Nothing Un-Touched

We sit down with psychologist and true crime host Lindsay Wisner for an unfiltered talk about why our dating “type” can be a childhood echo and how to stop repeating the same painful loops. Along the way, we get real about online dating in your 40s, parenting teens, libido shifts, and what honesty actually requires in modern relationships. 

• Lindsay’s background in psychology and psychoanalytic training 
• how “your type” can be a Freudian pattern tied to attention and people pleasing 
• Ivy’s story and the idea of reparenting through partners without chasing perfection 
• single parenting realities with teens and the guilt spending spiral 
• the dark true crime angle behind “the husband did it” and why consent matters 
• practical marriage advice around reactions, conflict, and letting small things go 
• online dating as a numbers game and why it makes connection feel disposable 
• being picky versus being open and what to prioritize beyond photos 
• pheromones, attraction, and the difference between body signals and red flags 
• independence, boundaries, and what compromise actually looks like 
• perimenopause libido spikes and what to expect as menopause hits 
• sexual connection versus emotional connection and the case for open relationships 
• cheating patterns, trust, and when context changes the meaning 

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We catch up on the chaos behind recording a big guest, then swap real-life stories that swing from airport anxiety to a tram moment so funny it turns a whole crowd into an audience. After that, we read our most unhinged dating app messages and break down the red flags, boundaries, and texting behavior that instantly kills attraction. 

• Shouting out Daphne Meeks and the technical issues that nearly derailed the recording 
• Ivy’s short Colorado trip as a reset and a reminder to take the trip anyway 
• The Denver airport tram story and the accidental “muscles save the day” moment 
• Dealing with men begging for nudes and why no still means no 
• The weird dishonesty of dodging simple questions and what it signals 
• Reading ridiculous dating app openers from bland compliments to graphic demands 
• What makes an opener worth replying to and why effort needs follow-through 
• The “send a pic” entitlement spiral and the line where it becomes insulting 

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A haunted swingers house. A survivor story that turns your stomach. And dating advice that actually lands because it’s paid for in real life. We’re joined by Daphne Minks, a creator behind Vortex 29, who shows up with humor, patience, and the kind of honesty that makes you laugh one minute and sit in silence the next.

We talk about her past in the public eye, what it means to carry a controversial name, and how stalking and fear can reshape every choice you make. Daphne breaks down heavy metal poisoning in plain language, including mercury exposure and the “Mad Hatter” kind of disorientation that can make you doubt your own reality. We also get into why isolation can be healing, how education can become a lifeline, and what it looks like to rebuild your sense of safety from the ground up.

Then we go straight into the messy heart of it: relationships, secrecy, cheating, and the red flags that show up when someone can’t share who they are. We dig into fantasy, shame, and the difference between being truly desired and being tolerated. Daphne also opens up about estrangement and parental alienation, and we connect it back to attachment, self-worth, and why so many of us end up chasing familiar pain instead of real love.

If you like dating podcasts, sex-positive conversations, paranormal stories, and real talk about trauma healing and relationship boundaries, hit play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review with your biggest takeaway.

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We trade two wildly different dating updates: Scarlett’s tall, funny Snapchat guy with a missing-tooth twist and Ivy’s chaotic weekend that somehow includes a yacht, a pool party, and hotel hookups. Mary Jane joins us to react, hype us up, and get real about red flags, green flags, and why dating today can feel like a survival sport. 
• Mary Jane’s first guest spot and why she’s an OG 
• Scarlett’s Tinder to Snapchat match and the “nice beard” pull 
• The missing tooth confession and what it signals about priorities 
• Free housing under a dorm and the questions that raises 
• Deciding when to stop entertaining obvious red flags 
• Ivy’s Fourth of July yacht invite and fireworks on the river 
• Two encounters in one weekend and how quickly plans escalate 
• Performance anxiety and how to handle it without shame 
• Faking orgasms and why people do it 
• Hotel room cleanup panic and hiding the evidence 
• Mary Jane’s take on strippers and modern dating fear 
• Standards, strong women, and not letting “Slick Rick” in 

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We’re back from a long break and catch you up on six chaotic weeks that include a breakup, dating app nonsense, and multiple nights out that go off the rails. We talk through what emotional maturity looks like, where our boundaries should have been stronger, and why our friendship keeps everything fun even when life is messy. 
• the breakup story and how lack of communication changes everything 
• choosing grace while still calling out emotional immaturity 
• the reality of being newly single and what we want next 
• awkward nights out, unwanted attention, and the pressure to “be nice” 
• music festival weekends, rain-soaked shows, and bar chaos 
• dating app texting styles, leaving mystery, and why men chase 
• a sponsor milestone and what it unlocks for guests and gear 
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We close out season one by getting honest about how far we’ve come, what we’ve learned behind the mic, and why this podcast has become real therapy for us. We share life updates, hard truths about work stress and relationships, and the season two cliffhangers we can’t wait to tell you. 
• season finale recap and what changes from episode one to now 
• gratitude for listeners plus feedback on sound and growth 
• six-week break plans and why we still stay active on socials 
• career pressure, burnout, and the difference between failing and drowning 
• adopting Asher the kitten and why shelter adoption matters 
• leadership class graduation, community fundraising, and feeling validated 
• favorite episodes, running jokes, and the A plus guy story 
• worries about professionalism and the podcast getting “leaked” to book club 
• season two goals like marketing, guests, and listener write-ins 
• why “just leave” is harmful advice in abusive relationships 
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A relationship can feel amazing in private, then suddenly you have to answer the scary questions out loud: When do my friends meet them? When does my family meet them? When do my kids meet them? We talk through that exact pressure, including why first impressions can be hard to recover from and how to pace introductions when you actually see potential.

We also get real about the messy context that surrounds dating in your 30s and 40s: supporting a partner through grief when you are still learning each other, coping with interview anxiety and confidence dips, and noticing red flags before you get pulled in. Scarlett shares a new connection that quickly turns questionable, and we break down why certain “small” details can signal bigger problems with stability, honesty, or readiness.

Then we jump into modern relationship territory: the soft launch versus hard launch debate on social media. We share what privacy means to us, how we think about posting a new partner, and why boundaries matter even more when unwanted attention shows up. Things get extra real when an ex who is blocked finds a way to call anyway, forcing a careful, safety-first response.

If you’re navigating dating advice, meeting the family, introducing a boyfriend or girlfriend to kids, or figuring out your own relationship boundaries, this conversation will feel like a night out with friends who tell the truth. Subscribe, share this with a bestie, and leave us a review. What’s your rule for when a partner meets your people?

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You ever have a date feel totally normal… until it suddenly turns into a crime scene with one missing person? Scarlett finally meets a guy she’s been texting, sits through dinner, and steps away to use the bathroom. When she comes back, he’s gone, the calls don’t go through, and the spiral starts: What did I say, what did I do, what did he see that made him bail? We talk about ghosting, rejection, and why a lack of closure can torch your confidence even when you know the other person is the problem.

From there, life gets even messier. Ivy gets a text from her daughter that no parent wants, the cops are involved, and we’re left balancing laughter with the real talk about consequences, safety, and learning things the hard way. We also share a book club update that takes a sharp turn into true crime, including a retired cop’s story about working alongside someone later tied to serial killer allegations. If you love dating stories, relationship drama, and the “wait, what?” moments that make you call your best friend immediately, you’re in the right place.

Then we get into the big question: why men cheat versus why women cheat. We’re honest about loneliness, boredom, validation, addiction, and the selfish comfort of keeping someone at home while you chase attention elsewhere. We also unpack dating app language like “open to exploring,” plus threesomes, unicorn dynamics, swingers, and the boundaries you need if you’re going to explore anything ethically.

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He texts back in minutes all day, then goes silent every single night and somehow expects you to be cool about it. We’ve both been there, and we’re not pretending it doesn’t mess with your head. We kick things off with real-life updates, then dive straight into the dating behaviors that trigger our biggest toxic traits: overthinking, reading into patterns, and wondering if you’re being treated like a last resort.

From “acting unbothered” while mentally building a full case file to shutting down the moment conflict gets loud, we break down what those reactions actually protect, and what they cost you. We also talk lying, integrity, and why asking a question when you already know the answer feels so satisfying and so exhausting. If you’ve ever needed “receipts” to calm your nervous system, you’ll recognize yourself here.

It’s not all heavy. There’s a backyard burn pile that ends with cops at the door, a debate about why people brag about the weirdest things, and our take on using makeup sex to skip the hard conversation. We land on the part we care about most: self-worth, clear boundaries, and choosing partners who show effort when it matters.

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You ever catch yourself saying “I hate toxic behavior” while secretly loving the exact same thing when it’s wrapped in good chemistry? We’re Ivy Noor and Scarlett May, and we’re turning our unfiltered bestie energy on a topic that hits way too close: toxic traits we secretly love, secretly hate, and sometimes can’t even name until we’re already in it.

We start with real life updates and the behind the scenes of friendship: how we get mean when we’re stressed, how we finally say the hard thing, and why honest feedback can be the difference between drifting apart and becoming chosen family. If you’ve been searching for better communication skills, friendship repair, or how to stop spiraling after conflict, this chat will feel painfully familiar in the best way.

Then we go there: sex, kink, BDSM curiosity, and the line between hot control and feeling unsafe. We talk about being told what to do in the bedroom, mirror confidence, why consent has to be specific, and the exact moments that are a hard no. We also call ourselves out on patterns like testing people instead of communicating, loving partners who need to be taken care of, oversharing too fast, and needing consistent reassurance.

Listen, laugh, cringe with us, then tell us what trait you’re working on. Subscribe to Nothing Untouched, share this with a bestie who will have opinions, and leave a review so more people can find us.

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