OK Vibes

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  • When Friends Become Family–Pt. 1

    Is blood thicker than water? Justine explores this ideology with two returning guests: classy mom of three and herbal enthusiast, Autiiee J, plus polyamory historian, author, and podcaster, ElReco "Ghost" Ramon. In this first of a two-part covo, the trio gets into how their families affected their senses of self and how the next generation is embracing individuality versus groupthink on a kin level.


    Part of this episode is available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2018/02/12/when-friends-become-family/

    46 min
  • I’m Now a Cat Mom-Mom

    Meow meow meow meow...JJ (@CyneTyme) returns for a cat chat with Justine. Stories about their feline experiences are shared, and as usual, JJ says something questionable. #AdoptDontShop


    This episode is also available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2021/03/08/im-now-a-cat-mom-mom/

    37 min
  • The B-style in Japan

    Long live the debate on cultural appropriation versus cultural appreciation! Justine revisits the Japanese B-Style controversy and wishes for a diverse panel committee.


    Sources:

    • Black lifestyle in Japan - vpro Metropolis | https://youtu.be/_Qe4AZRkFYE
    • 'B-Stylers' Are Japanese Teens Who Want to Be Black | https://www.vice.com/en/article/9bzqdp/b-style-japan-desir-van-den-berg-photos
    • B-Style is Not a Thing | https://medium.com/thsppl/b-style-is-not-a-thing-868db217cb6f
    • Are Japanese B-Stylers Racist? - The Jim Jefferies Show | https://youtu.be/SkSBcRDhjN0?si=DohxSs8bEzwiTgR4
    • This episode is also available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2011/11/15/the-b-style-in-japan/

      40 min
    • Con-drag-ulations!

      Shantay, you stay! Justine gushes over her love for RuPaul in this episode dedicated to the world-renowned author, artist, and mother of many drag queens. If you can't love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else?


      Sources:

      • Reality Competition Program: 75th Emmy Awards | https://youtu.be/tdlFV6da6R0?si=xLby8KwV72DwkNbi
      • RuPaul interview on Arsenio 1993 | https://youtu.be/WbINxJJY7u4?si=plLW9hPbK2SbDjNr
      • RuPaul interviewed by Arsenio February 20, 2014 (full) | https://youtu.be/wwkQg9IQFM0?si=hhMRq_Km2e6t0a3T
      • This episode is also available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2011/04/27/con-drag-ulations/

        34 min
      • Book It

        Are you a bookworm to the core? Justine has always been into reading books and shares her thoughts on the good and questionable ink she partook in during 2023. #ReadOrDie


        Check out Drake Said My Name (Justine) by AfroBanger on SoundCloud! https://soundcloud.com/afrobanger/drake-said-my-name-justine


        This episode is available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2023/01/16/book-it/

        This episode is also linked to a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2023/11/20/slaying-my-2023-reading-challenge/

        43 min
      • Monogamy is a Choice, Not a Must–Pt. 2

        ElReco "Ghost" Ramon continues filling Justine in on his experience with alternative forms of companionship and offers strong advice to the poly-curious. Highly jealous individuals need not apply!

        This episode is linked to a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2013/01/11/monogamy-is-a-choice-not-a-must/

        58 min
      • Monogamy is a Choice, Not a Must–Pt. 1

        As promised, ElReco "Ghost" Ramon (@multimonogamous on Instagram) returns to discuss his experience as a solo poly individual. Justine and "Ghost" also touch on sex drive compatibility, controlling your narrative, the colonization of certain terms, and more!

        This episode is also available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2013/01/11/monogamy-is-a-choice-not-a-must/

        1 hr 1 min
      • Too Old to Get Drunk

        Shots, shots, shots, shots, shots, everybody! Justine reveals her liquor limitations and then gets into the history of tiki drinks. Did you know "tropical" and "tiki" aren't synonymous?

        Sources:

        • Tiffany Haddish Partied Too Hard In Miami | Netflix Is A Joke: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wOJY4Oh3-9M
        • One Mai Tai, Hold the Colonialism Please: https://www.eater.com/2019/10/7/20895319/tiki-tropical-drinks-colonialism-appropriation-lost-lake-pina-colada
        • This episode is also available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2018/02/26/too-old-to-get-drunk/

          43 min
        • Defining New Habits

          New year, same you? Justine talks about the importance of defining new habits as opposed to making New Year's resolutions, and why a book she had in progress nine years ago is on hold. Work with yourself, not against yourself!


          Intro Source: Resolution Revolution - SNL | https://youtu.be/9lnkgrJtiyU?si=D6LMQHYuelqtat_M


          This episode is also available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2015/02/19/defining-new-habits/


          39 min
        • Farcical Holidays

          Chesnuts roasting on an open...lie? Justine shares the history of modern Christmas and the origins of Santa's little Hellian, Krampus. #TeamKrampus


          Sources:

          • Weekend Update: Krampus on Kidnapping Naughty Children - SNL | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LgJ6lWIwJnY
          • History of Christmas | https://www.history.com/topics/christmas/history-of-christmas#is-christmas-really-the-day-jesus-was-born
          • Have you been naughty? Then beware: Krampus is coming | https://today.usc.edu/have-you-been-naughty-then-beware-krampus-is-coming/#
          • This episode is available as a blog post: https://okvibes.wordpress.com/2021/11/29/farcical-holidays/

            41 min

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          An audio extension (limited series) of the OK Vibes blog by indie authoress, @JustineMonikue