Not Your Girlfriend's Podcast

With a 7 MONTH BREAK between Season 3 and Season 4, B+L make a comeback with some big news: they’re both single. L’s discusses how and when things went wrong when she moved in with R, while B talks about ending her long-distance relationship with H. We talk all things COVID-19, Phase 2 opening up in New York City, #BLM Movement and what makes a Simp.

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WARNING: This episode contains explicit language, binge drinking, and illegal drugs depending on your state laws.

This episode was made for the fans. B+L close out Season 3 by having a long whiskey filled chat with each other. Topics include: NYC apartments and roommates of the past, B+L life updates (including L moving in with her long-term bae and B’s update on her long-distance bae), special guest this week is B’s new roommate P who weighs in on the dating scene in DC and how it compares to NYC and much more. Reminisce with us, drink with us (take drugs with us). Cheers to three wonderful seasons.

On this week’s episode, B is flying solo and interviewing special guest Sarah Merrill (@sarahamerrill_) from the Big Kid Problems Podcast. They talk about Sarah’s brand spanking new fiancé (00:04:48), moving to New York at 18 (00:14:20), #LAproblems (00:17:42), the evolution of popular meme page on Instagram Big Kid Problems (00:22:20) and what the hell are all these destination weddings and why we’re both having one (00:27:25). A chat of make-ups and break-ups and everything in between.

An array of topics are covered this week when B+L are joined with special guest Blaise-B’s former neighbor in London (yes British accent included). They discuss what you learn from your first serious relationship (00:03:22), Wetherspoons date etiquette (00:17:48), internal payments systems when you’re in a Long Term Relationship (00:22:00), dating as someone whose mixed race, fetishization, the most recent season Love Island’s having the first person of color to win (and all the other racial issues with that show) (00:26:57), someone who went on three holidays with their boyfriend, what Blaise has learnt about traveling with a bae (00:39:24) and navigating your mental health issues in a relationship (00:42:53)

Welcome to B+L’s Short Course Seminar on Boyfriend Training! They start off the episode with some life updates then dive into what they think is “Boyfriend Material” (00:11:16) the class broken down into four periods:

Period 1: (00:23:10) Communication- breaking down different arguing styles in a fight

Period 2: (00:42:41) Domestic/Living Situation- expectations in a relationship when it comes to cooking, cleaning, and paying for groceries

Period 3: (00:54:35) Social Interactions- how your bf interacts with your friends and family, being present with the other person when you’re in a sticky social situation

Period 4: Sex Ed (00:01:02) B+L’s best of advice on learning how to navigate a new person’s body, when and where to bring our your kinks and how to be woke and clear about your sexual needs.

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We start out this episode with B’s Life Update (00:03:00) continued from Summer Fling Episode (Episode 39: Seasonally Cancel Your Bae-The Summer Fling). Long distance in a relationship (00:16:00), the vital importance of Factime Sex and Sexting (00:23:30) in a Long Distance relationship, A BDSM Quiz you should definitely take (https://bdsmtest.org/select-mode) and a funny sex story when you try to switch roles in the bedroom (00:30:55) and recon research for ladies to do in order to give a guy pointers when he goes down on you (00:43:00).

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Host of the millennial dating podcast We Met At Acme, Lindsey Metselaar joins B+L to talk about how to navigate wedding season, including when to give a plus one, going to wedding as a plus one with your SO, and what happens when your boyfriend doesn’t want to come as your plus one. We also dive into if it’s ever okay for your boyfriend to follow instagram models, how many is too many, and if there is a situation where you should really bring it up.

Lindsey Metselaar Instagram: @lindzmetz

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We’re in peak summer time which means lots of opportunity to take a trip with your bae. This week we break down L’s recent trip with R to Italy and answer questions like when’s the best time to take your first Baecation, trial’ing a big trip with a weekender before, and what to do when you get annoyed with your bae. We also answer a listener a email about what to do when you’ve been dating someone for a few years in your twenties but start to lose interest.

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B+L welcome Dylan Palladino from We Are All Psychos Podcast on this week’s episode. They discuss dating a sweet spot ‘6’ on the hot scale (00:15:22), they explain why women say ‘Let’s just be friends!’ after they decide they don’t want to fuck you, Dylan weighs in on L’s ‘friend’ (00:22:00) and how and when to be stay friends with someone you used to hookup with, Dylan and B give each other feedback on their dating profiles (00:34:00), What guys mean when they want to have anal with you (00:53:45) and much much more.

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Dylan Palladino Twitter: @dylanjpalladino

We're All Psychos Podcast

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B+L Break down the pros/cons of having a Summer Fling, give New York City Summer date ideas, discuss their Summer Flings of the past, and give advice on getting a Summer Fling (and more importantly how to get rid of them when Winter comes).

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