is available at deathcafe.com.

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O...you want to know what this week is about? It's all Canada and all good! The guys travel to Montreal to visit and also meet with one of the most genuine amazing humans Tranna Wintour.

"Tranna Wintour is a spiritual, pop-culture-obsessed, fashion-hungry, transgender comedian, singer, producer, and writer. She’s basically Barbra Streisand minus the fame, fortune, and cloned dogs. With her unique brand of humour (and glamour!) Tranna has taken the comedy world by storm. She was selected as one of Just For Laugh’s New Faces Canada 2019, one of the industry’s most important showcases for emerging talent. "

We talk to Tranna about growing up in Montreal, what it's like to be "different" and how important it is to ask questions and start positive conversations. She gives us a peak at what it's like to be a trans woman in Canada and what its like to be "post single". We could have talked for hours and hours and sort of wish we did. Bobby goes into what it was like to be in Montreal, including strip clubs, cannabis and gay bath houses. We might have a sponsor and we are starting a contest with Meat Underwear. Coming soon.....

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http://www.trannawintour.com/
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https://www.cbc.ca/mediacentre/bio/tranna-wintour
https://www.cbc.ca/radio/podcasts/chosen-family/
https://www.youtube.com/user/TrannaWintour/featured

Tranna Wintour Youtube Comedy Special:
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In this episode the boys talk about a bunch of random topics. Bobby and Mike got their hot tub and Jim just got back from Portland. Grilled cheese becomes a hot topic with a caller upset at the jam on the grilled cheese. We then meet Tim Boyer, a good looking "A" list gay who tells his coming out story and what his childhood was like. We get into perception and how it might not be what you think. Listen along and make sure you follow us and subscribe. The boys are off to Montreal for the rest of the week so stay tuned to their instagram for highlights.

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Autumn, also known as fall in North American English, is one of the four temperate seasons. Autumn marks the transition from summer to winter. This week, Bobby is forced to apologize for his excessive use of the “F” word. The boys talk about what is at stake in the Supreme Court battle for LGBT equal rights. Jim rips on Mike Pence for calling his wife mother. Bobby reveals why he gets laser hair removal and more importantly where. In the constant push for a sponsor, Bobby has reached out to an underwear company, Bear Skn and offered his services for exposure of the podcast. When he wrote them an email back though saying how many listeners we have, there have been crickets. They talk about Daniel Franzese and how he has no shame in his body and you shouldn’t either. We get into all things fall and how much we hate ordering at Starbucks. How many pumps do you have? We talk all things basic from apple picking to hay rides. The boys also give some of their favorite local drag queens some love since Nina West is back for the week doing her annual show “Heels of Horror” with her drag mother Virginia West and cast. Join us for another organized (kidding) and fun episode! 

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Social Media Profile of the Week: 
We have two people this week. @ninawest & @virginiawest 
We are giving some local love so make sure you follow these two. They have great stories and well we are proud of them and what they represent 

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·        Intro 

·        Apology 

·        Supreme Court 

·        LGBT Rights 

·        Coming Out 

·        Jobs 

·        Mike Pence 

·        Mother 

·        Closet Case 

·        Impeachment 

·        Sponsors 

·        Model 

·        Selling my body 

·        Body shaming 

·        Laser hair removal 

·        Pilonidal cyst

·        Two holes

·        Advocate 

·        Two spirits 

·        Cultures 

·        Going backward 

·        PSL

·        Starbucks 

·        Apple picking 

·        Leaf Peeping 

·        Hay Rides

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In this long awaited episode we finally tell you about our coming out stories. First, we recap the weekend and more importantly how Bobby ended up in the back of a police car. We talk about Jims trip to Portland and Bon Iver concert. Jim was a hit at the bar with his White Claw Outlaw shirt so make sure you get them asap (link below). The guys go into coming out and then we hear from Jims sister and Bobby's friend Courtney who is the first person Bobby told. Coming out is hard and sometimes annoying but being yourself is worth it.

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Card Against Humanity Phrase of the week: "James is a lonely boy. But when he discovers a secret door in his attic, he meets a magical new friend, Being paralysed from the neck down.

Social Media Person of the week: Heather McMahan

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police 
car ride 
jackie 
bon iver 
Portland 
Montreal 
Gay Village 
Club 
French 
Canada 
Tranna Wintour 
Nervous 
Interview 
Call It was it is 
Episode 10 
Podfaded 
We are here 
White Claw Outlaw Shirt 
Jim is popular 
and scared 
Where di you get it 
TeeSpring 
Heart Burn 
PPI 
Tacos 
Pounded it 
Heather McMahan 
Absolutely Not 
Listener Questions 
Inches 
Sex toys 
Limit does not exist 
Coming out 
Mom 
Sister 
Mom 
Dad 
honest 
Coming out stories 
Support 
Closing 

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