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What happens when the dating pool shrinks but your standards don't? In this refreshingly candid conversation, Kelli welcomes special guest co-host Robert "Bigfoot Bob" Dominguez for an unfiltered look at dating in later life and the courage it takes to stay true to yourself while navigating romantic possibilities.

Robert shares his personal journey of remaining deliberately single while fielding well-intentioned matchmaking attempts from friends and family. He articulates something many of us feel but rarely admit: the desire to experience that unmistakable "bolt of lightning" connection rather than settling for comfortable companionship. His story about backing out of a date with his fourth-grade crush reveals the complexity of timing, chemistry, and knowing your own heart.

The conversation weaves through dating app hesitations, relationship red flags (speaking negatively about family members), and green flags (consideration for others) that signal compatibility. Robert's perspective has been profoundly shaped by his health challenges, giving him a unique appreciation for life's simple pleasures – from walking on gravel to taking showers independently – while making him thoughtfully selective about who he might share his life with.

What emerges is a powerful narrative about contentment, patience, and the underrated value of waiting for the right connection rather than forcing relationships that don't feel aligned. Robert's loyalty, self-awareness, and willingness to admit when he's wrong highlight qualities that make for lasting partnerships whenever the timing is right.

Whether you're actively dating, taking a break, or happily coupled, this episode offers wisdom about honoring your instincts and finding fulfillment regardless of relationship status. The question isn't just whether you've been together for decades – it's whether you still like each other after all that time.

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The Minnesota Mini State Fair wrapped up, and this episodic adventure with guest co-host Emily Hince captures all the chaotic goodness you'd expect from two friends let loose among food vendors and craft booths. From the moment we arrive, we're on a mission to indulge in every essential fair experience.

Our culinary journey begins with the mandatory Mouth Trap cheese curds - a unanimous favorite - before discovering the heavenly combination of warm mini apple pie topped with cinnamon ice cream. We share a passionate plea to ice cream manufacturers everywhere: why isn't cinnamon a standard flavor option? The food sampling continues with Tot Boss loaded tater tots and nachos and slushies, all strategically shared to maximize our tasting potential without falling into a complete carb coma.

Between bites, we encounter memorable fair moments including a particularly eyebrow-raising sight of a woman simultaneously breastfeeding while downing a 16-ounce beer (and ordering two more to go). The people-watching at these events truly remains unmatched, rivaled only by our own misadventures - breaking a wine glass at a vendor's booth and later spending 20 minutes desperately searching for a bright blue car in a sea of seemingly identical vehicles.

Shopping becomes another highlight as we continue our annual tradition of getting permanent bracelets, marveling that last year's still look pristine. The Better Goods booth captures our attention with irresistible animal-themed clothing, including a chicken-patterned sweatshirt that I simply couldn't walk away from, inadvertently starting a shopping trend among fairgoers behind us.

As our conversation shifts to recent entertainment picks, we dive into discussions about the Timberwolves playoffs, Ginny and Georgia's latest season, compelling documentaries about the Titan submersible tragedy, and book recommendations featuring psychological thrillers by Lucinda Berry and Lisa Regan. We wrap up celebrating Emily's recent graduation and the strange feeling of finally completing a long educational journey.

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What does it mean to step up when tragedy strikes? In this deeply personal episode, Kelli welcomes her first guest co-host, Robert "Bigfoot Bob" Dominguez from the Bigfoot Club podcast, for a conversation about unexpected parenthood and the profound journey of raising someone else's child.

When Robert's beloved sister Sandra died from cervical cancer, her final wish was for her brother to raise her son Stephen. Already a significant male figure in the boy's life, Robert transitioned from fun uncle to full-time parent overnight, navigating his own grief while helping his nephew through the same devastating loss. "I couldn't yell at him because he lost his mom, which was his only parent, and I lost my favorite sibling," Robert shares, revealing the delicate balance of discipline and compassion required in their situation.

The conversation explores how Robert made Stephen his absolute priority, even ending romantic relationships when partners couldn't accept coming second to his nephew's needs. Kelli relates with her own experiences as a single mom following divorce, and together they discuss the practical challenges and emotional complexities of single parenthood. There's particular poignancy when Robert describes watching Stephen become a father himself, completing a beautiful cycle of care and commitment.

Beyond the specifics of their stories, this episode offers profound insights about chosen family, sacrifice, and unconditional love. It's a testament to the truth that parenting isn't defined by biology but by presence, commitment, and the courage to step up when needed most. Whether you're raising your own children solo, caring for someone else's child, or simply interested in stories of remarkable human connection, this conversation will touch your heart and perhaps change how you think about what makes a family.

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Sometimes life throws you curveballs that force you to adapt on the fly. In this candid solo episode, Kelli opens up about navigating recent mental health struggles while managing her homestead, podcast, and day job as a single mom. When you're feeling overwhelmed, who shows up for you? Kelli shares how her inner circle rallied around her birthday celebration despite her uncharacteristic lack of enthusiasm this year.

Ever wonder what happens when chickens go broody without a rooster? Kelli takes us through her delightful "Three Hens and a Baby" situation—where three maternal hens collectively care for a single hatched chick after she introduced fertilized eggs. But homestead life isn't all baby chicks and sunshine; she's now dealing with her first-ever possum and raccoon sightings threatening her animals.

The episode delves into powerful personal growth concepts from Mel Robbins' "The Let Them Theory," exploring how releasing our need to control others' actions can lead to greater peace and emotional freedom. Kelli shares how the simple mantra "let them" has transformed her daily interactions and perspective on boundaries. She also offers book recommendations, Netflix suggestions, and updates on her plans to declutter her extensive Pyrex collection.

While Maccoy takes a break from podcasting during this summer season, Kelli announces upcoming guest co-hosts including her best friend Emily and Bigfoot Bob. Could a podcast rebranding be in the future? Tune in to this authentic, unfiltered conversation that feels like catching up with a good friend over coffee—complete with homestead drama, mental health insights, and the real-life balancing act we're all trying to master.

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Sunshine, wild rabbits, and teenage attitude collide in this refreshingly authentic episode that captures the beautiful chaos of family life. Kelli opens up about her unexpected new role as a rehabilitator for a tiny wild bunny that fits in the palm of her hand, promising adorable photos for followers willing to join this rescue journey on social media.

The Minnesota weather takes center stage as Kelli candidly shares how dramatically the lack of sunshine affects her mood, creating what she calls her "weather mood disorder" - a relatable struggle for anyone who's experienced seasonal blues. Her excitement about upcoming warmer temperatures reveals how these small environmental changes can dramatically impact our everyday outlook.

The true heart of this episode emerges through the unfiltered mom-son dynamic between Kelli and Mac. Their back-and-forth banter during fifth-grade trivia questions, teenage slang translations, and "would you rather" scenarios perfectly captures the complexity of parenting a teenager. When Kelli directly addresses Mac's recent "struggle bus" behavior - from avoiding chores to showing attitude - listeners get a genuine glimpse into the challenges and frustrations of raising adolescents without the sugar-coating often found in parenting content.

Between these authentic family moments, Kelli shares a thoughtful review of Mary Ellen Taylor's new book "After Paris," explaining how it surprisingly captivated her despite historical fiction not typically being her preferred genre. Her enthusiasm for the dual-timeline narrative and emotional depth demonstrates how the best books can transcend our usual preferences.

The episode wraps with playful threats to "dead leg" each other, showcasing how humor often becomes the safety valve in family relationships. For parents navigating the complex teenage years or anyone who appreciates unfiltered conversations about family life, this episode offers both comfort and comic relief in knowing you're not alone in these everyday struggles.

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A sunburned arm, forgotten Mother's Day acknowledgments, and debates about paper straws might seem like small things, but they're the threads weaving together this wonderfully authentic glimpse into Mac and Kelli's mom-son relationship. Their candid conversation reveals both the friction and fondness that define parent-teen dynamics.

After catching up on recent activities—Kelli's completed patio project and Nurses Week celebrations—the pair drift through topics with the comfortable familiarity that regular listeners have come to love. When Kelli gently confronts Mac about not properly acknowledging Mother's Day, we witness Mac's hilariously reluctant attempt to list what he appreciates about his mom: "You're nice... you're funny..." with Kelli prompting, "Keep going, what's great about me?" It's a moment every parent of a teenager will recognize with a knowing smile.

The episode takes entertaining turns through their respective entertainment choices (Kelli's book recommendations versus Mac's fascination with "The Walking Dead"), before launching into rapid-fire "hot takes" on everything from the superiority of staying up late to the inferiority of paper straws. Their perspectives sometimes align perfectly and other times reveal generational divides—particularly when discussing whether college is necessary for everyone or if astrology holds any truth.

Throughout the conversation, Mac's periodic verbal tic of saying "coping mechanism" adds a layer of endearing quirkiness, while sponsored content about Magic Mind performance shots is woven naturally into their dialogue. The episode concludes with trivia, riddles, and a surprisingly dark "would you rather" scenario that showcases their comfort with hypothetical moral dilemmas.

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A casual mom-son conversation takes unexpected turns through life's everyday moments in this authentically charming episode. What starts as frustration over Minnesota's chaotic spring weather and an uncooperative pressure washer evolves into a revealing discussion about their fundamentally different perspectives on tornado threats – where mom's genuine fear contrasts sharply with her teenage son's blasé attitude toward potential disaster.

The conversation shifts unexpectedly when detention comes up, creating a perfect opportunity for some gentle maternal wisdom. Listen as mom drops profound nuggets about friendship that resonate at any age: good friends respect your boundaries, authentic relationships take time to develop, and you never need to maintain connections with people who are repeatedly unkind. There's something universally touching about these simple truths delivered without preaching, just woven naturally into their banter.

The lighthearted middle section brings surprising facts (did you know MLB baseballs only last about seven pitches?) and playful riddles before launching into a surprisingly philosophical debate about whether it's better to see ten minutes or 150 years into your future. Their contrasting viewpoints reveal fundamentally different approaches to knowledge, fate, and control that will have you questioning which you'd choose.

Throughout it all runs the thread of real family life – dogs leaving "presents" on the floor, chickens and bunnies navigating backyard hierarchies, and the quiet moments of connection between parent and child that happen amid the chaos. Join this mom-son duo for thirty minutes of unfiltered conversation that will leave you smiling, thinking, and perhaps appreciating your own family's quirky dynamics a little more.

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Ever wondered what happens when a Barbie doll takes an unintended journey into places it shouldn't go? This episode delivers an unexpected yet surprisingly educational anatomy lesson that might just save someone from an embarrassing trip to the ER.

Kelli kicks things off with a relatable rant about entitled behavior at the school bus stop, setting the tone for this unfiltered conversation between mom and son. When Mac shares his own school bus drama, it sparks a thoughtful discussion about respect and consequences that resonates with parents everywhere. But things take a memorable turn when Kelli drops a jaw-dropping medical story that leads to crucial anatomical distinctions everyone should understand but few discuss openly.

Between homestead updates featuring Kelli's adorable new bunnies (Trixie, Pixie, and Dixie) and baby chickens adjusting to outdoor life, the pair shares their current entertainment recommendations. Kelli's impressive reading list reveals her appetite for psychological thrillers, while their shared viewing habits show their eclectic taste ranges from "The Walking Dead" to "White Lotus." Their authentic enthusiasm for Magic Mind performance shots provides testimonial evidence of the benefits they've experienced firsthand.

The Easter weekend recap offers a heartwarming glimpse into their non-traditional plans, with bookstore adventures and food-filled gatherings that will have you reminiscing about your own holiday celebrations. Their playful "Which is Worse" game and Mac's confusion over a robot joke showcase the natural chemistry that makes their conversations so engaging.

Don't miss the special bonus at the end – Kelli's radio appearance on 102.9 the Wolf featuring the hilarious saga of Dolly Carton the chicken's narrow escape from becoming dinner. 

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We explore the world of digital photography preservation and organization with Angela Andrieux, photographer, coach, and product evangelist for Mylio Photos.

• Only one in four people properly back up their smartphone photos
• The 3-2-1 backup method ensures memories stay safe: working copy, local backup, and offsite backup
• Mylio Photos helps organize lifetime memories across all devices
• Family plans allow up to 10 people to collaborate on photo organization
• Scanning and digitizing old family photos preserves history for future generations
• Face tagging, geolocation, and calendar features make finding specific memories easy
• Authentic, unposed photos often become the most meaningful over time
• Professional photo managers can help tackle overwhelming photo organization projects

Visit mylio.com to book a free demo and discover how to preserve your precious memories. The Mylio community at communitymylio.com is where Angela personally answers questions and hosts live events.

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How do you know when the universe is sending you a sign? In what might be our most unexpectedly profound conversation yet, Mac and I explore the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) ways life communicates with us during our darkest moments.

After what I described as "one of the shittiest weeks of my life," I found myself reaching for a nighttime t-shirt only to pull out my Christmas shirt with "believe" written across it. Coincidence? Maybe. But it felt like exactly the message I needed, exactly when I needed it. This sparked a fascinating discussion about the different ways we seek meaning during difficult times.

While I've found comfort in morning affirmations (saying "I am lucky and everything is going to go my way" while high-fiving myself in the mirror). Our conversation reveals how deeply personal our coping strategies are, whether through finding signs, practicing affirmations, or just giving ourselves space to heal.

Between deeper moments, we weave through lighter territory - from my obsessive clothing rotation system (which Mac finds utterly baffling) to the fictional chicken "Dolly Carton" who has radio listeners unnecessarily up in arms. We share mind-blowing fun facts (did you know apples float because they're 25% air?) and play trivia games that unexpectedly reveal both what we know and how differently we approach life's challenges.

Whether you're looking for signs from the universe or simply trying to make it through a tough day, this episode reminds us that finding meaning is deeply personal - and sometimes, the most powerful coping mechanism is simply believing that everything will be okay. Share your own experiences with signs and synchronicities - we'd love to hear how the universe speaks to you!

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