Nyasha Presents - Zim Beyond The Degree

One of my closest friends from high school is here, Leroy Tengwa!

I wanna talk to you who are in love, who are looking for love, who are doubtful of love.  

Are we going too far or doing too little in love and relationships?  Helping me is Lloyd Anesu Ngongoni who authors https://anesuopenmeditation.wordpress.com/- It's so amazing!  

Timestamps 

0:43 Why talk about love and relationships now Nyasha? 

2:30 Meet Lloyd! 3:07 How is Lloyd doing? 

4:41 When ddi you start tapping into poetry and why? 

7:51 Sabotaging relationships 

8:51 Is having courage easy 

9:00 Theory of attachment styles. Exploring fear associated with love and relationships. Fear of abandoment, rejection. Avoiding conflict. How it is related the amount of attention or distance a person may need in a relationship because of or even without facing conflict. 

10:30 Children can develop harmful personalities as early as 4 years old. Take parenting seriously and teach children emotional intelligence. 

11:31 What makes it hard to let go a person 

12:52 Are there always signs that it is gonna end or was it a blindside? 

13:43 Recognizing unhealthy behavior patterns - have self-respect, self-compassion! 

14:15 It doesn't matter if what the person does which hurts you is for a "valid reason". It still hurts you! 

17:30 Is it worth it going through heartbreak coz you "learn a lot"? 

19:24 Healing takes time and that's ok! 

20:28 What's Lloyd's new approach to dating now? 

21:26 The new dating situation in Zim 

25:51 Healing properly 

27:11 Can we go back to the old ways of courting? 

29:19 Men's expression of emotions 

31:13 Final words from Lloyd 

31:55 Final words from me

Transcript

0:00 Part 2 Goromonzi "Where are they now?" 

0:20 Why medicine? 

2:00 What do you view differently since you started pursuing your studies? 

6:53 How aerospace engineering and pilot studies come together 

11:29 Motivation behind learning Mandarin and immersion in Chinese culture 

14:37 What should people who aspire to take on a similar path to ours know? 

22:49 What's the most British thing Chido now does? 

23:31 What's the most Chinese thing Mubaiwa now does? 

27:15 Advice to A level students who are still deciding what to do next  

All things Goromonzi High School with Michael Lordmarc Mubaiwa and Chido Michele Mawarura  

0:00 Intro 

0:30 How we first met each other 

11:07 How we ended up at Goromonzi High 

20:39 Why wasn't Chido in Scripture Union (SU) Committee?

 25:30 Do you feel like you're now a GOSA (Old Goromonzi Student)?  

35:30 What did we all like to buy at the tuckshop?

0:00 Intro 

2:16 How is Tendai doing?

 2:59 A brief autobiography of Tendai 

6:40 Tendai shares his surprising university suspension story 

11:22 What made it difficult to process the suspension 

13:42 Great life lessons from Tendai Mungate 

13:58 Believing in yourself 

16:25 Making good decisions 

18:13 If you want success, you've got to desire it like you desire to breathe 

20:55 Is success inversely proportional to the amount of melanin you have? 

26:36 Rapid fire questions 

29:48 Who inspires Tendai? 

32:19 The sociology behind why religion isn't always cool 

35:50 Challenges the Zimbabwean youth are facing 

39:00 Tatenda's vision for himself 

40:30 Why Tendai returned to Ruwa Town Council as an alderman? 

41:49 Does Tendai feel like he's missing out on what most of his peers are doing? 

44:03 Who is Tendai at MSU?

All reasons why I started this channel | Ep 16 Millicent Kwangwari

The hilarious, visionary Brian Marombedza is here!  

0:00 Intro 1:10 What Brian had been up to 

2:20 Inspiration behind applying for Schwarzman Scholars Program at Tsinghua University 

4:19 Navigating online learning and social distancing 

6:34 What did Brian at Marist Brothers consider to be the highest calling of mankind 

8:00 How 2014 was a period of some reform for Brian 

9:37 Important lesson while at UC Berkeley 

13:00 Dreaming in colour 16:39 

What does Brian think is holding people back from dreaming big? 

19:55 Important lessons from Strive Masiyiwa 

23:26 What's on the Maro of Africa Youtube Channel 

25:00 Is it paradoxical for Brian the trader to be pushing for Zim stocks 29:44 Mastercard Foundation's Impact 

31:16 Rapid Fire Questions 37:00 What would be the key moments in Brian's autobiography

On this episode is my high school besky - bestie deskee - from Regina Mundi Gweru, Vanessa Nancy Mangwanya. She's studying Industrial engineering at NUST in Bulawayo, Zimbabwe. And is finishing an attachment where she works with mobile technologies.