Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

By Ruan Willow

Oral Stimulation: enjoy as erotica author Ruan Willow reads her sexy titillating yummy erotic stories. Let's talk sex. Whether solo or with a partner, let's chat about things to improve your sex life,... more

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February 17, 2025 The Boy Toy Next Door by Lara Annette, A Reverse Age Gap MF Erotica Excerpt, narrated by Podcast Host Ruan Willow
Ep 568: The Boy Toy Next Door by Lara Annette, A Reverse Age Gap MF Erotica Excerpt, narrated by Podcast Host Ruan Willow.
About the Author:
Lara Annette is old enough to know better, and young enough not to care. Born in the sultry heat of Mexico City, she’s lived in Canada since she was a toddler, and still hasn’t acclimatized. So in order to keep warm during the long winter months, she started channeling her Latina passion into hot and steamy romance.
Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology
(any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).

Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places).
So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint!
Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).
Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!
Golden Pigtails VOTING INFO: https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-semifinals/
The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology
1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology
2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology
3. The "Going Hands Free" Award for Erotic Audiobook Emma's Policy ON SALE NOW FOR ONLY $5.99 AT https://alltheseroadworks.com/product/emmas-policy-audiobook-narrated-by-ruan-willow/
Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers Plus 6 Men, Book 1 by RuAnn Willhoe book 1 for FREE! (taboo version where it's the brothers) use code 4ZMSZ through 2/26 on Smashwords at Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with Her Best Friend's Brothers Plus 6 Men
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24min
February 10, 2025 MMF Hucow Erotica Excerpt by Elsie Louis, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow
Episode 564: MMF Hucow Erotica Excerpt by Elsie Louis, narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow. Don't forget to vote in the Golden Pigtails Smut Award! Ruan has three works nominated (Emma's Policy Audiobook, the Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, and Season's Teasings...more info below, keep scrolling!)
About the Author Elsie Louis:
Elsie adores milk and sex and nothing on earth beats combining the two. You can find her writing and daydreaming in her home on the dairy farm.
Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology
(any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).
VOTE for the anthology in the Golden Pigtails Smut Awards by February 14, 2025 at https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-semifinals/

Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places).
So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint!
Pleasure is your birthright!
VOTING INFO: https://alexasommers.com/the-golden-pigtails-2024-semifinals/
The "It's Always Better Together" Award for Best Erotic Anthology
1. Season's Teasings Season's Teasings: Snowbound Seductions Anthology
2. Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology
3. The "Going Hands Free" Award for Erotic Audiobook Emma's Policy ON SALE NOW FOR ONLY $5.99 AT https://alltheseroadworks.com/product/emmas-policy-audiobook-narrated-by-ruan-willow/
Ruan's other new audiobook release In Scarlet's House on sale at $1.99 -$2.15 launch pricing (ends 2/5/25) https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/inscarletshouseaudiobook
OR join the exclusive level of the podcast to get this audiobook and all the padlocked episodes. (join with RSS FEED ON YOUR APP, in the email you get after signing up)

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27min
February 07, 2025 For Men: Unlocking King Energy, A Conversation with Justin Nault on Authentic Masculinity and Emotional Mastery
Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast, Season 5, Episode 566: For Men (helpful for women, too): Unlocking King Energy, A Conversation with Justin Nault on Authentic Masculinity and Emotional Mastery.
Quotes from Justin Nault: @Justinnaultofficial
"Your entire reality is just a mirror reflecting back your internal state."
"How you do something is how you do everything."
"The only reason you don’t share yourself fully is fear of loss of love."
"Love is not a zero-sum game."
"You are a category of one."
Summary:While this is more of a discussion for men, I really encourage women to listen, too, because this is the kind of conversation that can help the sexes understand each other better.
What does this have to do with sex? A lot! We must look at ourselves as a whole and starting with basic changes to see real improvement. Take it from Justin! Listen now!
Redefining Masculinity: Join Ruan Willow as she dives deep into a transformative conversation with Justin Nault, the creator of King vs Prince, a groundbreaking program designed to help men evolve from ego-driven behaviors into authentic King energy. Justin, a leader in redefining modern masculinity, shares his insights on emotional mastery, radical self-acceptance, and the importance of authentic leadership.
In this engaging episode, Ruan and Justin discuss the critical connection between physical health, sexual well-being, and emotional intelligence. Justin emphasizes the need for men to address root causes of their issues rather than just treating symptoms, and he provides actionable advice on how to achieve true transformation through internal work.
They explore the complexities of modern relationships, the impact of societal expectations on masculinity, and the necessity of open communication in partnerships. Justin's unique perspective on the balance of strength and vulnerability challenges the conventional notions of masculinity, encouraging listeners to embrace their authentic selves.
#masculinity #masculineenergy #masculine #sexuality #sexualhealthmatters #wellbeing
Connect with Justin: http://instagram.com/justinnaultofficial
http://tiktok.com/@justinnaultofficialhttp://facebook.com/justinnaultofficial
Topic Timeline:
00:43 - Justin Nault is the creator of King vs Prince, a masculinity coaching program
08:47 - Sex is compartmentalized everywhere we look
11:56 - Is mushroom coffee a hoax? (Ruan approves of Ryze and drinks it everyday, it works! Affiliate link https://amzn.to/4gwdCNG )
14:44 - Get men out of ego driven behavior in romantic relationships19:34 - The biggest thing that we do with couples is communication
25:40 - Modern masculinity often confuses strength with dominance, which is problematic
31:11 - Most of what happens in 50 Shades is completely non-consensual, that's a problem, and inaccurate to the reality of living in this type of lifestyle.
32:18 - When I was younger, I was resentful of men
38:07 - Being in a place where we can receive from our partner
40:26 - So what are some things that you tell men that can help them stop...
44:49 - Getting comfortable expressing the full range of emotions through honesty
46:19 - Your take on porn
50:26 - Our society has programmed women to think if he likes porn, he doesn't like me
56:12 - Tell your partner how you're feeling without words. It's such a simple fix
58:19 - There are masculine feminine polarity dynamics in every partnership
Protectors Audiobook (excerpt at the end of the episode) affiliatelinks
https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/protectorsaudiobook
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UK https://www.audible.co.uk/pd/B0DSXDPQZH/?source_code=AUKFrDlWS02231890H7-BK-ACX0-428330&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_428330_pd_uk
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1h 10min
February 02, 2025 Tips for Indie Authors Getting Their Books Into Independent Bookstores, Indie Publishing, Indie Books, Romance Books: An Interview the Owner of Bettie's Pages Bookstore
Season 5, Episode 563: Empowering Voices: The Indie Bookstore Revolution with Nicole from Bettie's Pages Bookstore.
Join Ruan Willow in this enlightening episode as she chats with Nicole, the passionate owner of Bettie's Pages bookstore in Lowell, Michigan. Nicole shares her journey of running an indie bookstore in a small town, where she strives to create an inclusive space that reflects diverse voices and stories. Discover how she curates her collection to ensure everyone in her community can see themselves represented in literature, and the challenges she faces along the way.
#bookstore #independentbookstore #indiebookstore #indiebookstore #indiebooks #indie #books
Nicole also shares invaluable tips for Indie authors to get their physical books into bookstores, how they should approach covers, marketing, and what book buyers look for. This is invaluable advice for those choosing to be indie authors doing indie publishing. Get the super important inside scoop from someone who sells books for a living!
In this episode, they discuss the impact of literature on identity, the importance of representation for LGBTQIA and BIPOC communities, and how indie bookstores are vital in promoting diverse narratives that big publishers often overlook. Nicole also reveals her exciting plans for a mobile bookstore.
Connect with Nicole and her bookstore: www.bettiespages.com
@BettiesPages
www.facebook.com/bettiespagesbookstore
www.instagram.com/betties_pages
www.tiktok.com/@bettiespages
06:43 I would get hateful comments on social media
11:16 Genres in your bookstore
16:21 Making covers for indie books
22:50 I'm loving seeing romance only bookstores
28:20 People who bash graphic novels on social media are just ignorant trolls
32:16 With audiobooks, people have an immediate reaction to voices
34:03 So what advice do you have for authors who are indie publishers
36:32 What do you think about the trend of indie publisher rising and getting more publicity
42:21 Books about love are often trashed because they're written by women
48:31 The Supreme Court has ruled that book banning is wrong
53:59 One thing Indie publishing has championed is content warnings at the beginning of books
57:19 readers like trigger warnings
58:50 weddings at your bookstore
01:01:09 Betty's bookstore is celebrating its 5th anniversary
01:03:50 Bookshop.org lets you support independent bookstores without using Amazon. Visit https://bookshop.org/ to buy books and support any indie bookstore of your choice anywhere in the country! They have physical books and now ebooks too!
Independent bookstores list and tips on getting books into their stores: https://ruanwillowauthor.com/tips-for-indie-authors-to-help-get-their-books-into-independent-bookstores/
Visit Ruan's bookshop dot org at Pink Infinity Publishing
https://bookshop.org/shop/ruanwillowpinkinfinitypublishing
Quotes from Nicole: "I have a responsibility, in my opinion, to be able to open these doors for people that they might not normally get to see."
"Sometimes you can acknowledge that you can have conflicting feelings and like, you can love somebody a lot, but they're still not good for you."
"The fastest way to motivate me to do something is to tell me not to do it."
"If you have the chance to read a book that has made somebody mad enough that they want to banish, challenge it, please do."
"I just want to show up with my little queer bookstore and be like, here are the books."
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1h 8min
January 30, 2025 Erotica Excerpt: Office Sex, Age Gap Older Woman Younger Man: The Hotwife and Her Intern by Grace Beaumont
Episode 561: Office Sex, Age Gap Older Woman Younger Man: The Hotwife and Her Intern by Grace Beaumont. Enjoy an erotic fiction excerpt!
About the Author:
Grace Beaumont loves writing stories about slutty older women getting exactly what they need from the hot young men who will worship them like they deserve—all while their husbands watch and enjoy, of course. She plays with themes of bondage, spanking, and denial, and the smallest soupçon of submission.
Grace's Amazon page: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Grace-Beaumont/author/B0CXHTVKC8
Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE & DISASTER FIRE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology
(any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).

Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places).
So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint!
Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane and other disaster relief).
Enjoy storytelling about spicy relationships, hot erotica stories, erotica romance, and self care for you! Take time to pay attention to your mental health sexual health. Pleasure is your birthright!
Romance Book Blast: 1,000 FREE ebooks … all different subgenres of romance at https://www.romancebooklovers.com/ My book for free is my full-length novel I Dare You: The Saturday Sex Challenge under the erotica and erotic fiction section. This is a one-day event. Act now! Please enjoy and help out the authors by providing the world with your review! Thanks in advance! Enjoy!
Ruan's latest audiobook releases:
Never Say, Never Swing, Friends to Lovers https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/neversayneverswingaudiobook
Protectors: A Warrior's Requiem, Chronicles of Protectors, Superheroes, music themes, time travel, sexy intimate relations https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/protectorsaudiobook

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27min
January 25, 2025 Vampire Erotica Fiction Excerpt, Written by Johnna Dee, Narrated by Ruan Willow
Season f5, Episode 558: Vampire Erotica Fiction Excerpt from Birthday Cake by author Johnna Dee, narrated by Ruan Willow.

About the Author:
Author Johnna Dee is a spicy fantasy romance writer. Initially, her creative journey began with poetry, where she honed her skills in crafting evocative and lyrical verses. As her passion for storytelling grew, she ventured into the realm of novels, weaving intricate plots and enchanting worlds that transport readers to extraordinary realms.
Connect with Johnna Dee:
https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B0BRW38RD7
http://www.linktr.ee/johnnadee

About the Anthology:
Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology
(any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).

Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places).
So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint!
Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief).
Announcements:
Did you play spicy book bingo? It's over, but prices have been awarded! Find out more at https://www.intrigueverse.com/
Book raffle! By the upcoming Nomad’s Mobile Bookstore! That’s right! A bus bookstore! Featuring INDIE AUTHORS! Enter the raffle for just $5 for the potential to win 16 signed books by indie authors PLUS 5 more books! Must be in the US. Void where prohibited. Rules on the site.
I have a book in this raffle too! Check out more details and for how to enter at this link. Hurry! It ends January 25, 2025! https://crowdfundr.com/perks/eUNB8?ref=ab_0N1yYvN1qoL0N1yYvN1qoL
Find out more also on Instagram: http://instagram.com/nomadsmobilebookstore
Ruan's new book: In Scarlet's House witch, magic, Femdom, MF, woman on woman love, sexuality, relationships, erotic horror and suspense novella. ARC https://booksirens.com/book/X6YLPQR/RWYTBAU
Purchase: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/inscarletshouse
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29min
January 24, 2025 Writer's Chat Indie Authors: On Writing and Embracing Queer Erotica with Mx. Sinclair Sexsmith
Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow Podcast: Embark on a captivating journey into the world of queer writing and spicy books and stories with Ruan Willow and Mx. Sinclair Sexsmith. In this episode, these two passionate #writers share their love for #storytelling and delve into the intricate art of crafting narratives that explore #sexuality, intimacy, and #identity. Sinclair, a queer butch writer, has made significant contributions to the genre, with their work being recognized as a finalist for the Lambda Literary Award and their role as editor for the Best Lesbian Erotica series. Their dedication to amplifying #queer voices and experiences is evident as they discuss the importance of representation in literature. #queervoices #queerrepresentation
Ruan and Sinclair engage in a lively conversation about the creative process, touching on everything from the challenges of choosing the perfect book title to the nuances of writing about kink and intimacy. They reflect on how writing serves as a powerful tool for self-discovery and expression, allowing them to articulate the inner worlds of their characters and themselves. Both authors emphasize the unique ability of writing to capture the depth of human experience, something they believe is unmatched by other mediums.
The episode also highlights the evolving landscape of publishing, particularly the rise of self-publishing and platforms like Theo Reads, which offer new opportunities for writers to share their stories with the world. Sinclair shares their excitement about the potential of Theo Reads to become a major repository for spicy stories and romance, providing a space where diverse voices can flourish without the constraints often found on traditional platforms.
#selfpublishing
Listeners are invited to explore their own creative potential and consider the impact of storytelling on their lives. Whether you're an aspiring writer or an avid reader, this episode offers valuable insights into the world of queer literature and the power of writing to connect, inspire, and transform. Tune in to discover how Ruan and Sinclair are shaping the future of spicy writing and championing the voices of marginalized communities.
Don't miss this inspiring conversation that celebrates the beauty of storytelling and the importance of representation in literature. Listen now and join the movement to create a more inclusive and diverse literary landscape.
Links:
http://instagram.com/mrsexsmith
https://theoreads.com/
http://writingspicy.com/
http://sugarbutch.net/
Quotes from Sinclair Sexsmith:
"I can't stop writing. Like, I need to write to understand myself and understand the world."
"I think writer's block is a myth."
"I love the inner world stuff and I think writing is one of the best places to express that."
"I want to encourage more queers and trans folks, and like kinky folks, to write down their stories."
Made with the assistance of headliner ai
Sinclair's Books: (affiliate links) "Your Year in Kink" Workbook https://amzn.to/3WdrOUH
"The Harder She Comes: Butch Femme--" https://amzn.to/424GWYb
Ruan's Books in video:
"In Scarlet's House" https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/inscarletshouse
"Wingless Hunger" https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshunger
"The Siren Who Couldn't Sing" https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesirenwhocouldntsing
#lgtbq
Protectors: A Warrior's Requiem, Chronicles of Protectors, Audiobook with superheroes, time travel, steamy scenes, intrigue, queer characters LGTBQ
https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/protectorsaudiobook
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1h 18min
January 18, 2025 Crafting Gothic Romance, Romantasy, and the Art of Erotic Storytelling with Author Nikki Flynn
Ep 549: Crafting Gothic Romance, Romantasy, and the Art of Erotic Storytelling with Author Nikki Flynn.
Exploring the Depths of Romantasy with Author Nikki Flynn. Join Ruan Willow as she delves into the imaginative world of author Nikki Flynn, a versatile writer whose works span the genres of fantasy, horror, and romantasy. In this episode, Ruan and Nikki discuss the intricacies of writing across genres, the importance of subverting tropes, and the creative process behind Nikki's latest projects, including her modern gothic romance, "Wanting Fangs: A Modern Gothic Romance" (excerpt at the beginning of the episode). Find it on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited (affiliate link, podcast may receive commissions on sales, thank you for the support!) https://amzn.to/3PdJfQZ
Nikki shares her journey from avid reader to author, highlighting the influence of her academic background in psychology, philosophy, and criminology on her writing. Discover how Nikki weaves complex characters and unexpected plot twists into her stories, crafting narratives that challenge conventional storytelling.
Explore the role of erotic elements in Nikki's work, her approach to character development, and the challenges of balancing fantasy and romance in her novels.
Whether you're a fan of vampires, werewolves, or intricate world-building, this episode offers a captivating look into the mind of a talented author.
00:00:28 - Nikki Flynn writes against expectations with subverted tropes or underutilized situations
00:02:26 - One easy way to promote your work is to make it easy for yourself
00:04:31 - Your book has erotic elements
00:08:21 - Main love interest or like love interests
00:13:27 - Tell us about your favorite character though. Sebastian's teenage son Gideon
00:14:27 - What brought you to wanting to add some erotic elements to the story
00:22:02 -teenage son does most of his meddling through texting
00:23:52 - She started writing as a child and then expanded into multiple genres
00:29:52 - You'll end up a villain in a book.
00:30:31 - I got the idea for modern Gothic romance from a dream
00:36:40 - You would really have to work to make it stay serious at that point
00:38:42 - Do you tend to start with your characters or your plot idea first when writing
00:45:01 - Do you find that your writing and reading tastes align
00:49:40 - Do you experience writer's block
00:55:27 - There are so many different ways people write when they're writing
00:58:37 - Sometimes there's a typo in a story or a book
01:00:12 - So what are you working on now that you can share with people
01:11:29 - Do you think jargon dictates the genre of the book when writing intimate scenes
headliner app
Connect with Nikki: https://nsflynnwriter.wixsite.com/nikkiflynn https://bsky.app/profile/flynnbulwinter.bsky.social
Ruan's ARC Romantasy The Siren Who Couldn't Sing https://booksirens.com/book/S9V46LO/QZKZJU1
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1h 29min
January 10, 2025 Cowgirl Hookup in the Sauna Excerpt & Writing with Erotic Imagination, Exploration, and Bisexuality with Author Christian Pan
Episode 547:
Cowgirl Sex in the Sauna Excerpt & Writing with Erotic Imagination, Exploration, and Bisexuality with Author Christian Pan. Writer's chat! We discuss writing in the genre of spicy fiction and indie publishing.
🗣️ Quotes from Christian Pan
"I think there's more possibilities than only having the erotic writing be designed for getting the reader off."
"I try to stimulate as much of ourselves above the neck as I am stimulating a reader below the chest and below the waist."
"I feel like there's really boundlessness to fiction writing."
🗣️ Quotes from Ruan Willow
"Writing really is an intimate thing. You're being intimate with these characters. You're getting to see and feel what they're doing, their lives."
"Sex and love are like, the most important things in the world."

Join Ruan Willow in a captivating conversation with Christian Pan, a prolific author who has published over 100 erotic short stories in 18 books since 2021. In this episode, they dive into Christian's journey as a writer, his unique approach to storytelling, and the intricate layers of erotic fiction.
Christian shares insights into his creative process, discussing how he finds inspiration from everyday experiences and the world around him. He opens up about the challenges and triumphs of writing erotica, exploring themes of sexuality, identity, and the human experience. Discover how Christian navigates the complexities of writing bisexual characters and the importance of representation in the genre.
As they delve deeper into the world of erotic fiction, Christian and Ruan discuss the evolving landscape of self publishing, the impact of technology on the industry, and the significance of platforms like Theo Reads that champion creative freedom. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the art of storytelling and the limitless possibilities of erotic fiction.

00:00:25 Christian Pan has published more than 100 erotic short stories since 2021
00:02:12 You have quite the array of things you've done. And all your publishing is fantastic
00:03:56 So what do you tend to focus on for tropes in your erotica
00:05:17 You sound like you start with an idea and then the characters come after
00:07:04 Do you think of yourself more of a plotter or pantser
00:12:05 Fiction is a useful kind of art form, like other art forms
00:13:33 You like to add sex to your writing in some stories
00:15:29 Some people review erotic writing as sex work, which floors me
00:20:10 5 simple steps to being a successful self published RO author
00:22:43 Why are you writing? What is compelling you to do it?
00:23:27 How would you define success as a writer?
00:28:16 Did you start with writing erotica or have you written other genres
00:49:26 You do include bisexuality in your work
00:52:19 Bisexuality is often presented as multiple partner or a threesome
00:56:43 When I was a college student in New York City, no one was bisexual
01:01:39 I personally cheer every time someone creates a new erotica book
01:03:02 Do you have a favorite book or a favorite character that you created
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For more info or to get in touch www.christianpanerotica.com.
The Best Bi Erotica of the Year, Volume One (I edited & created this anthology, and it features 15 contributing writers.)
Reunion (most recent novella. MM erotic romance)
French Kiss (short story collection with Jenna Citrus & Simone de Boudoir, same-sex, opposite-sex, groupsex stories)
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I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge
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1h 27min
January 09, 2025 The Blow Job, My Night as a Truck Stop Hooker written by Kirsten McCurran, and erotic fiction excerpt
Ep 553: The Blow Job, My Night as a Truck Stop Hooker written by Kirsten McCurran, and erotic fiction excerpt narrated by the podcast host Ruan Willow.
"Kirsten McCurran" is a bestselling wife and husband writing team who've been sharing their sexy stories for over a decade. They love dreaming up fantasies about typical suburban couples finding their kinky side. Find Kirsten McCurran wherever ebooks are sold.
Get the spicy book! Erotica excerpt from: the charity anthology fiction book Not So Guilty Pleasures: 45+ Filthy Stories for a Cause, ALL PROCEEDS GO TO WORLD CENTRAL KITCHEN FOR HELP WITH HURRICANE RELIEF https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/charityanthology
(any money made from my affiliate link usage to buy the anthology will also be donated to the same charity). It is also in Kindle Unlimited (for a limited time).

Anthology Blurb: We've got a smorgasbord of steamy delights that'll make your toes curl and your cheeks flush. From forbidden fruit to second helpings of love, we've got more flavors than your local ice cream shop - and trust us, you'll want to sample them all. Whether you like your romance sweet and subtle or hot enough to set off smoke alarms, we've got a story to tickle your fancy (and maybe a few other places).
So go ahead, indulge in these not-so-guilty pleasures. After all, it's for charity - you're practically a saint!
Not-So-Guilty Pleasures is a charity anthology benefiting World Central Kitchen (for help with the hurricane relief).
Did you play Holiday Spicy Book Bingo? Turn in your game cards now! Learn more here: https://geni.us/BingoCard
Exercise your sexuality daily! Sexual health is mental health! Marinate in your sexuality daily and enjoy your relationships, cherish them! Enjoy the spicy entertainment!
Emma's Policy, a new audiobook $7.99, a very taboo male domination, humiliation, degradation, blackmail, BDSM, manipulation, a VERY DARK kinks audiobook I just narrated and is now released. Find out more here: https://alltheseroadworks.com/product/emmas-policy-audiobook-narrated-by-ruan-willow/
Podcast Host Ruan Willow's Books:
http://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/
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Subscribe for exclusive episodes: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1599808/subscribe
Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow
https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow
I Dare You book https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/idareyouthesaturdaysexchallenge
...more
21min

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