Not Your Girlfriend's Podcast

In this week’s episode B+L are joined by fellow dating podcasters Tom and Tucker of the Undesirables Podcast. They break down their favorite dating apps (and Tom and Tucker’s trying out a recent fetish app), how women are feeling about receiving oral on a hookup, how NO MAN have ever said no to a blow job, how to approach someone IRL that you find cute (with TWO subway not-so-love-stories told) and much more.

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On this week’s episode B+L sit down to dive deeper as L hits the six month dating stage with her current boyfriend R. They discuss weeknight sleepover issues when morning schedules don’t perfectly align (00:4:00) how different love languages affect a new relationship (00:15:50), thoughts on moving in together when the leases are coming up (00:22:55), transiting from being your normal selfish single self to being back in a relationship (00:41:20).

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On this week’s episode B+L sit down with anonymous M who comes on the podcast to share her experiences in dating and asking men the hard questions, bringing up topics such as if and when they want kids, accepting rejection IRL at a bar, and dating different diversities while being a minority.

B+L also answer a email write in question about confidence in the bedroom on air and give their top tips.

Topic Time Stamps:

4:00 Online Matching With a Guy

11:30 How To Talk About What You’re Looking For

24:20 Email Write In: Bedroom Confidence

35:00 Diversity Dating

B+L are well rested and back for a FRESH Season 3 Premiere-this episode doesn't disappoint. B shares why fucking a 29 year-old isn’t a guarantee at good sex. B is moving to Brooklyn and ending her time as a commuter dater her and L discuss the broader community of commuter daters and if it’s technically lying if you post your city work neighborhood on the apps (00:32:00), L moves forward in her new relationship with R and discuss their recent exchange of ‘I Love You’s (00:46:00).

B+L are back together to wrap up the season. We talk L’s next relationships stage and give an update. B is fresh off the boat from her Europe trips gives us the rundown on what happened (and who happened). The episode is filled with dicks that are too big, hot internet date hookups and European flings of the past.

As part of our travel series, this week B sits down with special British guest ‘Lily’ who recently moved her life up and moved to Copenhagen. We discuss what it’s like when you go on holiday and meet someone you really like who lives in a different country and city and what happens when that distance is taken away. We talk Fuck Boy warning signs, when to know your self-worth, and what happens when you run into said Fuck Boy again.

Our first recurring guest, Anonymous S from Episode 7: So You Think Your Junk Is Brilliant is back to give us a life update. We last left her in a steady long term relationship until recently when her long term partner ended things. We talk about how to process a breakup when you don’t get closure, entering the dating world at 27, and building trust with a next person you date.

B+L are separated by an ocean but that doesn’t stop them from breaking down Valentine’s Day do and don’ts for those in a serious relationship to those in maybe want to get more serious. They also answer two listener questions and give some sage advice on dating older and what happens when you have emotional compatibility without sexual compatibility.

B+L sit down with co-founders of new dating app in NYC called Bounce. They talk worse dates, rate B’s Bounce profile , and going on date with someone who doesn’t drink. We find out if all guys are really lying about their height, are selfies fair game for your profile and how important someone’s voice plays into their attractiveness.