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A melted iced chai, a perfect box of McDonald’s fries, and an e‑bike cruising a 55‑mph lane shouldn’t add up to a conversation about mental health, bioethics, and public health—but that’s where the week takes us. We start with the small irritations that punch above their weight (Starbucks misses, Instacart fails, free pie Wednesdays, and the eternal sweatshirt purge) and follow the thread into why tiny frictions say so much about control, comfort, and how we keep it together when the world won’t cooperate.

From there, we swing through pop culture—Taylor Swift’s new tracks, misheard lyrics, and why upbeat joy can be as disruptive as heartbreak—before plunging into a true crime rabbit hole that surfaces tough questions: What do we do with fractured memory, psychosis, and the limits of accountability? How do we care for people when stigma and access still lag decades behind the science? We unpack schizophrenia’s complexity, the role of genetics and environment, and why two brains with the same diagnosis can look completely different on imaging.

The second half goes deep on systems: assisted choice and autonomy with real safeguards, the perverse incentives that rush primary care and underpay mental health pros, and the realities of clinical trials for rare diseases—from first-in-human phases to the impossible triage families face when hope is scarce. We talk consent, equity, and how to expand research without exploiting desperation. Along the way, we keep it candid, a little unhinged, and always grounded in real life: better guardrails for gun access, safer streets, and policies that treat neighborhoods like patients.

If you’re into honest talk that connects everyday chaos to the bigger picture—mental health, genetics, ethics, and the practical fixes that make life livable—you’ll feel at home here. Hit play, send this to a friend who loves both fries and philosophy, and tell us: what would you change first? Subscribe, rate, and leave a review to help more curious minds find the show.

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A mid-trimester lull doesn’t have to be dull. We trade quick hits on school tests, first-car boundaries, and the patience it takes to land that first job for deeper dives into what we’re reading and why it matters. From a fast-paced thriller to three standout nonfiction picks on depression, OCD, and Williams syndrome, we explore how good books stretch empathy, clarify language, and change the way we show up for people we love. These aren’t just summaries—they’re jumping-off points for better conversations at home.

Life outside the mic gets real, too. A possum upends our tiny homestead and turns animal care into emergency triage; a neighbor helps with a raccoon; the bunnies con their way into a live trap—twice. We build a warmer space, literally and figuratively: a new hutch for cold swings, a refreshed studio with paint and a couch, and a slow plan for cameras so we can bring more of this chaos to YouTube without losing the thread. Between coughs and grocery runs, we also unpack the uneasy allure of true crime. Monster season three’s Ed Gein arc sparks a wider look at how isolation, control, and untreated illness shape notorious cases—and how to stay human while watching.

We keep it light where we can—would-you-rather showdowns, bad jokes, and a tease for a returning friend who always brings a little chaos—the good kind. If you’re navigating teen milestones, curious about mental health reads, or just craving honest talk that moves from heavy to hilarious without whiplash, you’ll feel at home here. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs a smart, warm listen this week, and drop a review to help more people find the show. What should we read or watch next? We’re taking recs.

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Ever wondered what happens when two brutally honest friends with different viewpoints tackle everything from helicopter parenting to grief? Kelli welcomes Emily for a conversation that pulls zero punches while showcasing the beauty of friendship across perspectives.

The duo starts by calling out the alarming trend of twenty-somethings who still have their parents make doctor appointments and call in sick to work for them. As healthcare professionals, they share jaw-dropping stories of adult patients who look to mom before answering basic medical questions. "Cut the cord, stop enabling them," Emily declares, as Kelli recounts how she's fostering independence in her teenage son by having him handle his own medical appointments.

Their frustration extends to America's healthcare and insurance systems, which they colorfully describe as "the biggest fucking scam." From delayed cancer diagnoses to astronomical car insurance rates for teenage drivers, they highlight how these systems fail ordinary people while padding corporate profits.

In a refreshingly frank discussion about female sexuality, they challenge misconceptions about women's desire. "If you want your woman to want you, you gotta preheat the oven," Kelli explains, highlighting how emotional connection and non-sexual intimacy serve as essential foreplay for most women. Their candid advice offers a roadmap for healthier relationships and more fulfilling intimacy.

The conversation takes a poignant turn when Emily reflects on the one-year anniversary of her friend Patrick's death. "Grief is never linear for anybody," she shares, describing how emotions can blindside you when least expected. Their nuanced take on public grieving reveals a compassionate understanding that each person's grief journey looks different.

Between weighty topics, they share hilarious stories from their epic 12-hour adventure at the State Fair, complete with unexpected friendships with vendors and traditions honoring loved ones. Their ability to move between profound emotional depth and lighthearted humor showcases the podcast's unique appeal.

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The dynamic mother-son duo has returned for an incredible fifth season, and the growth is remarkable. MacDog, once our seventh-grade podcast rookie, now navigates the complex world of eleventh grade with his signature blend of sarcasm, wisdom, and teenage nonchalance.

This season premiere captures the essence of what makes this relationship so special – authentic conversation that ranges from academic frustrations to major milestones. MacDog's recent driver's test success marks a significant shift in independence, though his description of the D and V as "a shit show" reminds us that some experiences remain universally frustrating across generations. The excitement of driving to McDonald's and Target solo represents that beautiful, terrifying moment when parents begin loosening the reins.

The junior year academic experience comes alive through MacDog's candid classroom rundown. His struggle with cabinetry class ("the machines are confusing"), half-remembered Spanish phrases, and passionate hatred for graphs in Algebra 2 paint a vivid picture of high school challenges. Meanwhile, family connections remain strong through weekend barbecues, dinner outings for pulled pork sandwiches, and trips to Minnehaha Falls complete with Italian ice tastings.

What truly shines is their unfiltered banter – from the would-you-rather game involving awkward public nudity versus unfortunate bathroom accidents to a string of groan-worthy dad jokes that only a mother could love. Their easy back-and-forth captures the special dynamic that has made this podcast a favorite for parents navigating the teenage years.

As they wrap up with confused Spanish phrases and promises of "more stories MacDog doesn't want shared," listeners are left eagerly anticipating what junior year will bring. Subscribe now to join this journey through the triumphs, embarrassments, and everyday moments that make the teenage years simultaneously maddening and magical.

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What happens when you combine a prodigal bunny's homecoming, Minnesota State Fair planning, and a first-time psychic experience? This episode delivers a perfect blend of everyday chaos and profound reflection that will have you nodding along one minute and contemplating life's bigger questions the next.

When Kelli welcomes guest host Emily to the podcast, their natural chemistry immediately shines through as they trade stories about everything from the dramatic return of a runaway bunny named Dixie to their detailed strategy for conquering the Minnesota State Fair. Their fair planning conversation—complete with debates about church bus shortcuts and the merits of personal cooling fans—captures that uniquely Midwestern determination to enjoy summer traditions despite rising costs and practical challenges.

The conversation takes several delightful detours, including Emily's experience at a Savannah Bananas baseball game (described as "the Harlem Globetrotters of baseball"), candid discussions about physical comfort in public spaces, and an unexpectedly deep dive into the HBO show "Hunting Wives." Their willingness to embrace both the ridiculous and the profound makes for a listening experience that feels like eavesdropping on two friends who've forgotten anyone else is in the room.

Perhaps most compelling is Emily's reflection on her first psychic reading as she approaches the one-year anniversary of losing her close friend Patrick. Her honest account of seeking connection beyond the physical realm resonates whether you're a believer or skeptic. The episode concludes with a gentle wisdom about grief—that perhaps those we've lost aren't constantly watching over us but are "living their own life now," allowing us permission to continue ours.

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The prodigal son returns! After a lengthy absence, Maccoy finally rejoins Kelli on the podcast, and the chemistry is immediate. "I'm not saying my ratings depend on him," Kelli jokes, "but let's be honest. This is either about to skyrocket or crash and burn spectacularly."

What follows is a whirlwind catch-up of summer adventures, unexpected encounters, and the kind of conversations that only happen when these two get together. Maccoy shares the saga of his Amazon e-bike's untimely demise (and resurrection), while Kelli recounts their successful garage sale weekend that netted her over $600 – though Maccoy only managed to earn a meager $44 from his contributions. The stories take a delightful detour when their recording is interrupted by news that their escape-artist bunny Dixie (aptly nicknamed "the prison breaker" and "Damnit Dixie") has been captured by a neighbor and returned home.

Their summer escapades continue with tales from the Anoka knife and gun show, where Maccoy volunteered to get zapped by a stun gun demonstration, and their visit to the Safari Zoo in Brainerd where they fed giraffes and Kelli fell in love with alpacas again. Meanwhile, Kelli shares her latest psychological thriller recommendations from authors Lucinda Berry and Minka Kent, though Maccoy quickly clarifies he's "not a reader." The episode wraps with a hilarious debate over whether it's better to give up showering or internet for a month, with Maccoy's solution being to simply "Febreze himself" rather than bathe.

Join us for this reunion episode filled with laughter, unpredictable tangents, and the undeniable chemistry that makes this podcast impossible to predict but always entertaining. Follow us on all social platforms and subscribe to never miss an episode – because with Maccoy back in the co-host chair, who knows what might happen next!

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What happens when the veil between worlds grows thin enough to glimpse what lurks beyond? Bob Dominguez, seasoned Bigfoot researcher and paranormal investigator, takes us on a mind-bending journey through the shadowy realm where cryptids and the supernatural converge.

Ever wondered why Bigfoot bodies are never found? According to wildlife biologist John Benderneagle, "If a Bigfoot doesn't want to be found, it's not going to be found." These elusive giants combine animal-level senses with human intelligence, vanishing into vast wilderness or—as some witnesses claim—stepping into interdimensional portals that swallow them whole.

The conversation ventures into electromagnetic phenomena that connect both paranormal activity and cryptid sightings. Bob shares his groundbreaking theory that Bigfoot may actually weaponize electromagnetic fields found along power line right-of-ways, intensifying fear in witnesses who encounter them. This could explain why people often flee in terror rather than documenting their experiences.

From the Mothman prophecies of Point Pleasant to government conspiracy theories involving MK-Ultra experiments, we explore how cryptid encounters might be manufactured, genuine, or something far stranger. The mysterious figure Indrid Cold—a "smiling man" in anachronistic clothing who appeared before tragedy struck—raises questions about entities that exist outside our normal understanding of reality.

Most fascinating are accounts suggesting Bigfoot and other cryptids might be more than flesh and blood. Native American wisdom holds these creatures as spiritual beings, while multiple witnesses report seeing them disappear into thin air or step through portals leading to arctic environments. Even psychics who help with paranormal cases often refuse to assist with alien encounters, believing these beings exist outside normal temporal constraints.

Whether you're a skeptic wanting to understand the psychology behind these phenomena or a believer seeking validation, this episode challenges everything you thought you knew about what lurks in the shadows. Subscribe now and join us as we venture beyond the boundaries of the known world—just remember to look behind you when searching for Bigfoot, because the one you see might just be the distraction.

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When Kelli's son Mac ditches the podcast for summer fun, she brings in the "slightly unhinged" Emily as guest co-host for an episode that careens between book recommendations, serious social commentary, and hilarious tangents.

The conversation opens with a deep dive into psychological thrillers, including "Phantom Limb" by Lucinda Berry—a novelist who draws from her experience as a child trauma psychologist. This leads to a fascinating discussion about childhood resilience and the profound impacts of early trauma. The hosts explore the complexities of mental health conditions like OCD and autism, offering thoughtful perspectives on how neurological differences affect both those diagnosed and their loved ones.

In a standout segment, Kelli delivers a passionate PSA about birth control misconceptions, emphasizing that "pulling out is Russian roulette" and that condoms, vasectomies, and tubal ligation all count as legitimate birth control methods. The conversation shifts to the complex topic of elective abortion, with both hosts expressing concerns about how political polarization has created dangerous conditions for healthcare workers.

The episode lightens up with a hilarious breakdown of newly announced Minnesota State Fair foods (mostly disappointments), debates about the meaning of "doozy," and a surprisingly practical discussion about a post-intimacy hygiene product called the "drip stick." Throughout it all, Kelli and Emily's chemistry shines as they navigate both heavy topics and lighthearted banter with equal authenticity.

Whether you're looking for book recommendations, candid conversations about reproductive health, or just want to hear two friends dissect bizarre fair foods with brutal honesty, this episode delivers with warmth, humor, and zero filter. Listen now and join the conversation by sharing your thoughts on these topics!

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What happens when the dating pool shrinks but your standards don't? In this refreshingly candid conversation, Kelli welcomes special guest co-host Robert "Bigfoot Bob" Dominguez for an unfiltered look at dating in later life and the courage it takes to stay true to yourself while navigating romantic possibilities.

Robert shares his personal journey of remaining deliberately single while fielding well-intentioned matchmaking attempts from friends and family. He articulates something many of us feel but rarely admit: the desire to experience that unmistakable "bolt of lightning" connection rather than settling for comfortable companionship. His story about backing out of a date with his fourth-grade crush reveals the complexity of timing, chemistry, and knowing your own heart.

The conversation weaves through dating app hesitations, relationship red flags (speaking negatively about family members), and green flags (consideration for others) that signal compatibility. Robert's perspective has been profoundly shaped by his health challenges, giving him a unique appreciation for life's simple pleasures – from walking on gravel to taking showers independently – while making him thoughtfully selective about who he might share his life with.

What emerges is a powerful narrative about contentment, patience, and the underrated value of waiting for the right connection rather than forcing relationships that don't feel aligned. Robert's loyalty, self-awareness, and willingness to admit when he's wrong highlight qualities that make for lasting partnerships whenever the timing is right.

Whether you're actively dating, taking a break, or happily coupled, this episode offers wisdom about honoring your instincts and finding fulfillment regardless of relationship status. The question isn't just whether you've been together for decades – it's whether you still like each other after all that time.

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The Minnesota Mini State Fair wrapped up, and this episodic adventure with guest co-host Emily Hince captures all the chaotic goodness you'd expect from two friends let loose among food vendors and craft booths. From the moment we arrive, we're on a mission to indulge in every essential fair experience.

Our culinary journey begins with the mandatory Mouth Trap cheese curds - a unanimous favorite - before discovering the heavenly combination of warm mini apple pie topped with cinnamon ice cream. We share a passionate plea to ice cream manufacturers everywhere: why isn't cinnamon a standard flavor option? The food sampling continues with Tot Boss loaded tater tots and nachos and slushies, all strategically shared to maximize our tasting potential without falling into a complete carb coma.

Between bites, we encounter memorable fair moments including a particularly eyebrow-raising sight of a woman simultaneously breastfeeding while downing a 16-ounce beer (and ordering two more to go). The people-watching at these events truly remains unmatched, rivaled only by our own misadventures - breaking a wine glass at a vendor's booth and later spending 20 minutes desperately searching for a bright blue car in a sea of seemingly identical vehicles.

Shopping becomes another highlight as we continue our annual tradition of getting permanent bracelets, marveling that last year's still look pristine. The Better Goods booth captures our attention with irresistible animal-themed clothing, including a chicken-patterned sweatshirt that I simply couldn't walk away from, inadvertently starting a shopping trend among fairgoers behind us.

As our conversation shifts to recent entertainment picks, we dive into discussions about the Timberwolves playoffs, Ginny and Georgia's latest season, compelling documentaries about the Titan submersible tragedy, and book recommendations featuring psychological thrillers by Lucinda Berry and Lisa Regan. We wrap up celebrating Emily's recent graduation and the strange feeling of finally completing a long educational journey.

Grab your favorite fair snack, settle in, and join us for this quintessential Minnesota summer experience that has us already counting down to the main State Fair - though we're definitely not counting the exact 63 days, because who would do that?

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