On the Matterr: Motivation for Goal-Getters, Entrepreneurs and Anyone Ready to Level all the way Up!

In this quick solo episode, I share what it means to stay committed to the vision—even when you’re running on empty. If you’re exhausted but still showing up, this one’s for you. Because sometimes, the most powerful thing you can do is keep going.

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In this special compilation, we revisit some of the most powerful moments from recent episodes — from overcoming self-doubt and setting boundaries to breaking free from perfectionism and embracing the fullness of life. Get ready to be inspired, empowered, and reminded that your journey matters.

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This episode is personal.

I sat down with Pastor Esther Maurice to talk about something many of us carry but rarely talk about out loud—grief.
Not just the grief that comes from death…
But the grief of broken dreams, failed relationships, unmet expectations, and the silent heartbreak of becoming who life didn’t let you be.

We talked about how grief and guilt often go hand in hand.
How you can have joy and pain in the same moment—and feel guilty for smiling when your heart still aches.
We talked about what it means to live with open wounds, to walk with faith through the fog of loss, and how God is still present in the broken places.

This conversation is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck between “I’m okay” and “I’m not okay.”
For those grieving quietly while the world moves on.
For the ones chasing purpose with a heavy heart.

You are not alone.
You can feel it all and still move forward.
You can be healing and still be called.
You can be grieving and still believe.

Press play. This one might just shift something in you.

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We pray to win, but what happens when we actually do? In this episode I’m diving deep into the hidden anxiety that comes with stepping into your greatness. Enjoy! 

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Q2 is here—and it’s not too late to reignite your goals and get back on track.
In this solo episode, I’m sharing simple but powerful ways to reset, refocus, and build momentum—starting today.
You don’t need a perfect plan. You just need a fresh start and the courage to take the next step.

Let’s finish strong. Let’s go!
#OnTheMatterr #Q2Reset #MomentumMatters #PurposeDriven

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Sometimes, the key to lasting change isn’t doing more—it’s doing less, but with intention. In this episode, I share how my friend put me on to Divine Direction by Craig Groeschel and the game-changing idea of choosing just one discipline a year to focus on. Craig set himself up for success by setting the bar low—and it worked. Tune in to hear why doing the least might be the smartest way to level up.

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In this powerful episode, I sit down with Obianuju Abba, a certified Christian relationship and femininity coach who has guided hundreds of women worldwide in building godly, fulfilling marriages. Oby shares her incredible journey—her origin story, rising from rock bottom, pivoting her career, understanding the true purpose of Christian marriage, the power of waiting for the right person, and so much more.

This episode is packed with wisdom, faith, and practical gems you don’t want to miss! Tune in now!

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In this powerful episode, licensed therapist Omotoké Adewale dives deep into learned helplessness—explaining how feeling powerless can keep you stuck and what practical steps you can take to break free. If you’ve ever felt that no matter how hard you try, nothing changes, this conversation is for you:

Key Takeaways:

• Understand the roots of learned helplessness

• Discover strategies to reclaim control over your life

• Empower yourself to take actionable steps toward change

Don’t let feelings of powerlessness hold you back any longer.

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Do you ever feel like nothing is ever good enough? Do you hold yourself to impossibly high standards and fear failure so much that it stops you from taking action? In this powerful conversation, licensed marriage and family therapist Omotoké Adewale and I dive into the perfectionism trap—how the need for control fuels anxiety, self-doubt, and burnout, especially for millennials chasing their dreams.

✨ What You’ll Learn in Part 1:

✔ What perfectionism really is and how it manifests

✔ How perfectionism is linked to anxiety and fear of failure

✔ Why millennials struggle with unrealistic expectations 

✔ How to recognize and break free from toxic perfectionism

✔ Practical strategies to move forward with confidence and ease

🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for Part 2, where we’ll discuss the other side of control: learned helplessness and how to RECLAIM YOUR POWER

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Struggling with self-doubt? You’re not alone but what if confidence isn’t something you wait for, but something you create?

In this powerful episode of On the Matterr with Oby, Certified Confidence Coach Jason Phillips breaks down how to stop doubting yourself, silence negative self-talk, and build unshakable confidence in any situation. If you have ever felt stuck, second-guessed your abilities, or struggled to trust yourself, this conversation is your blueprint for change.

We are answering the BIG questions:

• What’s the biggest confidence myth holding you back?
• How does fear create self-doubt and how do you break free?
• Is confidence the cause of action, or the result of it?
• How do you develop true, lasting self-confidence?

Whether you’re battling imposter syndrome, overthinking your decisions, or afraid to take risks, this episode will give you the tools to trust yourself, take action, and finally step into your full potential.

Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more empowering conversations on confidence, self-growth, and success!

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