One Could Argue

The 80/20 rule is considered a cultural "gem" when it comes to finding value in relationships, but it seems that the very thing we think is helping us may be doing complete opposite. In this episode we discuss the concept, its roots in the Pareto Principle and why we may have this whole thing backwards.

It can seem like as a man you’re supposed to be born confident. Lie. That you look in the mirror and like everything you see and go on about your day with an unmatched level of self-esteem. Lie again. In this episode with Art Director (UPSCALE, Radiant Health) and Photographer (Forever 21, Harpers BAZAAR, Vanity Fair, COMPLEX and more) Ahmad Barber - @ahmadbarber, sheds light on dealing with building a healthy male body image, how an unhealthy one effects work, relationships and even networking. Differences between the straight and gay male experience and how he’s working toward a solution through his art. We also talk about his journey, some of his work and get some advice on managing shoots, vision execution and communication with a team. Have a listen!

Passion isn't all its cracked up to be... and maybe that's our fault. In this episode, we talk about what passion means (literally and figuratively), how it relates to hard work and why at the end of the day, we should try to find something else.

In this episode, we discuss what the situation at Starbucks really means and why boycotting the company at this point is absolutely necessary. If you actually care about seeing a change in the world in regards to race-related issues, you can't let this one slide.

This week we're talking about a child's place in protests, why this "unapologetically me" movement seems to be a two-edged sword and the twitter argument that still has me upset, lol. We also have my buddy Ramelro, the "Well, actually" community chairman on this episode as we discuss the art of communication... because who can afford to not get better at that?

On this Episode of One Could Argue we’re discussing Gun Control with Premiere Firearms and Security Trainer Sam Hayes (CNN, FOX, NYT, USA TODAY) of Caliber Training Group. We talk about common misconceptions about gun ownership, mass shootings, the NRA, Women Who Carry and more. Through his 20+ years of experience, we highlight and examine tangible solutions that can start today vs taking years or even worse... never happening at all.

It's birthday week here at OCA! So we're discussing some mindsets that are changing as we approach 30. One being self-worth and how our opinions on what value is has changed. The other being health. Jonathan discusses his weight-loss journey of 150 lbs, finding confidence in the right places and the importance of knowing your REAL community (this doesn't include social media followers).

In part 2 of this conversation, we discuss the side effects of a parents' love. Why you may need to step away from it and why accepting your parents is the only way to find a sense of peace and enjoyment from having them in your life. Regardless of how many you have.

Too often I've been told (and heard) that one should feel fortunate to have two parents as opposed to just one. Without having any idea of who the child's parents are as people or their living conditions, AT ALL! So today with my friend Rup we're discussing parents; the benefits of only having one, the downsides of having two and everything in between from finances to religion. Check it out!

Permission is tricky. It can be hidden in words like "inclusion" or "acknowledgment" or "approval". I think the goal is to find the balance between "permission" and guidance. This week I have my friend Hope on the pod and we're discussing how waiting for permission could very well be the underlying issue keeping revolutions from being revolutionary, whether it's within a cultural, country or human being in general. Using the power we have and building a lasting sense of confidence whether we're accepted or not, especially in this digital age. The power is in permission. Press play!