Okay Kiasi

In this week's episode, we talk about our view on money and how our parent's approach to finances affected our outlook. We also take a deep dive into understanding what our relationship with money looks like based on the article below.

https://www.wespath.org/health-well-being/health-well-being-resources/financial-well-being/understand-your-relationship-with-money

How does your education affect your thinking? In this episode we discuss our education history and the importance our parents placed on doing well at school. We also discuss the 70-20-10 rule developed by the Center for Creative Leadership. While the theory is used in organization training development,  we explore how much of our learning can be attributed to experience, exposure and education.

Have you heard of attachment styles? According to the attachment theory, there are 4 attachment styles which develop early in life and affect your relationships. After our chat in the last two episodes, we decided to take the free quiz and share our results and our thoughts about them in this episode. As always, we encourage you to also do the quiz and learn how it affects your relationship behavior.

Attachment Style Quiz https://quiz.attachmentproject.com/

Attachment Style Article https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/attachment-theory-and-the-4-attachment-styles#:~:text=The%20four%20attachment%20styles%20are,considered%20types%20of%20insecure%20attachment.

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We’re talking about loin springers! This week, we take a deep dive into our individual relationship history and how we feel about marriage and children. We also had a special guest, Chiku’s husband Christian, join us to share his perspective on our family dynamic and how it has affected their relationship.

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At the end of season one we asked you what you want to hear from us in the upcoming season and relationships was the number one response. In this episode we talk about how our upbringing affects our relationships, both romantically and within friendships.This episode is very vulnerable. We give a trigger warning (very on brand for us) so grab your box of tissues and enjoy the episode!

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Who needs haters when you have aunties? In our first episode of season 2, we start off on a lighter note and talk about some out of pocket things we’ve been told by aunties. We reached out to our followers on Instagram to chime in on their aunty stories. Join us as we discuss some of the unsolicited “umenona” aunty comments!

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As we’ve spoken about our experiences, we’ve been clear about the importance of seeking professional guidance and how therapy has helped each one of us on our personal journey. For the second bonus episode, we brought Faith Gichanga, a counseling therapist to give us her views on some of the topics we tackled. Hear her thoughts on grief, divorce and the church supporting divorcees.

Here's where you can find Faith:

Facebook https://www.facebook.com/psychologistfaith.ke/

Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@psychologistfaith.ke

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/psychologistfaith.ke/ 

Article https://www.pd.co.ke/lifestyle/making-religious-institutions-safe-for-the-divorced-140704/

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So we already discussed this in season 1 but let’s bring some research in. In this bonus episode, we explore the effects birth order has on your personality based on the theory of Alfred Adler. Join us as we explore and learn more on the characteristics, strengths and weaknesses of our personalities.

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In the final episode of Season 1 we talk about our faith foundation, our disappointments, disillusionment and what we really believe. Spoiler Alert - It’s Love! We believe in Love!

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What are some things you should do or avoid if you are navigating parenthood in a difficult season of marriage? In this episode, we share some pointers based on our experience growing up with divorced parents.

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