This week, we’re joined by top event planner in Nigeria, Bisola Borha as we break down the real cost of Nigerian weddings - from ₦50M budgets to ₦900M experiences. We talk food, asoebi, family pressure, and why Lagos events keep getting more extravagant.

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00:00 Introduction

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Welcome back to #offairwithgbemiandtoolz , where the tea is hot and the opinions are hotter 

This episode is packed with hot tea and real conversations you don’t want to miss. From trending controversies in Nigeria to industry beefs and shocking social media moments, we break it all down with our honest takes.

If you love gist, real talk, and unfiltered vibes… this episode is for you.

00:00 – Introduction
 01:20 AMVCA Nomination Announcement
 03:56 Blessing CEO Controversy 
 06:40 Pastor & Special Needs Marriage debate
 10:28 Kemi Adetiba Casting call Trend
 14:47 Odumodu Vs Blaqbonez Drama
 17:02 Celebrity Fights & Industry Chaos
 21:55 Coco Gauff Hair Controversy
 27:33 Chris Brown's Kiss On Stage 
 32:22 Angel #bbnaija Relationship Gist
 35:00 9ice And His Spiritual Beliefs (Babalawo)
 40:10  Fan Email 
 49:04 Moniepoint Money Zone 
 50:41 Gordon’s Spin the Weekend 
 52:21 Outro & goodbye

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Nigerians are NOT leaving the BBL trend anytime soon 

In this episode of Off Air with Gbemi & Toolz, we sit down with an expert aesthetic doctor, Dr Bea of The Bridge Clinic to break down the truth about beauty procedures in Nigeria from BBL, fillers to skincare, trends, and the pressure to look a certain way.

Despite what social media says, clinics are still fully booked, and more Nigerians are getting procedures now than ever before 

Watch till the end to find out what’s really happening behind the scenes and get expert insights you won’t see anywhere else! What beauty procedure are you curious about? Comment below!

00:00 Introduction
04:19 Meet Dr. B – Aesthetic Dermatologist
05:20 Evolution Of Aesthetics In Nigeria

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In this gripping episode, our guest,  DJ, Big N takes us through the chilling events of the day he was shot in South Africa. From the shocking moment the gun went off to his incredible survival story, we dive into how the experience has changed his life and his outlook on both business and personal growth. He opens up about the emotional toll, the recovery process, and how he turned tragedy into a lesson for growth and resilience.

This episode is packed with raw, unfiltered storytelling including humor, lessons on trust, business scaling, and the reality of personal growth after a traumatic experience. If you’re looking for inspiration and real talk about overcoming life’s toughest moments, this episode is for you!

00:00 - Intro & Shout out to Plato
 03:30 - DJ Big N talks about his time in South Africa before the incident.
 08:00 How DJ Big N survived the attack and the strange calm in the chaos.
 13:00 - The Aftermath: A Fight for Survival
 18:00 - Overcoming Shock and Shingles
 22:00 - How the incident shaped DJ Big N's  approach to business and relationships.
 27:00 - A Changed Outlook on Life

In this episode of Off Air with Gbemi & Toolz, we dive deep into the dynamics of friendships and explore what it truly means to be a good friend. From calling out your friends when they need to level up, to navigating those tough conversations, we cover it all. Grab your Gordon's Gin, order a meal from Plato, and make your payments with your Moniepoint account as we chat with our closest friends about everything from fitness challenges to supporting each other through life’s ups and downs.

We also explore the importance of understanding your friend’s needs and how to show up for them when it matters most. Plus, we talk about handling those tricky moments when conflict arises. Can friendships survive without being “high maintenance”? Watch and find out!

00:00 – Introduction
04:12 – The Truth About Friendship Expectations
12:45 – Squats, Lunges, and Real Talk with Friends
18:30 – How to Show Up for Your Friends
28:00 – Friendship Conflicts & Resolution
35:00 – Special Guests: Journalist Lami Akintobi & Bola Njideofor
42:15 – Navigating Friendship Breakups
47:00 – Fun Q&A: Are You a 'Call Me if You Need Me' Friend?
52:20 – Advice on Balancing Friendships and Relationships

Gbemi and Toolz are joined by Murewa and Isoma from Menisms Pod for a heated but hilarious conversation about the modern Nigerian man. They discuss submission, gender roles, 50/50 relationships, domestic labour, emotional maturity, money in dating, feminism, and why some men want traditional treatment without traditional responsibility. The episode also includes fan mail, money talk, and weekend recommendations.

Chapters
 00:00 Intro
 00:49 Today’s topic: Who is the modern Nigerian man?
 02:06 “Modern men are princesses” – opening hot take
 04:02 Submission, trust and what the Bible actually says
 08:12 Are men asking for partnership or power?
 12:04 Traditional men vs modern expectations
 16:10 Why some men want 50/50 but not shared housework
 20:18 Domestic labour, children and running a household
 26:03 Can men be “raised right” and still act entitled?
 35:02 Why some men hide who they really are until marriage
 39:15 Money, work, bills and the unfairness of strict 50/50
 45:06 Male loneliness and modern dating struggles
 49:30 Why some men say women only want money
 55:48 Why feminism still threatens some men
 59:36 Fan mail: He avoids money conversations — red flag?
 1:07:18 When should couples discuss salary and finances?
 1:12:44 Does a woman earning more threaten men?
 1:17:20 Closing thoughts with Menisms
 1:19:37 Money Zone with Moniepoint
 1:24:02 Spin the Weekend with Gordon’s Gin
 1:27:06 Outro

What happens when three people decide to build one relationship together?

On this episode of OffAir with Gbemi and Toolz, we meet Precious, Jeffrey and Chidinma, known as the Feral Throuple, who say their relationship is built on love, honesty and communication.

They share how their unusual relationship started, how they deal with jealousy, family reactions, and the biggest misconceptions people have about polyamorous relationships. From meeting at the Ice cream store to navigating love with two partners, this conversation is honest, surprising and sometimes hilarious.

Is this the future of relationships or just something that works for them?

Watch as the hosts ask the questions everyone is thinking.

Episode Chapters:
 0:00 Introduction
 1:12 What is a polycule?
 3:05 How Jeffrey met Chidinma
 5:20 How Precious entered the relationship
 8:45 When the relationship became a throuple
 12:10 Are they all in love?
 15:00 Do their families know?
 18:20 “Did you use jazz?”
 21:10 What is intimacy like in a throuple?
 26:40 Jealousy and communication
 30:30 Planning children and marriage
 36:15 Public reactions and criticism
 41:40 Rapid fire questions
 45:20 MonieZone with Moniepoint
 52:10 Spin the Weekend with Gordon’s

In this episode, Gbemi and Toolz break down the Tyra Banks and America’s Next Top Model documentary, old reality TV culture, Cardi B performing three months postpartum, why Nigerian concerts need to do better, the drama around Nigerian streamers, social media pile-ons, false accusations, and the backlash around Simi’s “stop raping women’’ tweet.
 They also get into celebrity deaths that hit hard, the dangers around travel destinations like Mexico, Tonto Dikeh’s latest rebrand, relationship drama making the rounds online, and much more.
 Plus, there’s Money Zone with Moneypoint and a fun Spin the Weekend moment with Gordon’s Gin.

If you enjoyed this episode, like, comment and subscribe. Drop the stories you want us to cover next in the comments.

00:00 — Season 9 kickoff
 02:05 — Promo shoot 
 04:10 — Plato food shout out
 06:00 — Tyra Banks documentary
 11:20 — Reality TV then vs now
 15:40 — Extreme makeovers debate
 18:30 — Big Brother fame pressure
 21:00 — Cardi B postpartum tour
 23:20 — Beyoncé concert standard
 26:00 — Nigerian concerts discussion
 29:10 — Celebrity deaths & healthcare costs
 33:40 — Mexico cartel crisis
 38:10 — World Cup travel concerns
 41:20 — Nigerian streamers drama
 45:50 — IShowSpeed’s Africa tour
 49:20 — Looking like you don’t need money
 52:10 — Mirabel assault story
 56:40 — Simi tweets controversy
 1:02:10 — Feminism & Twitter dragging
 1:06:00 — Engagement bait & fake stories
 1:09:20 — Cubana Chief Priest DNA saga
 1:12:50 — Tonto Dikeh rebrand
 1:15:30 — Money Zone By Moneypoint
 1:20:40 — Nigeria, money & savings
 1:25:10 — Business tools & POS tracking
 1:28:30 — Street fight story
 1:31:10 — OffAir Reacts:  Throuple discussion
 1:33:30 — Celebrity crushes
 1:35:40 — Gordon's Cocktail time
 1:38:00 — Gordon's Spin the Weekend (Brunch & Gist)
 1:40:20 — Episode wrap-up

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Welcome back to a special edition of The Off Air Show: Say It With Your Chest, in partnership with Durex. This episode gets real.
We’re talking about self-pleasure vs partner pleasure, generational differences in sexuality, performance pressure, ego, communication in relationships, and whether monogamy is even natural.

From Gen X to Millennials to Gen Z, our guests hold nothing back. We discuss:
Discovering self-pleasure growing up
Porn, performance myths & unrealistic expectations
Is it insecurity if your partner self-pleasures?
When does it become a problem in relationships?
Feedback in the bedroom: How do you say what you want?
Are younger generations more expressive or just more “loose”?
The monogamy debate 

We also spotlight Durex Performer, designed to help delay climax and support longer-lasting intimacy. This episode is funny, chaotic, uncomfortable and honest, just how we like it.

00:00 – Introduction: Say It With Your Chest
02:10 – Discovering Self Pleasure Growing Up
08:45 – Porn, Performance Pressure & Unrealistic Expectations
15:20 – Gen X vs Gen Z: Who Talks About Sex More?
22:30 – Walking in on Your Partner Self-Pleasuring
29:40 – Does Self Pleasure Mean You’re Unsatisfied?
36:15 – Communication, Ego & Giving Feedback
44:50 – Is Monogamy Natural? The Debate
53:10 – Sexual Exploration & Personal Boundaries
01:02:00 – When Does Self Pleasure Become a Problem?
01:10:15 – Final Thoughts & Audience Reactions

In this episode of Say it with Your Chest, Gbemi and Toolz tackle the age old question: Is intimacy about pleasure or performance? They explore the pressure to perform in bed, how society influences our expectations, and why mutual pleasure should be the main focus. With a candid discussion about communication, intimacy, and even a few fun "This or That" questions from Instagram followers, this episode is an honest conversation about how to truly enjoy intimacy with your partner.

Join Gbemi and Toolz as they break down the myths around performance anxiety and reveal how communication and connection are the real keys to a fulfilling intimate life. Plus, learn about Durex products designed to boost pleasure and confidence in the bedroom. 

Tune in, #Sayitwithyourchest and let’s talk intimacy the right way!

00:00 - Intro
02:45 - Is Intimacy About Pleasure or Performance?
07:30 - Performance Pressure: The Societal Expectations
13:00 - Men vs. Women: Who Faces More Pressure?
17:45 - Fake It 'Til You Make It?
22:30 - Pressure vs. Pleasure
27:00 - This or That? Fun Listener Questions
32:15 - Durex Product Spotlight
36:00 - Closing Thoughts