In this solo episode, Kate shares her personal experience with spiritual abuse during a mission trip to Kenya. She discusses the dynamics of leadership, manipulation, and the importance of recognizing the signs and patterns of spiritual abuse. Through her story, she highlights the need for a faith framework that can help protect you from the dangers of emotional and spiritual manipulation in religious contexts.
A Personal Note from Kate:
Hey there listener, even though my story isn't a tragic one, the stuff I talk about in this episode is heavy and could be triggering. I am not a licensed mental health professional, so I've linked a trusted resource for support in the show notes below. And while I have comments turned off, I always check my DMs @readingsundays on Instagram. So if there's something that doesn't sit right with you or you're curious about something that felt unresolved, please don't hesitate to reach out. I'm happy to share more or hear about your experiences and learn together. Thanks for listening!
Spiritual abuse can occur in various contexts, including the mainstream, not just cults.
Manipulation often happens in isolation and controlled environments.
Emotional and spiritual manipulation can be subtle and insidious.
Leaders can abuse their power without intending harm or setting out to be malicious.
Over-spiritualization can lead to confusion, neglect and harm.
Spiritual authority should be questioned when it is seeking control.
You can and should trust yourself and your own innate spiritual authority.
Personal growth can emerge from challenging experiences.00:00 Introduction to My Story
03:14 The Mission Trip Experience
20:26 Confronting Leadership and Control
38:17 What You Should Know About Spiritual Abuse
Resources for Survivors of Spiritual and Psychological Abuse