In this episode, our guest shares intimate details about his experience with sexual abuse and suicide ideation. If this is a sensitive topic for you, please consider this before listening.
In this episode, we talk to John Comerford. He describes himself as a mental health advocate and spokesperson for men who have had childhood sexual trauma. John lives in Australia.
John tells us about experiencing sexual assault as a child and the trauma that held him on a comma for 40 years to follow. After being raped by a trusted educator in school, John didn’t feel safe to tell anyone. For the majority of his adult life, the secret manifested in actions and behaviors that affected his relationships with himself and others. As his spiral of shame and guilt twisted down, he was faced with a critical decision and found hope in the prospect of protecting his own children; beginning a process of rebuilding his self image, self belief and ability to help others. Tune in to hear what John means when he says “I got really good at seeing other people’s struggles”.
You can find John on:
Website: https://jjcomerford.com
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_jjcomerford_
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-comerford-8a76a510a/
John would like to acknowledge the following individuals, organizations and/or causes that matter to him and invite you to consider supporting them and/or sharing their messages:
My partner Amber, for saving my life
My children, for the defining moment and getting me on the right path
My family for being so supportive
SAMSN Survivors & Mates Support Network https://www.samsn.org.au Since 2011, SAMSN has been delivering services and programs that prioritise the wellbeing of survivors, supporters and health providers. We also have many resources that can be read, watched and/or listened to. All our services for survivors and supporters are FREE.
Average Joes Mens Collective https://averagejoes.net.au Average Joes officially began in September 2018
when good friends Wayne Taylor and Eliot Krause put a call out on social media along with a selfie of two very average lads eating chicken wings and sipping beers to local men in the area to join them for a beer and wings every Wednesday for an hour at their favourite pub for a real and raw chat about the issues men face all whilst making a mate.
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Come Alive.
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Until next episode, keep noticing and keep listening!