In this episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya sits down with Tracy Fowler (@yougotthistracy), a radio host, podcast producer, and fellow dream chaser originally from Barbados. Together, they share what it’s really like to leave behind your home country in pursuit of something bigger. In this case, building a new life and career in Los Angeles. From navigating uncertainty to trusting the process, this conversation is all about taking a leap of faith, chasing purpose, and building a life that feels aligned with your soul.

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Instagram: @yougotthistracy

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In this solo episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya dives into the transformative practice of "Scripting". A powerful manifestation tool that involves writing your life as if your goals have already come true. She breaks down how this meditative journaling technique can help rewire your mindset, shift your energy, and create real change in just 90 days. Whether you're new to manifestation or looking to deepen your spiritual practices, this episode offers a grounded, soulful guide to stepping into your future self.

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Instagram: @misszenya

Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast

Instagram: @kandyhousela

What does it mean to choose your family? And how do we protect those bonds in an industry that doesn’t always feel real? In this heart-centered episode, Zenya sits down with one of her closest friends, singer and songwriter Dessy Di Lauro (@dessydilauro), for a vulnerable and grounded conversation about friendship, loyalty, and navigating the entertainment industry with your heart still intact.

Zenya and Dessy explore the importance of chosen family, the deep friendships that often become stronger than blood and how to maintain those connections when life and career get chaotic. Together, they reflect on the sacredness of showing up for one another, the healing power of community, and what it means to hold space when the world can feel transactional.

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Instagram: @misszenya

Instagram: @dessydilauro

Instagram: @notyourgurupodcast

Instagram: @kandyhousela

What does healthy masculinity really look like in today’s world? In this episode, Zenya is joined by Seth Stewart, a former professional dancer for Madonna, Mariah Carey, and more, and an original cast member of the Broadway hit Hamilton. Seth now leads True Kings Academy, a space created to help men heal, evolve, and connect through community.

Together, Zenya and Seth dive into the importance of balancing masculine and feminine energy, breaking generational patterns, and the power of saying yes to emotional growth. From the stage to spiritual leadership, Seth shares how redefining masculinity can create stronger, more emotionally intelligent men. This episode is a deep conversation about self-work, safe spaces, and shifting culture from the inside out.

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https://www.instagram.com/kandyhouse

https://www.instagram.com/iamsethstewart

https://www.instagram.com/truekingsacademy

When was the last time you said “no”—and really meant it? In this episode, Zenya is joined by friend and kundalini instructor River (@riverxshima) for a soul-deep conversation about energetic alignment, self-protection, and the powerful truth behind the “sacred no” and “expansive yes.” Together, they explore how learning to say no to what doesn’t serve you—and yes to what scares you—can open the door to a more grounded, meaningful, and fulfilling life. This episode is a permission slip to trust your intuition, establish boundaries, and expand into the highest version of yourself.

Whether you're navigating people-pleasing tendencies, starting a spiritual journey, or simply trying to reclaim your time and energy, this episode offers gentle insight and grounded wisdom to support your growth.

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In Episode 2 of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl, Zenya is joined by model, creative, and radiant truth-teller Lo Forgé for a conversation on perception, manipulation, and the blurred lines between business and romance.

Together, they unpack a frustrating and all-too-common experience of people who set up fake business meetings as a front for personal interest. The two dive into how women are perceived — not just by men, but by society at large — and the emotional labor that comes with constantly being on guard.

Zenya and Lo also read audience-submitted stories about ambush dates.

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https://www.instagram.com/notyourgurupodcast

https://www.instagram.com/kandyhouse

https://www.instagram.com/lo.forge

Welcome to the very first episode of Not Your Guru, Just Your Girl. A new series from KandyHouse hosted by singer, songwriter, and soulful storyteller, Zenya (@misszenya).

In this premiere episode, Zenya opens up about her perspective on love, self-worth, and navigating modern relationships. She answers questions submitted by her audience on Instagram — from the biggest red flags and the worst apologies from past partners to the best relationship advice they’ve ever received.

With her signature blend of vulnerability, wisdom, and humor, Zenya shares her own insights on healing, growing, and setting boundaries — all while keeping it real and relatable. It’s a soft launch into a series made for those who are tired of toxic love and ready for something deeper.

Whether you're looking for clarity, comfort, or just a girl who gets it, you're in the right place.

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https://www.instagram.com/misszenya

https://www.instagram.com/notyourgurupodcast

https://www.instagram.com/kandyhouse