From coup to Kimye, this week was rife with conflict. Allow us to give you a MasterClass in how to apologize! Based on Mia Mingus' work in transformative justice and with the Apology Lab, we review the four parts of accountability and learn how to craft these components into a genuine, full-assed apology. Also, we issue a few apologies of our own and demand one or two in return. 

https://leavingevidence.wordpress.com/2019/12/18/how-to-give-a-good-apology-part-1-the-four-parts-of-accountability/ 

New year, new strain! In the first episode of 2021, the ladies recap the holidays, and discuss skincare, the B117 variant, Assassin’s Creed, and the remaining chapters of Esther Perel’s Mating in Captivity. Tune in to learn how your parents (and the Puritans) fucked up your sex life!

This week, the girlies attended a live taping of SNL and then discuss SNL (Sex N Love.) Using therapist and sexpert Ester Perel’s Mating in Captivity as a guide, we dissect the differences between love and desire, intimacy through touch versus talk, and the controversial idea that democracy does not work in the government nor the bedroom! Merry Chrimmis slutskies!

Inspired by BIG MOUTH S4, the girlies (fondly?) recall Puberty -- acne, first periodts, and furiously masturbating on family vacations. Also, Caroline finds a dildo on her doorstep, and a holiday gift guide for the boomers in your life!

So your partner wants to bump uglies, but you taint in the mood? Well you're in luck because Kob, Doyle, and the good folks at WikiHow got your back (and your bussy)! In this ep, the girlies respond to listener comments from our previous pubic episode, debunk some sexual myths, and discuss how to get in the mood to get nude, dude! 

On today's Unhinged, Kob and Caroline are joined by the girlies (Annabel, Sabina, and Rachel) to roundtable a topic on everyone's lips (and in everyone's teeth!): pubic hair. We run the Queen's Gamut of pube culture: from bald to bush to boy bush, butt bush, and Bush/Cheney. Yes, we had to get drunk and high to discuss this, and yes, you can tell! Normalize body hair and follow our girlies on Twitter: @annabel_meschke, @sabinameschke, @RACH4_theSTARZ. 

On this week’s Unhinged, the girlies continue to Unfuck their IntimacyTM with the help of Faith Harper’s workbook of the same name. Using the book as a guide, they examine their early relationships to s-e-x, namely what it was like being a slutty little whore versus a closeted lady incel in college, and how that experimentation or lack thereof has informed their current relationships to love and pleasure (i.e. not buying your first vibrator until age 25+.) Listen along as they dismantle their shame, armchair analyze their opposite histories and fantasies, and bond over a very formative scene from the 2011 film Bridesmaids. Happy Thanksgiving from ours to yours -- we'll be back next week with new Unhinged and date episodes, ya stupid sluts (reclaimed term of endearment.) 

Kob and Doyle are back to their matchmaking ways! This week, we set up Rosie and Will because 1. They’re both from Connecticut, 2. They both work in schools (indoor and outdoor), and 3. They’re both children of divorce (if your parents are still together... grow up)! Listen along as these two lovebirds dox their first ever crushes (first and last names!), and discuss milk, feeling sexy (separate topics), being intellectuals on The Apps, and meeting your heroes (in this case, Will's BK-based sketch group, Simple Town.) We’ll be back with a new date episode after Thanksgiving, which we are definitely not celebrating!

It’s a rainy week in Brooklyn, and on today’s Unhinged, it’s raining MEN! The Pod’s resident BoysTM, Rory and Free, sit down with us girlies to mansplain the cishet male experience and answer the age-old question: do boys talk to their bois about sex/love? Listen along as these two dope dog dads discuss being the sons of slutty fathers, what makes them feel sexy, and liking “cool sex.”